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writes:Hi my friend and i know each other nearlly a year.we got close really fast, but over the last six months we've started to dift apart, i don't know why but i guess these things happen. i try and ask her if something is up because there is always something up but she never tells me, i dont know what to do because things are gettin difficult. any help? Reply to this Question
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reader, RB92  +, writes (6 July 2010):
It might be that shes going through some personal issues that she wishes to keep private. It might be worth explaining to her that despite you drifting apart that you'll always be there for her if something is happening and if she ever wants to talk to you about anything then your there - assuming you're okay with all that of course :)
On the other hand it might just be because you've drifted apart. Its obvious you care about this friendship, so just text her or email her every so often for a chat and try and get things back to how they were before. If that still doesn't work, you could still buzz her a message every so often but don't see it a necessity. At the end of the day, you need friends who are there in the moment.
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