My ex wants to get back with me, but his friend claims my ex cheated when with me, did he only say that to get with me instead ?
Q. I dated this guy for a year and recently broke up with him because he had lied to me about drugs and things like that and I couldn't get over it. Anyway I hung out with his best friend a couple nights ago and his best friend (of more than 10 years) ...
A. 3 April 2007: it sounds like your ex's friend is trying to get with you, but why would he lie about your ex cheating? i would make it clear to the ex's friend that your not interested in him nor in getting back together with your ex. Get out there girl and find ... (read in full...)
My Ex husband and I still have sex, he said he only married her out of spite!!! What should I do ?
Q. my ex husband and i still sleep together. He says he remarried for spite and does not love her what should i do?...
A. 3 April 2007: i am a bit confused here. So apart from sleeping with you, does he want to get back into a relationship with you and leave his wife? or is this just based on sex, in which case you are being used.
Sorry if that sounds rather harsh.... (read in full...)
Is he just being a typical boy or does he like me ?
Q. hey agony aunts. i have been friends with this guy for about 6 yrs and have liked him alot for ages and since last summer, wev started texting each other very flirty messages and then a few weeks later when we met up he kissed me. but that was ...
A. 3 April 2007: i do believe he likes you alot otherwise he wouldnt keep texting you, but by the sound of things i also believe that he likes you just as a friend. Maybe that kiss you had made him realise that he didnt want to take things further and ruin a good ... (read in full...)
He emailed her and arranged to meet! When confronted he said it was just to see who she was! Is this cheating?
Q. A woman on myspace was sending my husband emails. She would tell him how she would like to meet him. One day he went to a local computer store to email her and in the email he gave her his work phone number so she could call him. He changed his ...
A. 3 April 2007: well in my eyes that is cheating. Even though he hasnt actually done anything yet, alone to arrange to meet her and go back to her house is as good as cheating. Its betraying your trust that you have in him. If the shoe was on the other foot, he ... (read in full...)
I need a counsellor really, but not sure where to get one, anyone on here able to help me out!?
Q. My life is a real mess at the moment, have some serious relationship problems that I can't really go into at length in just one question. Could really do with some one to one counselling/advice. I know there are some professional counsellors that ...
A. 3 April 2007: if you want to see a counsiler locally then if you go to your GP he/she will refer you to one. But i am sure if you have problems that you would rather disguss with people like agony aunts etc then there are loads of us here to help you out. ... (read in full...)
I've been seeing my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now but still never had an orgasm.
Q. hi, i have been going out with my bf for nearly 2 and a half years and in the time we have been having sex, i have never had an orgasim. what should i do about it? ...
A. 31 March 2007: i was going to suggest you give him a peach to suck on lol but i was joking. You need to talk to him honestly about this subject and tell him the things you like and dislike. If he touches you in places you like then tell him that you love that and... (read in full...)
We're married with 5 children and now my husband is asking for another woman to come into OUR bed!!
Q. My Husband is a really loving man but he is asking for another woman to come into our bed we are married with 5 children and I don't know what could I be doing wrong? What do I do?...
A. 31 March 2007: i feel really sorry for you because that was exactly what happend to me and i was gobsmacked when my husband first started suggesting such a thing. I kept thinking " am i not enough for him". or " do i not satisfy him" etc. thousand of questions ... (read in full...)
Any good tips on how I should propose to her?
Q. hi me and my gd have been together for 6 yrs and love each other very much.Ive decided to ask her to marry me. I've got the ring and everything i just don't know how to say it and at what time and where to do it. Neither of us are the type for going ...
A. 31 March 2007: it all depends on how you would like to propose, it doesnt have to be in a restaurant or anywhere with an audience. Your home when your both alone with some nice music in the background is nice. Or wait for a special accation like valentines day, ... (read in full...)
I love him so much but I dont know if im being used. Any advice?
Q. there is a lad i use to go ut with during school, he was my first love and ive never really got over him, we went our seperate ways and lately weve been texting i fell pregnant by my boyfirend at the time but it didnt last and i slept with my ex tom ...
A. 31 March 2007: i would talk to him and ask him straight up of what he is hopeing to gain from all this? ask him if he wants a relationship or just someone to sleep with from time to time. I can understand that you feel used. So therefore be upfront and ask him. ... (read in full...)
Should I talk to him about the email I saw or leave it?
Q. well i found this from my boyfriends bebo mailbox... Subject RE: hey Sent 276 days ago eres a dilema!!! a guy has a gf, he chats 2 3otha galz dey lyk him, he finks of dem as m8s!!! 1 day he accidently let slip dat he lyks dem. now dey wnt hi...
A. 31 March 2007: i wouldnt say anything about that email either. First of all he will think you dont trust him to be going through his mail in the first place and thats invation of privacy. If you dont trust him and you keep quiet at least you will always be one ... (read in full...)
Im having an affair, I love her not my wife, cant break free, what should I do ?
Q. Life is in a mess. I have to choose between my wife and my outside child's mother. I have two kids with my wife - 2 year old (outside child same age)and a 3 month old. Have a great family life. But Outside woman just does the trick for me. I am so ...
A. 29 March 2007: you can not stay in a relationship that you are so unhappy in, but your wife deserves the decency to be told the truth of how you feel. that way you can let her go and find real happiness with someone that deserves her. You cant stay just for the ... (read in full...)
Getting married on 12th April and need ideas for a romantic tune to walk into the registry office to!!
Q. Hi guys, Shandy Pop here. Sorry this may sound a bit trivial, well it's not the sort of question that is asked on this site, BUT I am getting married on 12th April and i need your help. I need a song (tune), romantic, to walk into the Registry Off...
A. 29 March 2007: how about the song " this i promise you" by ronan keating... (read in full...)
We have known each other since we were 14, Ive fallen for her, but cant tell her in case she doesnt believe me!!
Q. ok me and this girl have been friends all our life since we were little we are now both 14 and i think im falling in love with her, shes all i can think about, it upsets me to see her down and i want to be with her all the time, i honestly love her ...
A. 29 March 2007: Why dont you write her a letter completely from the heart about how you feel. I think that would work much better because she will then have time to think about things without feeling awkward or afraid of upsetting you. Tell her no matter what ... (read in full...)
Im so confused who to pick, guy number one or guy number two!
Q. Need help ASAP! I have two very great men that both love me. I was in a relationship with a guy for around 5 years, my first high school love. I am now 23 he is 26. We broke it off a couple years ago but still never stopped talking and doing ...
A. 29 March 2007: They say time heals all wounds. Have you forgotten how you felt when you were with Guy number 1?? it obviously wasnt working out and thats why you finished it. You feel so much for him because you have spend 5 years of your life with him. Now that ... (read in full...)
What are some good songs about unrequited love ?
Q. what are some good songs about loving someone who doesn't love you back? ... ... ... all genres, sung by both female and male .... thanks ...
A. 29 March 2007: the song " please forgive me" by Bryan Adams is really good. ... (read in full...)
My current BF has become uncomfortbale with me seeing my Ex, hes making me choose!!
Q. I have an ex bf whom I am friends with. We talk on the phone sometimes and have dinner or coffee sometimes. We have not been a couple for 6yrs. My current bf whom I have been with for 9months has a problem with my friendship with my ex. He feels ...
A. 29 March 2007: i totally agree with your boyfriend. If you were in his shoes and he started going for coffees etc with his ex girlfriend, then i dont think you would like it either. BUT on the other hand he should trust you enough to know that your intentions are ... (read in full...)
Ive a feeling shes about to look for someone better, advice on how best to prepare myself would be good!
Q. Feelings of affection for someone can cause so much sadness can't it? Well I guess that wasn't so much a question as it was an observation but I could really do with some advice on what attitude you should go into a relationship with so as not to ...
A. 29 March 2007: the main key to a great relationshipship is COMUNICATION. You need to be totally honest with each other and respect each others feelings. Treat each other like you want someone to treat you. If after all that it still doesnt work out then you have ... (read in full...)
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