Why does it seem that when a relationship is nearing the end men tend to say things that make it seem like they would die if you broke up with them?
Q. There has been some tension in my relationship with my boyfriend a, we have been disagreeing a lot lately about various things, so much so that I have considered ending the relationship. I care about him deeply, but I don’t think things will work ...
A. 27 July 2010: Men and women alike use the "i'm going to kill myself" card to make their significant other guilty and submissive. No one wants to be the one that pushed someone into killing themselves.
However, most of the time they don't and wont do it once tha... (read in full...)
He had sex with another girl! will he hurt me again?
Q. Hi, i was with this boy for around a year and a bit, when i discovered that he had had sex with another girl. I was devastated and he was heartbroken that i had found out and that i was hurting inside. he tried everything he could to make things ...
A. 5 May 2010: If he cheated once he'll cheat again.Don't give him the time of day.
Especially since he was heartbroken that YOU FOUND OUT. It wasn't a kiss either it was sex: the ultimate act of physical intimacy between two people.
It's better to move o... (read in full...)
I want to give him my virginity but there's a problem..he already has a gf!
Q. im 19 and i found a guy that i want to lose my virginity to. We have been together for a month and i feel 110% ready. The problem is that he has a girlfriend on the side....
A. 5 May 2010: Absolutely not! Don't let your sexual urges get a hold of your judgment. You've only been together for a month which is NOT enough time to even consider giving something so precious. I agree with silly2169 its a mistake if you have to ask others ... (read in full...)
Was my dream trying to tell me something?
Q. Okay so I'm a lesbian teen and last night I had a sex dream about my best friend. In real life my friend knows that I'm gay. So in my dream my friend was seducing me and I was trying to get her to stop because I told her that she was probably...
A. 5 May 2010: Its probably just one of those dreams. We've all had dreams where we've kissed or had sex with some person we know. I wouldnt dwell on it too much because in the end it really is just a dream... (read in full...)
Implant is making sex unenjoyable!
Q. Hi I have had the implanton in my left are for 8 months and I thought it would be a great type of protection except well I've lost all feeling down below and I mean everthing!:( oral feels lik nothing to me and I can't feel him inside me wit condoms ...
A. 5 May 2010: You definitely need to see a doctor because sex is supposed to be enjoyable. ... (read in full...)
Good sex with unloving husband!
Q. I am in love with my boyfriend of a year. I have never felt like this about anyone else - not even close. However, i have been married for ten years and have two children. My boyfriend is married too. We knew each other for two years before we ...
A. 5 May 2010: If he's been violent, you don't feel emotionally connected to the person you married and its mainly physical now, I would get a divorce.
If you stay for the just kids, you'll hurt them more then you'd ever imagine. Especially if you get a divorc... (read in full...)
I don't see my internet boyfriend enough in real life!
Q. hi i met this guy in a chat room about a year ago,we both felt something special,we kept talking everyday and we made a deal to meet first in person to decide where our relationship can go,so we met and it was cool and he became my internet...
A. 5 May 2010: It's not normal to make up stupid excuses to not see you. Either he doesn't feel the same when hes with you in person or he's extremely shy. When you can't behind a computer screen he has to show you all of his personality. Online you only see what ... (read in full...)
How can he be so selfish? We only just broke up and he's already hanging out with girls!
Q. How is he so selfish? We seriously JUST broke up,he JUST dumped me. And he is already hanging out with girls. How do I know this? Facebook..I know I should stop looking,but I can't help it. We were together for over a year,I can't just shut him out ...
A. 5 May 2010: People get over their exes in different ways. So many people say they "cant get them out of their lives completely" but are you actually trying to?
Stalking his profile on facebook and seeing what girls he's talking to isn't going to help you... (read in full...)
Do you think this girl and I are right for each other?
Q. Hello, I wanted to ask whether this girl and I are right for each other. I think we are. I'd like some more feedback before I make a move. I care about this girl so much that the though of rejection petrifies me. I want to be as certain as possible ...
A. 5 May 2010: Take a shot! Or even take the "he said she said" approach and have a mutual friend (girl or guy) say they "suspect you like her" Chances are, her response and reaction will reveal it.
But from what you've said it seems like a match made in heave... (read in full...)
How can I trust someone who keeps important secrets for our whole entire relationship?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 7years. We had our ups and downs. She's kept a secret from me for 7years and finally wants to come clean 1st strike. She drilled me hard about sites like myspace and etc. I stopped using them. Come to find out she ...
A. 5 May 2010: She seems shady and if she's lied to you about something like this, then what else has she lied to you about? 7 years is quite a long time with someone, but what exactly is a relationship without trust?
If she can't tell you important secrets ... (read in full...)
Do I break up with him when I go away for the year?
Q. I think I need some advice. I’ve been going out with my boyfriend for the last two years and he’s the only guy I’ve ever been with. Thing is I’ve been fantasizing all along about sleeping with other guys. My boyfriend is almost perfect, he’s ...
A. 5 May 2010: I agree with CaringGuy. If you think about having fun with other guys chances are you'll end up acting on it. Especially if you'll be away for a year.
I think you need to end it. Or even take a break and do your own thing. Then when the year is ... (read in full...)
I want to trust him but I can't!
Q. Okay, so i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and about 2 months ago i found out through his friends that he had slight feelings for this other girl, who is meant to be his best friend. He told me he loved me but had a 'soft spot' for her. I ...
A. 5 May 2010: You just have to trust him. If YOU love HIM you have to. People lie, and people cheat but if he seems sincere (which I think he is because he even stopped talking to her for you. No one else) trust him. Thats what a relationship is.
With a guy an... (read in full...)
Am I gross? OR was the guy just not nice?
Q. Hi, I recently hooked up with a guy and whilst we were in bed fooling around he took off my pants, then he stopped and was like ew, so I asked what's the problem and he told me "your vagina is gross". I've had my confidence knocked by it my...
A. 4 May 2010: Don't you ever let one guy ruin your confidence! You're perfectly normal because every vagina comes in different shapes sizes and lengths. One woman's clitoris is about the size of her thumb!
Instead of jumping into racy situations with guys, fi... (read in full...)
I'm married, she's married!
Q. Hello, I have a female friend that ended up telling me she is attracted to me and she really likes me. She is an attractive woman and I do like her and her personality. We hang out every weekend with our neighbors. The only thing is I'm married a...
A. 4 May 2010: It seems to me like she's using you as an outlet to get back at him. He's cheated on her so it seems like a good idea to "do it back".
If attraction is strong, remember why you married you wife and why you chose her of all people to spend th... (read in full...)
Why do I have feelings for this other guy but love my boyfriend?
Q. well i am a freshman and i am 14 years old going on 15 anyways i have a boyfriend and we have been together for about 7 months and i really do like him but he is a real dick like i wanted him to come out in my 15 and he said he didnt do 15's and ...
A. 4 May 2010: Why does another guy do things that your BOYFRIEND should do? Honey, I suggest leaving this guy because you're supposed to be a top priority to him. If he doesn't want to make an appearance on your birthday of all days- the day where his GIRLFRIEND ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be this obsessed by my image?
Q. I think I got rejected in the past because I'm not very good-looking. I used to have a best friend whom some guys think, is pretty and they often talk to her with me, standing by her side, ignored. I have a huge issue about being ugly or looking ...
A. 2 May 2010: No it's not normal. It's very unhealthy. This is coming from someone who's been in the same boat. Do you know what the secret to what attracts a guy? You've seen girls you don't consider pretty getting guys etc and if you haven't, they're out ther... (read in full...)
My married lover wants to end the relationship, what can I do to stop this?
Q. some days back i had asked a question on relationship with a married christian lady with whom i have been working for the last 12 years. now i would like to ask another question in this context. 28th april was my birthday and i offered the christian ...
A. 2 May 2010: If she's married it's wrong because she's cheating on her spouse. It's even more wrong if she calls herself Christian because this is adultery.
She doesn't want to be seen with you because she knows it's possible that she could be caught in the a... (read in full...)
I'm really scared about coming out to my family!
Q. Dear Cupid, I really hate saying this fact about me but i'm gay and have accepted but I'd do anything to not feel like this but I can't turn back now. I've gone through the step of accepting myself for it now I always fantasise and occasionally...
A. 2 May 2010: If you're not at the age to support yourself if your parents get angry with you and even dis-own you (I have a friend who's parents did this) then I suggest telling the person you can feel comfortable telling. The older sister perhaps.
It's ... (read in full...)
Should I stay or should I go?
Q. ok heres whats going on.I love my boyfriend very much and we been through a lot together.he understands me more than anybody and i understand him like no1 else..we are just alike in every way..we think the same,do the same things,and i can even tell ...
A. 2 May 2010: Why did he need to break up with you just for getting money?
Are you married but separated or just plan on getting pregnant? Otherwise you wait until you have that ring on your finger and after you say "I do" before even thinking about it.
I... (read in full...)
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