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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I keep on bleeding each time my boyfriend pokes me.I thought it would be my hymen breaking, but does blood come out every time after that? It's pretty embarassing... but I need help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2007): my girlfriend was a virgin when we first had sex, she bled the first time and every time after that for about 3 months, a little less each time. you need to have plenty of foreplay, use lots of lubricant (we've found silicone based to be best) and get him to go slow at first, try to avoid deep penetrating positions i.e doggy style. and if it does bleed and hurts a little, wait a couple of days to heal and then do it all again. eventually it should stop and you will become more accustomed to his manhood (you will in effect shape to it). hopefully that should all work but to be on the safe side take a trip to the local std clinic and get tested, they can do it from urine and the whole thing is painless and anonymous, they can only contact you and you alone via mobile phone number, email or post. hope that helps and happy humping
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reader, so sick  +, writes (18 August 2007):
You might have hpv...a very VERY common std. A symptom is bleeding during intercourse. Some and most forms of hpv are symptomless but you never know! I would get it checked TRUST ME!! I know from exsperience...I have only had sex with 1 man and I ended up with a strain of hpv that caused me severe cervical dysplaisa within a year. Good luck.
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reader, beautifultrustnlover +, writes (17 August 2007):
 well i agree with all the others go get it checked out and see whats up it may be something and it maybe nothing but only a doctor can really tell you
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reader, lovexgurl19 +, writes (17 August 2007):
 hey you know what, I have that too. i know why it is, its because your boyfriend does you too rough, I get it like that too. So don't worry. I mean I bleed a little but still. Yu can go check, but I think is just because is rought. You might need lubrication, to get wet, because you might be too dry that is why. Hope I could help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): Agreed with other Aunts. When in doubt check it out, dear. Anytime a females bleeds after intercourse, she must get to a doctor or a clinic, immediately. Here is a website that could give you some more information:
http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/menstruation/a/bleedaftersex.htm
If you are nervous about having yourself checked out, take a good female friend along as support. Even better, tell your Mother. She will want to know your health status and will be concerned. Please tell someone. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): I don't know if it is normal or not but you should check with your gyno to rule out anything serious. Because that could be a symptom of something more serious. I have bled after sex and my gyno said it could be std, cervical cancer, or hormonal. But she said it was nothing to worry about. It's just precautionary. And im my case it turned out to be "nothing", supposedly, and to be honest I still don't know why I bled. I wasn't a virgin or anything.
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reader, katypnuts +, writes (17 August 2007):
when i first had a sexual active relationship i bled on and off for about 3 months,dont worry about it its just your body ajusting,the best thing i did was go on the pill it regulates your periods and you shouldnt get any spot bleeding
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): Hey there.
Usually, the hymen only sometimes bleeds when you first have sexual intercourse, but not for everyone.
So it shouldn't bleed when your boyfriend pokes you.
Maybe you should go and see your doctor, i'm pretty sure they will be able to tell you exactly what it is.
I don't want to worry you or anything, but it could be an infection or something.
So i suggest you see a doctor.
Take care, hope i helped.
x
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