I think my mother is having an affair
Q. Hey.. I really need help! Its about my parents... For the past year my mom has started to not be home that much only a couple of nights a week... She works as a teacher in Sweden (we have a house there and shes swedish...) It costs about 40 $ back ...
A. 10 July 2010: Hey - I'm sorry you haven't got a reply sooner. From someone of a similar age to you, I know what you're going through. Issues like these tear families apart and I can see this is what you're concerned with most.
Though I don't agree with wha... (read in full...)
I don't want my heart broken again by him!
Q. I used to have a major crush on my best friend. He used to leave his girlfriends house to come to mine and we'd talk for hours. He ended up breaking up with her to spend more time with me. I liked him but we never actually dated. We were ...
A. 10 July 2010: I apologize for the length of time its taken, and it might be that you've already been on this trip to see him. In which case I am here to support you from whatever resulted from that if you so wanted...
It sounds like you were very close to him -... (read in full...)
I have one child with him and another on the way, but it seems he wants nothing to do with his kids!
Q. been having this problem with my baby's father we just broke up about 2 weeks ago but i haven't been seeing him for the past month just 2 days or one day in two weeks at a time. i just decided to leave him for good, what i want from him is fo...
A. 10 July 2010: I apologize for the length of time its taken for someone to get back to you, and if your situation has changed don't hesitate to message me if you want some advice.
It seems like this is a truly awful situation to find yourself in and its goin... (read in full...)
Will I get a 3rd chance with my ex?
Q. hey, i have a problem with my ex.....We started our relationship april 2009...we both fell in love in a very short time...but i broke up with her over the summer because i was a jerk i made up a lie and we broke up i told her i was leaving back to ...
A. 10 July 2010: Shall start off by apologizing for how long its taken to respond to your answer - particularly since your situation may have changed by now.
Based on what you've written however, I think shes confused about how she feels and how she believes... (read in full...)
Big crush on my husband's brother!
Q. My situation is really messed up. I am married and I do love my life but I am bored. I have a big crush on my brother in law and I think he feels the same about me. I told him my feelings but he hasn't told me in words whether he feels the same or ...
A. 7 July 2010: Its horrible when you have feelings for people and the longer it goes the worse it gets. I really do feel for you. But think about it this way; you married your husband for a reason. You thought he was the one you'd spend the rest of your life with, ... (read in full...)
Not sure how to proceed to the next level with dating?
Q. Ive just met a guy on the internet. He lives about an hour away and so far we've been out for a meal and today we met for a walk and lunch. He seems really sweet and has been texting me a few times a day for the last month or so. I do fancy him and ...
A. 6 July 2010: Firstly; so glad you're taking it slowly and cautiously! It might be worth you doing more of the same and trying to get to know him a lot more. After a few more times (when you feel comfortable) you could just invite him in for dinner. If you w... (read in full...)
How can I improve my self-image?
Q. I am a seventeen year old girl, 5'4'' and 118 pounds. I generally wear sizes 0-2, or x-small-small, in a variety of clothing brands, so I KNOW I'm not fat or anything, even though I often feel like I am. There has never been a time in my life when ...
A. 6 July 2010: Hundreds of thousands if not millions of girls are in exactly the same position as you are right now - girls of all shapes and sizes from all over the world. I don't know one girl who doesn't have something they'd like to change about their ... (read in full...)
My friend is being weird!
Q. Hi my friend and i know each other nearlly a year. we got close really fast, but over the last six months we've started to dift apart, i don't know why but i guess these things happen. i try and ask her if something is up because there is always s...
A. 6 July 2010: It might be that shes going through some personal issues that she wishes to keep private. It might be worth explaining to her that despite you drifting apart that you'll always be there for her if something is happening and if she ever wants to talk ... (read in full...)
Is my friend bisexual or just physically close to me?
Q. For a few months now I've had feelings for my best friend. We've known eachother for a little more than a year but we quickly became best friends and we are very close, emotionally and physically. She's very touchy feely but more so with me than our ...
A. 6 July 2010: Shes right in that hormones wreck havoc on teenagers personal lives and makes us want to do things we know we shouldn't do. Or make us feel things we don't want to feel. Not all people are confused, some just know they're straight and don't have a ... (read in full...)
Can I get in trouble at work for what I post on FB?
Q. Need some advice and have been on internet but can't find any info. I basically need to know if your manager is on maternity leave can she get you in trouble? I have acess to my facebook and usually update my status on breaks etc.. Now I ...
A. 6 July 2010: There was something in the news about a high-ranking Police Officer (potential Head of the Police Force at Scotland Yard) who posted something on facebook similar to what you're describing and ended up getting sacked. Like any situation, you need to ... (read in full...)
I'm in love but at the same time scared,,
Q. Hi! Ok this is going to sound very long but I really need the advice! I'm going to be 20 years old in less than 2 months and I have never had a boyfriend before in my life! Let alone kissed a boy. Everytime I'm crushing on some guy, I think I'm in ...
A. 6 July 2010: I realize this is difficult for you given you haven't had a boyfriend, and like you I have a tendancy to just 'fall in love' with people and its horrible when they don't like you back time and time again. It takes a lot of courage normally to make ... (read in full...)
Big crush on my husband's brother!
Q. My situation is really messed up. I am married and I do love my life but I am bored. I have a big crush on my brother in law and I think he feels the same about me. I told him my feelings but he hasn't told me in words whether he feels the same or ...
A. 6 July 2010: When I was younger I used to try and live by the rule 'never fight your feelings' but every guy I've liked since has broken that rule. Even if (after following Vintages life in trying to fix your 'boring life') you end up seperating from your ... (read in full...)
A month ago he proposed but now I'm thinking it was a mistake to say yes
Q. Hello, I've been with my boyfriend for about two and a half years. Earlier this year, I was relocated for my job and had to move about 2 hours north of where I lived with my boyfriend. The job is pretty demanding, but I try to visit him once a...
A. 6 July 2010: The phrase 'lets go on a break' springs to mind. He needs to realize that he can't take you for granteed and if he doesn't give you the love and attention you NEED then he can't have you. Breaks also mean you can go back to the relationship if ... (read in full...)
How do you flirt without being obvious?
Q. Is there any way to make him like me? I see him only at church. We like never talk but he always looks at me.. Is there a way to flirt with him without making it obvious that you are flirting? Thank you!...
A. 6 July 2010: If you want to flirt with someone then generally you want him to notice it. The first step in this relationship though might be to start talking to each other? About church, school, family, friends, life? ... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship... Calling
Q. Oky how do I start... I'm In a long distance relAtionship and I've known him for so long we have gone out when we lived near each other n braken up for lil stuff but know dat he has left we r trying to c how far we can get togetther. He had told me ...
A. 6 July 2010: Long distance relationships are difficult to maintain and often end because people gradually drift apart. They only really work out if the people involved make a true effort to keep it going. In your case, it doesn't look like he is making a ... (read in full...)
Alcohol & Panic attack problems
Q. So I really need your help to do with alcohol. About 1 year ago I drank 3 smirnoff ices whilst I was out at a party. I suddenly felt really funny, light headed and felt like I was dying. I had a pretty tough childhood and I've been told that I...
A. 6 July 2010: Like the poster before me pointed out your panic attack was probably caused by alcohol. Panic attacks alternatively can be caused by a huge amount of stress, and if there was anything like exams or work that was stressing you out that certainly ... (read in full...)
Could seasonal depression be the cause for her odd behaviour towards me?
Q. Hi, me and my girlfriend have been together for nerly 18 months and have just finished off our A-level exams. we are still young and she is very much my first love. with all the confidence i have left, i can say that for large majority of our ...
A. 6 July 2010: The first thing you need to understand is the illness that visibly effects her life - depression. I recommend you do added research, but the disorder isn't yours or her fault. People who don't deal with it often relapse weeks, months or years after. ... (read in full...)
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