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writes: ok so I really like this guy alot and he likes me alot too..problem is he wont get rid of his girlfriend...he tells me that he tried to end it with her..but she wont let him go...so really he is cheating on her with me...i dont no what to do it feels so wrong. Reply to this Question
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reader, Ana183 +, writes (23 January 2006):
 Hi there sweety. You're in a tricky situation here. My advise is this: You need to tell him that you aint gonna even think about going out with him till he is free and single. This is the right way. Not only is he cheating on her with you, but he is also cheating on you with her. If he really cared about any of you, he wouldnt do this, he would finish one relationship before another one starts. If nothing changes with this relationship problem, people will get hurt inside, and theres nothing worse! I'm not sure if this guy is truely serious about relationships. If this advise doesnt work, then maybe you should tell him that if he doesnt tell her, then you will. I wish you loads of luck in this situation. You'll get through it!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 January 2006):
 Tell him to piss or get off the pot. And hands off until he has made his decision and acted on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2006): I say hes a "grant killeen" (as I like to call them) deep down. Once a cheater always a cheater. If he really wanted to be with you soo much he'd leave this other girl and tell her to f*ck off because he likes someone else.
P.S. bucky done gun:)
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reader, shortandsweet408 +, writes (23 January 2006):
 You need to stop helping a cheater. Let him deal with this on his own. She shouldn't have to go through this, and anyone can get out of a relationship anytime, no matter how much they hurt the other person...
Question: If he is so worried about her emotions and won't go through with the break up to be careful not to "hurt her feelings"...
Then WHY is he playing out the worst betrayal? (Cheating)
Cheating hurts... put yourself in her shoes
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (23 January 2006):
 If he is in a committed relationship then you really cant get round the fact that he is cheating. Obviously she doesn't know he is seeing somebody else, if she did she would most likely let go very rapidly. If he is worried about her emotional well-being then there are ways to split up gently - if by chance she happens to find out he is cheating she will be alot more hurt than if she was just dumped another way.
Personally speaking I would give him a choice between you and her. It is not fair on either of you that things continue in this way. Good luck with this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2006): than dont do it, both of you should be ashamed of yourselves
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2006): Well I would say this guy is just having his cake and eating it too, if he really didnt want to be with this other woman he would just leave her he just wants to keep you both!!!Yes it is wrong the only thing is at least you know this other poor girl probably thinks hes the man of her dreams!! If I where you Id end it Good Luck!!
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