Should I believe him or not?
Q. I found text messages on my husband-to-be's phone implying he cheated on me. He denied it of course. That someone used his phone at work even though one text message is at 12:15am and he's never at work later than 10:30 at the latest. We are getting ...
A. 20 July 2010: Hello,
If a text was sent at that time when he is always at home its suspicious. If he received a text it could have been from a previous conversation.
He's denied that it was him, but if he sent it at that time how can he defend that? I d... (read in full...)
My lifestyle of lying and partying is ruining my life!
Q. hey :) i am 16 years old and basically i dont know what to do anymore! about 6 months ago my dad died :( and since then i have been doing stranges things like: clubbing drinking weed once making my self sick and there was one big incident ...
A. 25 June 2010: Hello,
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Its a traumatic experience losing someone we love.
Have you been in counselling? I think it would help you begin to grieve properly. What you're doing now is unhealthy and you're on the road to dest... (read in full...)
My husband says he isn't in love with me and it's tearing me apart!
Q. I don't know where to turn. My husband and I have been together for 9 years, and we have 3 kids(one is my teenage daughter from a previous relationship). We have a comfortable lifestyle and a nice home. We both have good jobs we enjoy, and I am so ...
A. 23 June 2010: Hello,
Firstly you seem like a very caring person, and you try your best to make your marriage work.
Your husband seems controlling. If its not his way then he throws the "I don't love you" in your face to hurt you. Also by him stating he w... (read in full...)
How do you know its safe to go back? How can you tell if you WANT to go back?
Q. My husband and I have separated after 2 years of marriage (together for 7). We had been unhappy for about 7 months. He felt I was nagging when I tried to address issues with him. I felt he couldn't control his temper and it led to verbal and some ...
A. 17 June 2010: Hello,
Physical abuse is a no, no. I personally believe it won't change once that's transpired. It might for a bit then gradually return. I wouldn't return to the relationship.
Good luck
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How can I make my not so innocent husband see I'm completely honest with him?
Q. My husband had an affair for 12 months with a woman from work. I knew what was going on but hadnt had it confirmed by him. He wasnt nice to me at all, putting me down and pushing me away, however I remained the supportive wife allowing him to do his ...
A. 15 June 2010: Hello,
He's cheated and in my opinion more then he's admitting to.
I don't personally believe you should have allowed this affair once it was confirmed. To be in a healthy relationship it takes two people with love,trust,commi... (read in full...)
My husband never wants sex!
Q. hi I am freaking out bc my husband says he loves me and is good in ALL ways..BUT he ignores me with sex.......makes no advances he admits he masturbates a lot and has done so since he was younger we had a great sexual relationship in the beginning...
A. 15 June 2010: Hello,
Well its important that you speak up as you have been and tell him what you're feeling. Have u asked why he said he would go to counselling, and didn't go? Does he not believe this is a problem?
Ask him to cut back on the masterbating... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to be sad about the way my husband is acting?
Q. I have this problem me and my husband is getting along well,he recently started a new job. But he and the lady that works together is getting along but too much if you ask me,we went to a bbq the other day she where there he looked at her the whole ...
A. 15 June 2010: Hello,
He doesn't have any respect for you,or your feelings. He acts like you don't exist stares at other women, talks to you in a vulgar manner, doesn't consider your feelings.
I understand you feel as though you've taken oaths but he als... (read in full...)
Would you wait for this man to sort himself out?
Q. Hi all, thanks in advance for anyone who reads and/or assists me in solving this difficult relationship. I finally ended it with my ex abuser of 3 years and met a new guy. He is great, nothing like my ex. I fell for him quite quickly, we text very ...
A. 14 June 2010: Hello,
It could be both. Maybe he's not over his ex, and maybe he is afraid to get hurt. It depends.
Maybe he's wanting to see if there's any possible way he can get back together with is ex, and keep u waiting in the wings for him. Could b... (read in full...)
What's wrong with my relationship?
Q. this is probably going to be a long one. im so lost. i feel like im going out of my mind. i really need some advice from someone else on what to do stay with him and deal with it or leave or better yet how to fix it. first off some background ...
A. 14 June 2010: Hello, I believe its time you end this relationship. He is very disrespectful to you. Picks on you, cheats on you. Then he has the nerve not to trust you because he's guilty and trying to reverse this on you. You deserve someone who loves ... (read in full...)
Who to believe my best freind or my ex?
Q. "OP Own Title" ok ive been hurt in the past a few times and do have trust issues so when i meet my ex at christmas i did question his motives i told him of my past so he could understand why it would take me a while to open my heart to him. now ...
A. 10 June 2010: Hello,
I believe their both together and have been doing something behind your back.
Its unfortunate this has happened to you. Not much of a friend,or boyfriend. Move on you deserve much better.
Good luck
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I'm really worried that I am repeatedly destroying my relationship and I can't stop
Q. "OP Own Title" Hi I am 25 and this is my second serious relationship. My first lasted 6 years and this one is just over a year. I love my boyfriend but a few months into the relationship I gave him glandular fever. He’s 31 and got really sick f...
A. 10 June 2010: Hello,
My opinion is you speak with someone to find out the underlining reason to why you're this insecure.
Its unfair to him to feel as though he needs to defend himself constantly.
Have you been cheated on prior? If so, you can't blame t... (read in full...)
The man I fell for so deeply has changed. Should I stay?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for two years. He was always a lovely person to be with and i always thought he was the one but lately hes changed. He will always call me hurtfull names and whenever he responds to be he uses the word slag instead of...
A. 10 June 2010: Hello,
What he's doing is very direspectful to you. You don't deserve to be treated this way.
Have you outright asked him why this drastic change?
Its time to tell him you don't appreciate the way he's behaving towards you. Ask him why... (read in full...)
I broke up with b/f and now I miss him!
Q. I told my boyfriend i wanted to break up. But now i hardly see him maybe once a month he'll come by i miss him alot things are not the same. i wonder if i shouldnt see him at all? ...
A. 10 June 2010: Hello,
Break ups are hard. You haven't been away from him that long. It takes time to heal. That's probably why he doesn't come around to see you a lot. Its very normal to miss what you shared. Give it time, keep busy talk to friends. Its probably... (read in full...)
My insecurities are bringing me down. Can anyone help?
Q. I have found it very difficult to overcome insecurity. My partner cheated on me in the past once several years ago, and has lied a few times regarding his relationships with other women in the past too. There has also been a lot of problems with ...
A. 10 June 2010: Hello,
Its never easy dealing with someone you love cheating on you. You've expressed you've gained trust back in your relationship which isn't an easy task.
You need to communicate and tell him what you're feeling. Otherwise he has no clue w... (read in full...)
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