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writes: So I've given my boyfriend a second chance after he's cheated on me by kissing a girl that I used to work with. To be honest with everyone, I've been a complete emotional rollercoaster... One minute, I can put everything behind me and I'm totally head over heels in love as I felt before! The next minute I can't stand him and I feel disgusted looking at him for what he's done to me.. BUT .. I have been trying to make it work. Last night though, i had one too many sangrias and I admit, I acted a bit immature. He gets pissed and takes me home. I told him to leave me alone and not call me anymore because I'm tired of him. He calls me this morning and we talk. I told him I was serious this time and that I wanted him to really try and not call me anymore. He says it would be hard, but that he would try because he wanted to respect what I said. After this little scenario, I took my little brother for a walk to the park, and completely cleared my head. I was hoping to see him (my boyfriend) at my house when we returned but no... So I call him, acting normal, and ask what he was about to do. HE says he's going to the restaurant I used to work at with his friends!!!!! The same restaurant that girl he kissed works at!!!!! I was so pissed!!! I told him a week ago that if he respected me and truly loved me, he'd avoid that stupid place! I was hurt how quickly he'd turn around and do something like this. He really makes me sick and I know I need to get over him......Any encouraging words, or thoughts about this situation would be GRRREEEEEAAAAAT !
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reader, shortandsweet408 +, writes (23 January 2006):
 I agree with the two people who wrote before me. And I too have a live and learn story to tell. I was with a guy for almost two years and he cheated on me 7 months into the relationship and another time that I was aware of during the relationship. To make a long story short, we fought about it constantly, all I could think about was the cheating and the lies... but I still stayed. In the end? HE left ME for his now wife and mother of his child. And I know he has cheated on her as well. Some guys just don't learn honey, you have to let them go. You don't want to think about this the rest of your life. Get him the hell away right now, and down the road if God meets you two up again, you will know your way. Follow your heart, I know its sooo hard but I learned! Don't give yourself deep trust issues (like I have... slowly going away) so you can love the man you are meant for with your whole heart. Good luck babe
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2006): leave him, his not worth it, you seemed happy when your not with him, so why go back and put yourself in pain over something he did wrong in the first place.
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reader, brokenhearted +, writes (23 January 2006):
Hiya,
Just to let you knoew bout my situation,going with sa guy for 3 yrs, things werent going the best, we'd broken up a few times but got back together to make a real go of it.
He then cheated on me with a girl at his christmas party, I was willing to give it another try but he said I'd never forgive him and he'd never forgive himself for runining what we had! I thought after that that we'd still havce a chance, we left it for bout 6 weeks, talking every so often and i'm just after finding out that he going out with this girl, a whole 6 wks after a 3 yr relationship!!!
I realise now that he didn't really care about me and that I was the fool to believe him and his lies!!Once someone cheats on you they really don't care. I learned the hard way!
Move on, i know its hard, trust me I've been there but he really doesn't deserve you
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