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writes: For a few months now I've had feelings for my best friend. We've known eachother for a little more than a year but we quickly became best friends and we are very close, emotionally and physically. She's very touchy feely but more so with me than our other close friends. Sometimes she holds my hand, cuddles with me, hugs me for a long time, a few times kisses me on the cheek and once she even spooned me in her bed. I can't tell if she is just close physically as a friend with me or if she's bisexual. She recently broke up with her boyfriend, and she's mentioned a few times that she thinks everyone our age (teens in highschool) is confused and curious sexually. I recently realized that I'm bisexual, but none of my friends or family know. I'm not sure if she is bisexual too, but sometimes I notice her staring at my boobs and she's mentioned that I have a good body. HELP?!
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reader, RB92  +, writes (6 July 2010):
Shes right in that hormones wreck havoc on teenagers personal lives and makes us want to do things we know we shouldn't do. Or make us feel things we don't want to feel. Not all people are confused, some just know they're straight and don't have a problem in dealing with their emotions. Those who are confused however go through a very difficult period in their lives...I personally am only very touchy feely with people that I actually like, and if not I make it pretty clear its a joke and nothing more. By what shes said, 'everyone' being confused would also include her, so it would suggest that she to is bisexual. But what difference does it make? If you like her then it might be time to admit your feelings to her but if you don't and you feel uncomfortable with what she does just tell her to stop. At the end of the day, shes your friend and nothing more.
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