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writes:"OP Own Title" ok ive been hurt in the past a few times and do have trust issues so when i meet my ex at christmas i did question his motives i told him of my past so he could understand why it would take me a while to open my heart to him. now everything was going well i was begining to trust him he would tell me he loved me and my son. and wanted a future with us both. i mean the man was a prince. then all out of the blue he dumped me sunday i rang my best friend of 10 years for support but no answer a couple of hours later she rang to inform me that he text her to say he has feelings for her. so when i asked what you going to do she answered i dont know. this shocked me as i never realised there were feelings between them ive asked them both if they are together but never really get an answer she says nothing is going on but he has been at her house since this all happened sunday. i dont know what to believe
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 They've both been seeing each other behind your back. Something like this doesn't happen quickly. Feelings have been building up for a while and most likely they've been having many conversations without you knowing.
I'm sorry to say this, but they both betrayed you. And at this point, you can't believe a word either of them say. They've made their choice (each other) and anything they say to you is just to help ease their guilt.
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reader, smiley_1  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 Hello,
I believe their both together and have been doing something behind your back.
Its unfortunate this has happened to you. Not much of a friend,or boyfriend. Move on you deserve much better.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): Don't believe anything they say, they've been fostering this relationship for a while behind your back. That much is obvious. Things like this don't just happen and he wouldn't have left you if she didn't give him the go ahead. It might have been out of the blue for you, but these guys have been planning their next move for a while.
He's been emotionally and even perhaps physically cheating on you for a while now. There's nothing to believe, they're both scum, dump these two losers and rid them both from your life for good.
Don't let this set you back or ruin your trust in people, fight on and keep going, we're not all like them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): he is obviously with your best friend, take my advice and stay away from both of them as you are well shot of them. The ultimate betrayal though is that of your best friend as she should be there for you and not take your man.
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