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I love my boyfriend but my ex comes haunting me in my dreams, what shall I do???

Q.   I'm eighteen-years-old and I've been with this guy (a guy I've wanted for about two years now - he's eighteen as well) for three months and I'm really into him. Problem is, I still have some serious feelings for my ex; and no, we don't talk or hang ...

A.   5 July 2008: i think that sounds like the best plan. I agree with your friend, be single for awhile just see what is out there and if you still love your ex after a few months or more then pursue that.... (read in full...)

"Love. but not in love." What does it mean?

Q.   WHAT do men mean when they say They love you but arent IN love with you? This sounds very confusing and have had it recdently said to me. What is the difference please and why say it and what is the meaning? Thanks...

A.   5 July 2008: well my interpretation is that you love the people that are close to you (your family and friends) but you are IN love with your husband or wife of your partner or w/e. if someone says they love you but are not in love with you i think that means ... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend but my ex comes haunting me in my dreams, what shall I do???

Q.   I'm eighteen-years-old and I've been with this guy (a guy I've wanted for about two years now - he's eighteen as well) for three months and I'm really into him. Problem is, I still have some serious feelings for my ex; and no, we don't talk or hang ...

A.   1 July 2008: I wouldn't break up with your boyfriend over this because you clearly really like him. I have similar problems (I have a lot of sexual dreams about a guy in my class who I really dislike as a person and I know I would never want him as a ... (read in full...)

What's an overly clingy girlfriend?

Q.   how do u define a clingy gf? i was simply telling my bf how much he meant to me and saying things like your the only person that will ever mean anything to me, ur the last thing i think of when i go to sleep and who i think of when i wake up and he...

A.   16 June 2008: honny i hate to say it but if he is creeped out by that it means that he is probably not ready for that kind of a relationship yet. i totally understand that you want to hear that too but it does sound like you are being a little clingy. I mean I ... (read in full...)

How do I get him to focus on ME and my lips not just my boobs?

Q.   hey guys, I have a boy problem. There is this guy that I have liked for almost 5 years on and off and we have a lot of history. He was my first kiss. He and I have been there for each other growing up as our parents got divorced and we ...

A.   16 June 2008: no he and I are not in a relationship... we were in like 6th grade but it was anything real... I definitely like the idea of just grabbing him and kissing him next time he tries this but that was my plan the other night too... but somethin... (read in full...)

What should I do with my bikini area to avoid embarassment?

Q.   Hey guys... I am on spring break right now and so I am wearing my bikini like every day and i am having A LOT of trouble keeping my bikini area clean of hair. Everytime i shave down there i get red bumps and ingrown hairs... (I have read a lot of ...

A.   14 June 2008: just thought I would let you know that I did try a bikini wax for the summer and it is much better so far! (i have only had it for like 4 days) there are a few red dots but nothing as bad as shaving let's just hope it doesn't get worse when they ... (read in full...)

How do I get him to focus on ME and my lips not just my boobs?

Q.   hey guys, I have a boy problem. There is this guy that I have liked for almost 5 years on and off and we have a lot of history. He was my first kiss. He and I have been there for each other growing up as our parents got divorced and we ...

A.   14 June 2008: thanks that's actually really helpful (anonymous female) but what if he just goes for the boobs and then doesnt want anything more? one time he and i were txting and he was asking for pictures and I said to him "i would never do that for anyo... (read in full...)

People are making fun of me because my dad died

Q.   hi my dad has died 5 years ago every one makes fun off me because of this what should i do ????????????????????????????...

A.   13 June 2008: thats just sickening. really how terrible. Kids really do suck sometimes. I would just confront them, next time they say something just confront them and say "seriously? are you kidding? do you have any idea how hard it is to loose a parent... (read in full...)

Am I psychic?

Q.   Heyy ! Im getting rather freaked out . I think i have physic ablilities. This has only happened twice but it only begun recently. First Occasion: I had a dream about a man in a bear suit in some toilets , the day later the exact same bear outfit +...

A.   5 June 2008: lol thats cool!... (read in full...)

What if I mess up my first kiss?

Q.   I'm scared in case I mess up my first kiss! What should I do?...

A.   5 June 2008: haha ya dont worry about it! I messed up my first kiss too but its sort of more fun that way! my first kiss was with a guy much taller than me and he kissed me on the lips and then hugged me... then i reached up to kiss him and i KISSED HIM ON T... (read in full...)

My friend forced me to kiss another boy, and now another one is forcing me to tell my boyfriend!

Q.   hi well i have been going out with my boyfriend for around 5 months now and i really love him, but my friend kinda forced me to kiss this other boy. i really didnt want to but she left us alone. i thought we were just friends. he made a move on me. ...

A.   5 June 2008: i totally understand your situation... its really hard... but the worst thing that can happen is that your bf will find out from someone else and then you will most definitely loose him... if I were you I would tell him and just let him know how... (read in full...)

Has anyone else been engaged young?

Q.   My boyfreind and me are engaged and im so dam happy.....But we aint gunna get marride till about 5 years...What annoys me so much is how everyone has got a opnion on it and because we are young they think it is defaintly going to fail. I was hoping ...

A.   20 May 2008: ok i no this is a REALLY slim chance but 2 ppl at my school just go engaged... is ur fiance by any chance Zac Burman at University High? Again I know its very unlikely!... (read in full...)

Are there any men who can settle for hugs instead of sex?

Q.   Okay this seems like a REALLY weird question, but...here goes. So I am really not into like, kissing or any of that stuff. I have thought about sex and come to the conclusion that I would like to remain a virgin and not ever have sex, for personal...

A.   13 May 2008: Ok, so I am 15 and I totally know how you feel... Lol a couple years ago I told my mom that I would not have sex untill 10 years after I was married! However since then my hormones have made me more attracted to men... Frankly that young I don't ... (read in full...)

I'm no stunner but I'm not the elephant man either - So how can I attract some female attention?

Q.   How can I attract some female attention? I'm kind of shy and not good at flirting but I'm a nice guy and I'm not hideous but i'm 28 years old and I've only had sex twice, and that was 2 or 3 years ago. I was going out with a girl for two year...

A.   9 May 2008: Ya sure girls like really attractive guys but I also know that we value personality a lot! I am a lot younger than you but I can speak for I believe all girls that we like a sensitive guy who we can talk to... Just be a good listener. I feel like ... (read in full...)

The Truth about Pubic Hair?

Q.   Hi, I am a 15 year old girl and my boyfriend has been wanting to finger me but I am afraid to because I am afraid he will think pubes are gross. I tried shaving them but I had trouble doing a good job and after like a day it was just stubbly and ...

A.   4 May 2008: thanks guys thats really helpful!... those are exactly the kind of answers I am looking for! Please if anyone else sees this, continue to reply because I want to hear as much feedback as i can!... (read in full...)

What should I do with my bikini area to avoid embarassment?

Q.   Hey guys... I am on spring break right now and so I am wearing my bikini like every day and i am having A LOT of trouble keeping my bikini area clean of hair. Everytime i shave down there i get red bumps and ingrown hairs... (I have read a lot of ...

A.   1 May 2008: ok thanks Big Sis! so us is about twice per dollar (you know what I mean)... thats sounds good thank you I will definitely look into it.... now I just have to have the awkward conversation with my mom about pubic hair! (she's not very comfortable ... (read in full...)

What should I do with my bikini area to avoid embarassment?

Q.   Hey guys... I am on spring break right now and so I am wearing my bikini like every day and i am having A LOT of trouble keeping my bikini area clean of hair. Everytime i shave down there i get red bumps and ingrown hairs... (I have read a lot of ...

A.   28 April 2008: isn't waxing kind of expensive though? how much does it cost on average to get a wax? also if I were to wax during the summer but then not during the winter.. would it get thick again over the winter?... (read in full...)

How long should I wait to kiss my boyfriend?

Q.   how long should i wait to kiss my bf...

A.   25 April 2008: I agree kiss him at the right moment... But also dont over think it and spend so much time waiting nervously because my friends did that and it made their relationship really awkward... After your first or second kiss it makes the relationship much ... (read in full...)

Do girls make passes at guys with glasses?

Q.   Do girls think guys with glasses are nerdy? Im tall, 6'2, im not horribly thin but i am not that muscular and i have glasses so basically i am the normal tall,skinny,nerd. I was wondering if getting contacts would make me more attractive, w...

A.   25 April 2008: ya definitely some girls have a thing for guys with glasses, it the smart thing... but I personally am not a big fan of them... I love smart guys! but glasses do look a little nerdy... (read in full...)

What is the correct way to give a hand job?

Q.   How do you give a hand job? Are you supposed to go up and down fast or slow? How tight should your hand be around his penis? I am afraid if you hold it too tight you maght yank it and that would be very painful! ...

A.   15 April 2008: ok that sort of helps... i mean i think my main worry is that he probably knows how to do it to himself best bcuz he has plenty of practice and i will just be a dissapointment... are there any tricks to the trade?... (read in full...)

Any kissing tips?

Q.   Hi I am 13 And has never had my first kiss yet. I get realy nervous just thinking about it. Please Give me Tips on how to....

A.   10 April 2008: haha ya i wouldnt worry about it either... i was just like you... before my first kiss i was sooooo freaked out.. also i had a nervousness that my breath was bad i was worried that if i hadnt JUST brushed my teeth he would think it was gross and ... (read in full...)

I have this lovely boyfriend but I hate kissing!

Q.   ok, this is really retarded!! I have this lovely boyfriend but I hate kissing! even just a tiny lil' peck on the check and I woud be so uncomfortable with it! We've french kissed once, but after that I was like no way am I doing that again! That ...

A.   8 April 2008: it also depends how long you guys kissed for... my first time.. the first 15 minutes were really not that good because it was sort of awkward but once you sort of sink into it it is more enjoyable... have you done all of that other stuff with him ... (read in full...)

I have a discharge problem, can you help?

Q.   Hi. I am getting this clear gooie discharge every now and then and dont know what it is can you help. thanks...

A.   3 April 2008: That happens to me too dont worry! Usually you get the most discharge when you are ovulating! Dont fret!... (read in full...)

She lies to her dad and her ex that she is with me, why?

Q.   I have an ex-girlfriend. We dated for about 4 years. Been broken up, had so many fights and problems, thats all i seem to remember. but now we are i guess friends. When we hangout its just a little awkward bc its not like how it use to be. she used ...

A.   26 March 2008: wow that really is a quandery... i dont know what to say... is it possible that she is embarassed to be with you or doesnt want her ex to know because she doesnt want to fight with him??? or maybe she still has feelings for you and doesnt want ... (read in full...)

Help! I like my boyfriends friend and he kind of likes me too!

Q.   Hello everyone I am a female who needs a lot of help it seems like every time I ask someone what 2 do they give me differnt answers I have a boyfriend who I been going out with for 3 years and I like his friend they are always together. His frie...

A.   24 March 2008: How do you know that he likes you too? If he has told you or someone else has told you and you are sure that he likes you then you have more of a problem... Otherwise it could just be a crush on this guy that will eventually go away. I agree with ... (read in full...)

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