We haven't had sex yet and I just can't get him to 'come' from fooling around! Help!
Q. I have recently got very intimate with my new bf of 4 months. We havnt slept together yet but have fooled around alot trying new ways of coming without having full on penatrive sex. We have been trying for weeks now and i just can't get him to ...
A. 19 September 2006: No don't worry...this could be multiple things. I know lotsa guys who cannot climax without sex or without the help of their own hand. If he is a virgin, he may have a little anxiety about climaxing in front of you for the first time. Assure him you ... (read in full...)
I am hurting so much after our breakup - when will my broken heart mend?
Q. I'm hurting really bad. My days are consumed with thoughts. I need to know I will forget him and I will have a normal life. I cannot give details for I fear someone I know will read this. I cannot discuss this with anyone. I can hold out and live ...
A. 19 September 2006: I know it hurts really bad right now and I am sorry for your pain. Depending on how long you were with this person and how strong your feelings were is a factor in how long it will take you to stop hurting. It may take a while. You will always ... (read in full...)
I need some help on my boyfriends erection problem
Q. I have been with my boyfriend now for nearly 6 months, he is the most wonderful guy in the world and i love him to bits. We have not yet slept together because he can't maintain an erection. I looked it up on the internet and found that it is calle...
A. 19 September 2006: "He says he is worried about making sex good for me and how he looks naked etc so that's why he can't get hard enough." Here is the key to your answer right here. Your boyfriend has anxiety. He is embarrassed by the way he looks naked and concerned ... (read in full...)
We had sex in the middle of the night but my BF couldn't come! Is it me?
Q. My bf woke up in the middle of the night and wanted to have sex with me. After a long long time, he never came, so he stopped trying. I asked what's wrong, and he said it's because he woke up in the middle of the night, and some response of his ...
A. 19 September 2006: Is this the first time he has had a problem? How long have you two been having sexual relations? I doubt it is anything to do with you. He may have just been desensitized because it was the middle of the evening...it is not uncommon. If this is the ... (read in full...)
Depo Provera contraceptive question!
Q. hey guys, i need to know if anyone has been on the contraceptive Depo-Provera injection? If anyone has, can you tell me if you had any sudden - or arising side-effects. You see, ive been on it a year now, and over the past few months ive been hav...
A. 18 September 2006: Depo Provera = pure evil!!!!
I took depo provera twice. Once for 2 years, and then once for a year. I never had a problem while I was on the depo provera...my periods went completely away except for some random spotting every once in a whil... (read in full...)
Whats the best way to make a move on my friend ??
Q. Hi ya, I met a great guy about two months ago and since then we have stayed good friends. The night we met we had a drunken snog but nothing more but havent kissed since. Thing is im crazy about this guy, and would love to make the first move into ...
A. 16 September 2006: It seems to me based on what you have said that he seems interested. It has been my experience that guys are usually more afraid than us girls to make the first move. Chances are he is trying to figure out the exact same thing you are. Most of my ... (read in full...)
I can only orgasm when I touch myself during sex. Is this normal?
Q. I have a new boyfriend and I am hopelessly attracted to him sexually. He makes me weak at the knees and turns me on like no one else ever has. The problem is that we recently started having sex. He does everthing right and it feels great, b...
A. 16 September 2006: First of all, you are perfectly normal. It is much more difficult for a woman to orgasm than a man. A woman requires much more foreplay or increased sexual stimulation. Since you two have just started having relations, I would suggest you try and ... (read in full...)
what do guys like in girls..tall, slim, blonde or short, petite, curvy, brunette??
Q. hi... im a teenager and wanna know, y would teenage guys want a tall, thin blonde girl to go out with? Wouldnt they prefer someone who is shorter than them? Cos my boy mates all always say "oh theres this really fit girl, she's tall and ...
A. 16 September 2006: Teenage boys often don't make any sense, just like many men! hehehe....but then again the could say the same thing about us! It is my experience that different guys do like different things. But I can give you a hint....it worked for me at least. ... (read in full...)
Are people in long distance relationships more likely to cheat?
Q. Are people in long distance relationships more likely to cheat?...
A. 16 September 2006: I would agree with the first answer. I think whether a person in a long distance relationship depends on the person. I don't think that a long distance relationship makes someone more likely to cheat. I think that a cheating person is a cheating ... (read in full...)
Will this guy I like know I'm a virgin, when we do it for the first time?
Q. hi i need some advice! im 17 and im a virgin but this lad im seeing doest know i am! i have done sexual things beofre but i have never gone the whole way lol will he know im a virgin when i have sex for the first time???? ...
A. 16 September 2006: Chances are, unless you tell him and especially if you have done some sexual things in the past, he will not know you are a virgin. I have heard different things from my friends that are female saying they had a little bit of blood the first time ... (read in full...)
Had a long distance relationship for many years, it ended, then he got back in touch asked to get back just so he could have sex!!
Q. I was in a long-distance realtionship for many years. I fell madly in love with this guy, but sadly it was an on/off affair, due to his lack of commitment,distance etc. He did tell me he loved me, but we split earlier in the year because I found him ...
A. 16 September 2006: This is a tough situation for you especially long distance. You should not feel bad...it sounds like this guy is a real loser. You yourself said he cheated on you and that "the relationship could never be what I want. ie him being totally committed ... (read in full...)
Question about DNA and would a dad have exactly the same as his son ??
Q. hello, well my question is for a friend that is in need. she wanted to know if someone slept with their boyfriends dad and got pregnant will they have the same dna? would it be hard to know if its the dad or son? weird I know. how would that go ...
A. 15 September 2006: Just as everyone has their own unique fingerprint, everyone has their own unique DNA. While DNA may be similar in families, it is still different for each person. One can take DNA from 2 different siblings or a son and father and tell they are ... (read in full...)
Should I be nosey about his past marriage or I should just leave it? I'm very curious though!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year. I'm 23 and he is 25. He has a history which I want to know but don't know if it's appropriate to ask. He had a kid when he was 18. He end up marrying the girl after the child was borned. I wanted to ...
A. 15 September 2006: I would leave it be. I know it will not satisfy your curiosity, but you may regret it later. I, like the person who first answered your question, am on her because of this same reason. I needed advice on how to make my ex get over my past. My ex ... (read in full...)
Before sex, I need the crapper!
Q. Hi. Is it normal to need a number 2 (shit) before sex. I have been with girls in the past and at the worst possible time, I have needed the toilet. Is this a medical thing or nerves? I dont feel nervous but do need to relieve myself in a differnt ...
A. 15 September 2006: I am not a doctor yet, but I highly doubt you have a medical problem. I had a similar problem a while back. I would have to go before sex, but even if I went to the bathroom before sex, I'd have to go like a couple minutes into it. It was horrible ... (read in full...)
I need new ideas for affectionately/intimately touching my man
Q. hey guys i'm just gonna throw out a simple question, nothing crazy complicated, but do any of you girls out there have any methods of er... for lack of better words... touching your man? (doesnt have to be sexual) i mean i have this thing where i ...
A. 15 September 2006: I used to do this thing to my significant other and every time I did it...he went crazy. I'd start out at his neck or ear (of course) kissing him lightly maybe dragging my lips down his skin. I'd work my way to his back (works best with shirt off) ... (read in full...)
How do I stop a leaky penis..it's a bit embarrassing! Any tips?
Q. Hi, I have 2 questions both about my sex organ, yes, the male penis :O Im 19 and so is my girlfriend, im a virgin, though shes not. The first problem is i get a little wet down below when we have a little fun, im not prematurley ejaculatig, j...
A. 15 September 2006: I am not a guy, but my ex boyfriend found a way to control his leakage to a certain extent. While it was not completely controllable, he was able to prevent a huge mess and he also was able to control when he orgasmed. No worries though...it's ... (read in full...)
Is it normal that my bf has never brought me to orgasm? Help-I want to make things better.
Q. Is it normal that my bf has never brought me to orgasm? He can get me horny really easily, and he knows what i like and we're both perfectly comfortable with eachother but he just can't get me off whatever method he tries, even though i often ...
A. 14 September 2006: It is normal for you not to have an orgasm, but you can fix it! I am walking proof. My first suggestion is to stop faking your orgasm or faking that it feels good. This gives your partner a false sense of satisfaction that he is doing something ... (read in full...)
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