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writes:ok, this is really retarded!! I have this lovely boyfriend but I hate kissing! even just a tiny lil' peck on the check and I woud be so uncomfortable with it! We've french kissed once, but after that I was like no way am I doing that again! That also was the first time for me. I don't mind fingering me or me giving him a bj or hand job. I am just so confused, like wat the hell is wrong with me!?!is that normal?
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reader, inlovewithj  +, writes (26 July 2009):
omg im the same way. but like sum1 else said the closer u get to the person the more comfortable u get. i hate french kissing tho. i had sum guy completely ruin that for me. but if im like deeply in to doing it with my bf i get carried away and we kiss nd i got nothing against it. everyones different yeah ur normal.
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reader, Screamobaby  +, writes (18 May 2008):
Hey
Im exactly the same. I hate kissing my boyfriend, but im glad he's understanding and understand that i dont like it. I dont think its weird at all. :D
Youre normal.
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reader, Screamobaby +, writes (18 May 2008):
Hey
Im exactly the same. I hate kissing my boyfriend, but im glad he's understanding and understand that i dont like it. I dont think its weird at all. :D
Youre normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2008): No, im the same way.
I hate kissing my boyfriend..it makes me feel really uncomfortable aswell. I dont mind the handjobs and all that other stuff. So no i dont think its weird.
Im happy my boyfriend doesnt mind, but he does get pissed off when i just want to do all that other stuff instead of kissing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): I dont like kissing either! I have never liked it. I do it because its part of the deal. I would love a GF that said hey I dont really like to kiss!
And trust me male or female they dont understand especailly if they like it.
Maybe we should get together!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): Oh my ! thats a first . I've never really heard anyone say they hate kissing! lol I personally love it. But you are have a right to feel whatever you want to . If you don't like kissing just tell him . He may be a bit disappointed but if he really loves you he'll understand. there is nothing wrong with you . Everybody likes diffrent things!
:)
I hope this helepd in some way!!!
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reader, sarahisgreat123 +, writes (8 April 2008):
it also depends how long you guys kissed for... my first time.. the first 15 minutes were really not that good because it was sort of awkward but once you sort of sink into it it is more enjoyable... have you done all of that other stuff with him but avoided kissing? idk that seems odd to me but idk
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reader, scythe  +, writes (8 April 2008):
 hey darl,
i never used to like kissing at all. but as i grew closer to my (now ex) boyfriend, and developed a stronger emotional attachment, i found that i really enjoyed kissing.
it might be easier for you to consider the other sexual stuff in a non-personal / non-emotional way, but kissing is more personal so maybe that's why you don't like it. what do you think about hugging and cuddling? same reaction to kissing?
anyway, i think that you will grow out of it. i did :)
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