How do I get over a guy when he's constantly around me? I need some good advice.
Q. Is it really possible for a guy to be truly in love and yet want to end a relationship? Or does his decision to end the relationship invariably mean that he just doesn't care about her enough? My ex isn't a liar - he won't say something that i...
A. 3 February 2006: I think you should ask him all the questions you asked me. If you are having a good time with him then keep seeing him! Trust your instinct, if you have a bad feeling back off. If you feel safe like this, then continue. Do what makes you happy. To ... (read in full...)
I just need a second chance to remind my ex how much we loved each other!
Q. Dear Cupid My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for almost a year but we were dating for about 1 year and 6 months. We broke up due to the fact he did not trust me and said I was a flirt, so basically it was a jealousy problem. He always prom...
A. 2 February 2006: I believe that if you two aren't seeing other people what you are doing is fine, just make sure you both know where you stand and TALK to him about the situation. I think if you two care about eachother enough then you can talk and be truthful to ... (read in full...)
I just need a second chance to remind my ex how much we loved each other!
Q. Dear Cupid My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for almost a year but we were dating for about 1 year and 6 months. We broke up due to the fact he did not trust me and said I was a flirt, so basically it was a jealousy problem. He always prom...
A. 2 February 2006: I believe that if you two aren't seeing other people what you are doing is fine, just make sure you both know where you stand and TALK to him about the situation. I think if you two care about eachother enough then you can talk and be truthful to ... (read in full...)
Update on a question for 'short and sweet'... or anyone else!
Q. Hi this is for short and sweet, Thanks for replying to me last week (23 January), it was nice to know that someone else is in a similar situation. Just to let you know a little bit more about my problem, no im not seeing anyone else and as far as i...
A. 30 January 2006: Hey... so I read over the question again. Its only been 3 weeks! I am still dating my ex and not officially back together for 7 months! I don't think you have anything to worry about girl. I was in your position once (right after the break up) And ... (read in full...)
I don't want to get over our break up; I just want him back!
Q. My boyfriend and I just broke up today because I have been lying for 3 months about what I have done with a couple guys instead of just one. Is there any way I could get him back? He said he did love me but that all changed when I told him about ...
A. 29 January 2006: This is what cheating does to a relationship. I've been in his position. So I would suggest to leave him alone and let him hurt it out. You will get over the "alone" feeling but always remember you put yourself there and gave yourself that feeling ... (read in full...)
He's with someone else but we were so good together...is there any chance for us in the future?
Q. Hi Sorry about such a long question. But I really need advice on my exs feelings! The guy I still believe is the love of my life, the one etc.. has just got a new girlfriend. I'm devasted! We were going out for 3 years, thought we loved eachot...
A. 25 January 2006: Ok... Here is my last piece of advice. Don't bother him. You said he stopped loving you because of your constant rings, so don't call, don't go to his house. If he wants you he will come back.
P.S. What was wrong with my first advice? You HAVE to ... (read in full...)
Will he ever be ready to marry me?
Q. I've been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for over 5 years now, and whenever I try to talk about whether or not our relationship is going to go to the next level, he says he's not ready to think about it. He says he can't imagine our ...
A. 25 January 2006: Well he knows how you feel, all you have to do is wait. If you truly love him. However, if you feel like you could just walk away from the situation then maybe you may not even WANT to marry him. You don't want to force someone into it. My advice ... (read in full...)
He's with someone else but we were so good together...is there any chance for us in the future?
Q. Hi Sorry about such a long question. But I really need advice on my exs feelings! The guy I still believe is the love of my life, the one etc.. has just got a new girlfriend. I'm devasted! We were going out for 3 years, thought we loved eachot...
A. 24 January 2006: Its only been 6 weeks, do yourself a favor and take a deep breath.
It sounds like the problems between you two has become worse and worse over the years. The person you love and who loves you back shouldn't hurt you as much as he has. --First, the ... (read in full...)
I have a discharge...please advise me
Q. I have been getting really smelly discharge recently, its worse after i have had sex with my partner but its not the sex that is causing it. Its sort of like a watery discharge and it smells a bit fishy, its horrible. It doesnt matter how many times ...
A. 24 January 2006: Well if it isn't an std (FOR SURE) My only guess would be a bad yeast infection that won't go away - Keep pressuring your doctor to do more, also talk to your mom or an older woman close to you. Hope everything is fine... (read in full...)
I don't know how to get over him...
Q. Im 16 and my boyfreind was 18 we were together for a year and 2 monthes but it was quickly ended in one fight. we've argued before and this wasnt even the worst. that night another girl instantly falls in love out of nowhere and wants to spend the ...
A. 23 January 2006: Oh yeah, go shopping with your girlfriends
(even if you can't afford it :)... (read in full...)
I don't know how to get over him...
Q. Im 16 and my boyfreind was 18 we were together for a year and 2 monthes but it was quickly ended in one fight. we've argued before and this wasnt even the worst. that night another girl instantly falls in love out of nowhere and wants to spend the ...
A. 23 January 2006: You have gotten a lot of good advice! I'm just going to give my input. I have to say, I went through the EXACT same thing in high school... I was 17. You need to cry and let it out and know that its over (expecially since there is another girl ... (read in full...)
Should I wait for him to make up his mind or move on?
Q. Hi, I seem to be finding myself wanting my ex back and im getting the impression that he doesnt want the same as me. Basically we split only 3 weeks ago after a 4 year relationship, nothing terrible had happened we just found ourselves drifting...
A. 23 January 2006: I'm going through something very similar, although me and my man were only together for a year... My advice, what has truly worked for me is to talk to HIM. Get the reassurance you need from him. I would say there is a good chance to get back ... (read in full...)
It kinda feels wrong that he's cheating on her to be with me! Is it?
Q. ok so I really like this guy alot and he likes me alot too..problem is he wont get rid of his girlfriend...he tells me that he tried to end it with her..but she wont let him go...so really he is cheating on her with me...i dont no what to do it ...
A. 23 January 2006: You need to stop helping a cheater. Let him deal with this on his own. She shouldn't have to go through this, and anyone can get out of a relationship anytime, no matter how much they hurt the other person...
Question: If he is so worried about her ... (read in full...)
Any encouraging thoughts about this situation?
Q. So I've given my boyfriend a second chance after he's cheated on me by kissing a girl that I used to work with. To be honest with everyone, I've been a complete emotional rollercoaster... One minute, I can put everything behind me and I'm totally ...
A. 23 January 2006: I agree with the two people who wrote before me. And I too have a live and learn story to tell. I was with a guy for almost two years and he cheated on me 7 months into the relationship and another time that I was aware of during the relationship. ... (read in full...)
My ex and I have a good thing going. We just keep it a secret behind her boyfriend's back...
Q. I met up with my ex-girlfriend last August through a business colleague. She was a friend of my business colleague and I fell in love with her once I set my eyes on her. I found out that my business colleague also had feelings for me and felt a bit ...
A. 19 January 2006: Its good to hear that you two had a nice talk. And you are right about the space being other than work. In a healthy relationship, especially a young one, its pretty necessary to go out with friends occasionally. I love to do it at least 3 times a ... (read in full...)
Never realised what I had until it was gone! Now I can't get used to being with any other girl. Do I try to get back with my ex?
Q. Hello there, I was hoping somebody out there could give me some advice. I finished my ex girlfriend of 3 years about 8 months ago due to a few problems we were having. Basicaly it got a bit tiring doing the same thing over and over every nigh...
A. 18 January 2006: Tell her as soon as possible... You were the one who broke up with her. You are in a good place as you still speak. First off, pay close attention to how she acts and ask questions about her new boyfriend. If she seems really content, keep watching. ... (read in full...)
My ex and I have a good thing going. We just keep it a secret behind her boyfriend's back...
Q. I met up with my ex-girlfriend last August through a business colleague. She was a friend of my business colleague and I fell in love with her once I set my eyes on her. I found out that my business colleague also had feelings for me and felt a bit ...
A. 18 January 2006: I understand that you need space, but your ex shouldn't choose someone who gives her attention then beats her up over someone who may only want to hang out a few times a week. I think that you should sit down with her and give her the attention she ... (read in full...)
I hate the anxiety and paranoias I feel about my relationship..can anyone advise me?
Q. I am 27 and have been together with my girlfriend for 5 years. We are very much in love and care for each other dearly and often talk about getting married. Recently I have been getting paronoid attacks about her. That she might be losing interest ...
A. 17 January 2006: I know exactly what you are talking about... have you been burned in the past? (Before the ex-girlfriend you speak of) Or maybe your parents or friends have gone through similar situations and you witnessed that? I was hurt very badly by my ... (read in full...)
I'm hyper-sensitive and dwell way too much, on what others say. I need help dealing with this.
Q. Heres my problem, I have a tendency to get realllyyy upset about things, even 'little things'. Especially when people make jokes about me, it gets me so down I dwell I will probably dwell on it for the next few days. For example, I made a mistake in ...
A. 11 January 2006: I know exactly what you mean!!! My bf will make jokes very OFTEN and most of the time I feel as if he used sarcasm to tell the truth, just like your friends. It hurts me too. I also have wondered what to do. I've been with him for almost 2 years so ... (read in full...)
A little white lie is haunting me...
Q. I am 18 years old. I have been with my partner for a little over a year, he is in his 30's. We have been in love from pretty much the fisrt time we met! My problem is prbably the hardest thing I have had to deal with, When we met he was informed ...
A. 2 January 2006: Its only one year. Does his family know? I don't think that one year makes a difference between you guys. I once dated a guy who told me he was 26 (I just turned 18) and in all actuality AFTER we were intimate I had a bad feeling and asked him how ... (read in full...)
I want my ex back but he thinks he can't give me what I need. What should I do?
Q. I want my ex back and i don't know what to do. Heres the situation- I previously posted a question about how my ex can't get back on his feet job wise and self esteem wise. He told me that he can't get himself back on his feet and juggle our ...
A. 2 January 2006: You are doing well with him. Just spend the time with him for however long you want. I am in the same situation and have been for about 6 months now. I know that to some people that might be ENOUGH... but things have started to turn around. Just ... (read in full...)
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