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writes:My partner of 17years spilt up and found another guy within a few weeks. I didnt get any closure and she has not made any contact for a good few months. I was extremely hurt and have had counselling. I just wondered if she might have cheated on me or is she on the rebound? Is this a ideal way to start a new relationship?
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reader, xkimx +, writes (18 July 2007):
 to be honest yeah she probably has cheated on you if she found someone thats quick but i dont no to be honest but probab;y mif she wanted out so quick
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (18 July 2007):
 Some people just seem to be able to throw themselves in to a new relationship right after one ends. I wouldn't torture yourself thinking about whether she cheated on you or not.
If it is a rebound thing more than likely it won't work out as she wont have gotten over you, but there isn't anything you can really do apart from get on with your life. And sort yourself out :)
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reader, raychell +, writes (18 July 2007):
 First of all I would like to say that no breakup is pretty or easy to handle and I feel for you there. It could be possible that she had cheated on you and that could have been part of the cause of you both breaking up. But if she didnt cheat on you then she could be in a rebound relationship. But it could make you feel better about it if you wonder whos she with now. If you havent heard from her in months then she might have not settled down with anyone again and you might be the one thats better off. I no its hard but i think the best thing for you to do is to try and mover on after all not everyone will be like her youll find the one that you will spend the rest of your life with and that wont hurt you by lkeaving you after 17 years.Good LuckXxX
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