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writes:My boyfreind and me are engaged and im so dam happy.....But we aint gunna get marride till about 5 years...What annoys me so much is how everyone has got a opnion on it and because we are young they think it is defaintly going to fail. I was hoping for some advise on how to deal with these ceratin people? And been happy?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 May 2008):
 If you come to such public sites,
you will receive many kinds of responses.
Some opinions maybe bias, prejudice, negative, rude
,insulting, belittling ,irrational and illogical.
There will be some good ones who are non judgmental and a balance and neutral view.
You just take the good ones and ignore those bad ones.
Some aunts may give their opinionated or judgmental views .
You have a choice to take it or leave them.
No one is pointing a gun at your head to force you to believe what they said.
It is only their own personal views .
Trash those comments you don't like .
You are responsible for your own happiness.
Let no one steal it from you.
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reader, sarahisgreat123  +, writes (20 May 2008):
ok i no this is a REALLY slim chance but 2 ppl at my school just go engaged... is ur fiance by any chance Zac Burman at University High?
Again I know its very unlikely!
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reader, abbie959 +, writes (20 May 2008):
I def. agree with "Ask oldersister" about the whole school thing. But I must admit that if your were my friend/sister/daughter I'd be encouraging you to think as well. I'm 22 years old and have known several (5+) people who got married right out of high school and at least 2 of them have already ended in divorce. Then again my aunt got married at 18 and is still married and she is in her 60s. So it's possible for it to succeed, just not statistically plausible. Just be realistic about everything and show your maturity through your actions. If you act like a 16 year old about this and fight with your parents about it, then they certainly won't respect your decisions. Who knows in 5 years you and your finance may have moved on. Again just think before you react. If you want the respect that your parents would give you if you were 22 then make decision that a rational 22 year old would make...and argue like a 22 year old.
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