Blood in my semen -- help!
Q. Guys, pls help me. I am 20, i am virgin. Never been in any sexual relationship. The problem is , i musterbate. And when i masterbet yesterday i bled, i bled a few with my sperm. Then again, when i musterbet i bled few hours ago , my ...
A. 13 October 2009: I also had this problem once too. Tiny capillaries burst when you get blue balls (from being hard for a long time without release). A good exercise is not to let masturbation take over, at a young age its a favorite activity. But there is a time and ... (read in full...)
Am I gay (honest opinions only)?
Q. i'm a 27 year old and have been thinking bout men since i was 17. it started as a little bit here and there like one day think about men the next i think about women. i had a sense of guilt when i masturbate thinking bout men when i blow. at the age ...
A. 13 October 2009: Yeah... You're gay... But that's not bad. I'm gay and I went thru all that. Sorry dude, it's the natural process. But it can be fun... First though: The sex clubs are nasty. So are bookstores. There currently is a high rate of STDs (research the ... (read in full...)
How do I get happy?
Q. my problem is simple: i'm miserable. i'm a junior in college and stressed out with school. i also don't have a lot of friends neither in school nor out of school. i also commute so its hard to join clubs or anything else that might get me soc...
A. 13 October 2009: A lot of solutions to your problems are eased if you use the school. Assuming that you can not move closer to the school, the key is giving yourself more access to your peers with the little time you have. Some ideas: If a social club would require ... (read in full...)
I always thought only men had "wet dreams." Is this a normal thing or am I just weird?
Q. I awoke in the middle of the night last night wet and horny. I must have cum in my sleep, although i don't remember what I was dreaming about. But I'm female and I always thought only men had "wet dreams." Is this a normal thing or am I just weird?...
A. 11 October 2009: It is normal. You are not a robot. You are a woman with feelings and desires, some of them primal. The fact that you can't remember the dream means it was probably nothing but your subconscious releasing energy. Next time, if you're in bed with ... (read in full...)
I have been with this guy four years and he lies about talking to his ex! What should I do?
Q. please help. I have been with my guy for about 4 years now. the problem is he is still very much in contact with his ex who he was only with for a year! he has met up with her behind my back and they are always txting and calling eachother.. he l...
A. 11 October 2009: He is a liar. He lies. Ok, now knowing that, think about why you want to be with him. Why do you love him? Do you love him? Is he just convenient? You already know you deserve better or you wouldn't have posted. Do you want the next 4 years to be ... (read in full...)
What happened and why is it so hard to move on?
Q. I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years . I have had a lot of loss over the last 4 years which caused me not to be in a relationship for a longtime . I felt all these years of being alone and I mean alone I didnt go out at all or date ...
A. 11 October 2009: It's hard to move on because your feelings are still hurt. But look back on everything you went thru. You overcame it and became a stronger person for it. Now the next life lesson had come along. And this too shall pass. Now take what you have ... (read in full...)
I can't finD omeone my age to marry me!
Q. hello,can any one help me because i can't stand this situation any more.i am a young and very beautiful and successful girl. i look like 20 yr while i am 33 and this is causing a great difficulties to me because till now i can't find some one of my ...
A. 11 October 2009: The fact you're a virgin is irrelevant. Your issue is finding a good guy. Time to change the guys you're around. If you want a better relationship, then you have to find a better kind of guy. You will find bad guys anywhere, but your chances will be ... (read in full...)
My husband had an emotional affair and I can't get past it! Please help!
Q. Please help. My husband had a non sexual (I think I believe this} 'affair' with a work colleague during which time they got very emotionally close (I was being very unloving to him at the time although he never stopped showing he loved and fancied ...
A. 11 October 2009: Fix your mistake. You have taken responsibility for not treating him or your relationship well, now take action. Turn yourself around and find the love again with your great guy. Remember: He did not physically cheat on you!!!! His actions where ... (read in full...)
She won't acknowledge our past and wants me to be friends with her new guy!
Q. Who is being selfish here? "Jane" and I have been friends for about 5 years now, but for the first 15 months or so it was something more than that. Now, going forward, she wants to disacknowledge there being any history between us to any new people ...
A. 11 October 2009: The main issue: you like her. You want more. I'm sorry you're in a bad spot. Somewhere in the last 3 or so years that the intimacy part of your relationship disapated, Neither one of you had the courage to let the relationship grow and evolve. ... (read in full...)
I am cheating and want to be with my lover but it seems like he is backing off!
Q. I am a 38 yr old women. I have been married for 18 yrs now, I have been seeing someone that is 9 yrs younger than me. I am so in love with this guy. He has shown me how I should really be loved. Just recently he told me that he loves me but he can't ...
A. 11 October 2009: OMG... So many issues.... Ok, First things first. You are married. If you keep coming up with reasons to not end it, then you need to rethink why. You may not like your husband right now, but if you're still in it, then maybe there is a way to fix ... (read in full...)
Why do his words change now? Does he want to play around?
Q. iam a girl....lately...i contact my friend that he is also the man thai i have been waited for 3 years...last years...i have tell him my feelings towards him...but he get mad and he said"i just can take you as a friends..."i was really ...
A. 11 October 2009: He may be confused like you. If he is young like you, then he is also trying to learn life and love. You are just at the beginning of your relationship and it probably has a long way to go. Now is a good time to talk about what you want in school, ... (read in full...)
Going on dates but not "dating". How do we get back to where we were?
Q. I'll try to make this short. The man I really loved/love broke up with me approx. 7 months ago. We went our own ways for a while and then one day (2 months ago), we found ourselves in bed together. Since then, we have been hanging out when he's in ...
A. 11 October 2009: Gray area is not bad. Repeat: gray area is not bad. It is where relationships learn their way and feeling grow and change. If he's spending his time with you then he's not spending it with someone else. You needing the 'label' is most likely just ... (read in full...)
I hardly hear from him any more -- what can I do?
Q. I have been feeling quite sad recently. My boyfriend ended up staying in states, in our hometown, for college. I left to a college five hours away from home. This first week of school has been tough, and I'm not referring to the books. It seems ...
A. 11 October 2009: It's always a good idea to communicate your feelings. I believe a person can say anything, it's just how you say it. In your case, I'd do it face to face. Since a 5 hr trip isn't so bad, tell him you're planning one home and go visit and get your ... (read in full...)
I have to see him but he keeps pursuing me
Q. The guy I was seeing (for two months) ended things when I told him I was moving to another part of town. He said it was because he started talking to his ex again but I knew the real reason. Anyway, although I moved to another part, I still hang out ...
A. 11 October 2009: You left out a major part: why was your moving, in the same town even, such a major issue? But I'll go with what you did write...
If he wasn't truly honest with his answer about his ex, then he seem emotionally immature. That isn't so bad if you k... (read in full...)
We got along well except for his ED -- what does his reaction mean now?
Q. I had lunch with my ex two times in less than a week. We broke up a little over three months ago due to his problem with impotance (ed). When we broke up he told me it was due to lack of chemistry and wanted to remain friends. I doubt it since we ...
A. 11 October 2009: First of all, you put your heart out there and you deserve an answer. The option of "not saying anything" doesn't give closure. The option of "think about it first and then answer" brings solution. I believe if you love someone you should say it ... (read in full...)
I am bi and in my first relationship...how far should I take it?
Q. Hello all, this is slightly long so bear with me So i need some advice. i am a 22 year old male. i am in my first relationship, she the only women i have been with. We met through work and are at a distance, so it is slightly hard, it being a...
A. 11 October 2009: Hi. Usually the "bi" thing is a cover for gay with young people, due to the stigma that society still unfairly carries with homosexuals and as people develop who they are, not only sexually, but in all the other areas of ourselves (mentally, ... (read in full...)
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