Am I too attached to my boyfriend?
Q. Hi. There's something, I don't know if that's a problem but I'm extremely attached to my boyfriend but in a very exaggerated way. We are together like 12 hr a day everyday, he wants to be with me all the time and I want to be with him too, w...
A. 5 August 2010: Don't quit your job- you shouldn't lose your self as your own person when you are in a relationship. You should discuss about Establishing alone time/ time apart from your partner. this could be girls night or maybe just "me" time for yourself. ... (read in full...)
Do I say this friendship is over, or do I let something like this pass?
Q. So my best friend bailed from a kayaking trip the night before we were supposed to leave. I called the company and they said the 150$ had to be paid anyway and no refunds could be made. I told my friend this and she said "no it's your fault you ...
A. 5 August 2010: This is not a friend. She does not appreciate you! She does not seem one bit remorseful either- with a friend like that who needs an enemy? Don't let this one slide! End that toxic relationship! ... (read in full...)
Never had sex, now have the opportunity with a hot girl who I don't love. Should I go for it or save myself?
Q. I'm very uncertain about this one particular circumstance coming up for me. Let me explain... I'm 17. I've lived abroad my entire life. I've never had sex, I've never kissed a girl. The supposed reason is this; where I live, the women have a par...
A. 5 August 2010: I lost my virginity to a man I was not complety on love with - although we were in a relationship . Everyone alwAys wants the first time to be memorable and romantic- personally I'm not sure how realistic that is. Think of it this way- people losing ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 & my bf's 25, I don't know what to do, he loves me.
Q. OP's own title: I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 25. I really liked him before we were going out and he liked me too, he even dumped his girlfriend because he says he can't be with her when he loves me. I love him too but I'm soo scared abou...
A. 5 August 2010: If he truly loves you he will wait to have sex with you until you are 18 years old. Sorry if that sounds harsh or unfair but it is true. Love is blind - however the law is not. He could become a registered sex offender and accused of statuatory rape ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 & my bf's 25, I don't know what to do, he loves me.
Q. OP's own title: I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 25. I really liked him before we were going out and he liked me too, he even dumped his girlfriend because he says he can't be with her when he loves me. I love him too but I'm soo scared abou...
A. 5 August 2010: If he truly loves you he will wait to have sex with you until you are 18 years old. Sorry if that sounds harsh or unfair but it is true. Love is blind - however the law is not. He could become a registered sex offender and accused of statuatory rape ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex to lose virginity even though I don't think it will be as special to him as it is to me?
Q. I have been with my partner for three years and so far we only engage in oral sex. I havent been ready to go forward with full sex and he has been very understanding about this. However, now I am getting tired of being a virgin as I am 25 and its ...
A. 4 August 2010: As a virologist you should be a very smart woman. However, the question you ask is slightly immature. why would you break up with him yet say you see a future with him?? Honey, it's the year 2010 and he has stayed with you 3 years without sex! ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex to lose virginity even though I don't think it will be as special to him as it is to me?
Q. I have been with my partner for three years and so far we only engage in oral sex. I havent been ready to go forward with full sex and he has been very understanding about this. However, now I am getting tired of being a virgin as I am 25 and its ...
A. 4 August 2010: As a virologist you should be a very smart woman. However, the question you ask is slightly immature. why would you break up with him yet say you see a future with him?? Honey, it's the year 2010 and he has stayed with you 3 years without sex! ... (read in full...)
Was she really a virgin?
Q. Hey, i have been with my girlfriend for a little over 2 years now and when we started dating she was a virgin and i wasnt and eventually we ended up having sex and obviously i was the one to take her virginity. My question is and something that has ...
A. 4 August 2010: condoms are irritating to the vaginal wall for some women -thts probably why they hurt her! ... (read in full...)
Not eating! Love sickness?
Q. Since I started seeing a new guy about a month ago. I've stopped eating, not perpously, I didn't even notice until about a week ago, I do eat, but like once a day if that sometimes. I don't know whether love sickness is making me not feel hungry ...
A. 4 August 2010: You say "Love sickness" but haven't indicated if have you suffered heartbreak. Sometimes when you are so excited about a crush or new love interest your apetite will fluctuate . This is normal- FOR A LITTLE BIT . However if this continues ( ur lack ... (read in full...)
Confusion lead me to look at her phone while she was sleeping.....
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a few years. About a year ago we started fighting a lot. Since then we have had sex only six times and we havn't had sex at all in months. She doesn't even want to kiss me or cuddle with me when we ...
A. 4 August 2010: It seems to me like you truly care and want your relationship to work. You need to sit her down and talk honestly. Tell her you miss her affection and that you are willing to help her through her 'hormone' problems- however you will need a doctors ... (read in full...)
Mum wants to die, what do I do?
Q. My mum is very ill. She has a wide range of multiple illnesses and is in alot of pain. The illnesses include: Emphysema and COPD Chronic Heart Disease Chronic Kidney Disease Cerebral Vascular Disease Fybromyalgia and Arthiritis From...
A. 4 August 2010: Hi I live in the u.s. and I would like to say you are very strong to be going through this. My suggestion to you is to tell her you love her everyday and spend as much time with her as possible. Stay strong as you have been and care for her. However ... (read in full...)
Not been shown attention from husband, now met a guy who HAS shown me attention... do I pursue this?
Q. I am married and my husband treats me ok. Yeah he loves go with his friends to the bar but so do I. We are an ok couple but he just never really pays me attention anymore. I can cook his favortie meal but never receive thanks. I literally do ...
A. 4 August 2010: Are you in love with your husband? you say you are an "ok couple " sounds to me like you could take it or leave it. It seems like his indifference has ruined you marriage. I see your age and most people no longer marry so young- do you think that ... (read in full...)
Married man but now I KNOW I prefer men... help!
Q. I've been married to a woman who I love very much for 4 years now and have been with her for almost 7 years. Before we hooked up, I was in two consecutive homosexual relationships. She knew and even supported me at that time, and we were good ...
A. 4 August 2010: You need to be honest and tell her that you love her as a person but that you don't want to be married anymore. Explain that you have realized ou are homosexual and that this has nothing to do with another woman or man ( I'm assuming since u did ... (read in full...)
I might actually act soon on my crush... but it's my best friend's boyfriend!!! Help!
Q. Hey people! I feel ashamed, its ridiculous but yes, i have a crush on my girl's bf! The worst thing is that he knows it and he always turns me on deliberately. He says that he loves his girlfriend and thats true but he also tells me that he wants to ...
A. 3 August 2010: your willing to lose your best friend over a sleazy crush?! Do yourself a favor and forget him! If you were a real friend you would tell her that her boyfriend is dishonest with her! If you want to disgrace yourself and lose your friend over a ... (read in full...)
Slowly going crazy with guilt!!!
Q. *OP Title* This is a bit of a mess. I recently married my boyfriend (now husband) of 8 years. We are so happy and I love him so much and I know he loves me too. Ever since we got engaged I have been thinking about a mistake I made in the first 3 w...
A. 3 August 2010: when you made the "mistake" you were younger and had no idea that the man you were dating for a month would be our husband. Give your self a break! You had no ring on your finger at the time ! keep it to yourself. What counts is that you are ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with jealousy?
Q. How do I deal with jealousy of people talking to my friends or change this? I get jealous when other people talk to my friends as they have their attention. I was never like this when I was at high school because I only had a few friends...
A. 3 August 2010: It seems that's your Jealousy stems from insecurity. This may she related to your past. The wisest approach to take is to understand your feelings first and foremost. What is it that triggers your jealousy - is it perhaps certain people? Remember ... (read in full...)
I've broken up with him but now my friend keeps talking about him all the time and it's hurting me...
Q. About 2 weeks ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. Though, he wasn't just my boyfriend, we've been best friends for the past year. We only dated about 2 months and I've loved him for quite some time before that. He said he loved our other best friend a...
A. 3 August 2010: This situation sounds a bittwisted . why would you date a guy who says he is in love with 2 girls? ( even if 1 was u) that is a huge sign of emotional immaturity - so if your feelings were pure for him - you should have held off to avoid hurting ... (read in full...)
Wait for what I want or settle for the guys who want me?
Q. I am 21 years old girl and i have never had a boyfriend but i would love to have one. There are a few guys that i know are interested in me but none of them are the kind of guy i am attracted to. But my question is, should i continue waiting un...
A. 3 August 2010: Start going it on dates - after all that doesn't mean you have to be their girlfriend. good luck ... (read in full...)
Feel threatened by husband's friend; working in the same office. Found incriminating texts on his phone. Are they more than friends?
Q. I am a 26 yr old woman married for the last 2.5 years. My husband is great friends with this another woman whom he knows since before he met me. I would call this woman M in the rest of the email. 'M' and my husband 'A' used to work together in a ...
A. 3 August 2010: Ashley, I will be honest with you - it sounds like they are more than friends. I find it questionable that she passes your desk so often without saying hello. Her texts to him are flirtacious and provocative. I would confront this siuation right ... (read in full...)
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