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*Mike
writes:Hey guys, I need alot of in depth help with my current relationship.I'm 16 and i've been with my girlfriend who is currently 14 for 10 months. I was so happy when i first got with her, we had great times together, but after 3-4 months, we started arguing over absolutly nothing, and we'd argue like this every time we'd see each other. We don't go to the same schools so we had to catch busses and rely on parents to take us to each others house. But now my relationship has moved on, we had sex. Once we had sex for the first time it was great, but then she wanted it again...again and again. In a 6 month period i think we have probably had sex 40+ Times. But, this is not my full problem. (Just giving details)But now, im in the position where im working 21 hours a week and i have college in 1 month. Im not going to see her that much. She is the most jealous girl EVER. She dosen't trust me at work, school even out with my friends. eventually she trusts me, but if somthing new comes up (like work) then she gets all fussy.I need some help on what to do, I always get these feelings inside myself as if to just finish the relationship, but i can't deal with not having her company. She's the best girl to be with ever. I feel it maybe the sex life we have ruining the relationship. Shes always feeling my over my clothes etc.Please help me guys, what should I do. I want ANY answers, details and how too approach what advice you give me, i can't keep feeling how i feel. It lets me down.Thanks guys.Mike
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reader, raychell +, writes (26 August 2007):
 First of all I'm not going to be one of these people that giv e the morals of what the law does and doesnt say but I am going to say that sleeping with a 14 year old is a dodgey thing to be doing. I'm not saying this is what WILL happen but I am just letting you no what I have seen happen. Youu could end it with her and it all turn nasty, for example. I asume that she isnt a stupid girl and she nose that the ages of you 2 could bee a lil dangerous. But she could turn nasty and go to the police and tell them all sorts and you wouldnt have a leg to stand on. My advice is to sit down together and TALK. If you think kyou cannot talk to her on your own then maybe ask someone to sit in with you maybe both of your parents (blieve it or not they do actually help in these matters lol) adn tell her how you feel, if it does come down to the fact the she doesnt trust you then I think you should end it because no relationship is worth having of you dont trust each other. But she needs to becareful as it sounds to me as if she is the bragging type. as in she has sex with you as much or wants sex with you as mch as she does and then talks about it to her mates, vertiually all 114 year olds do. She maybe feels 'big' about it as she will probably be one of the only ones to have lost her virginity in her year let alone to someone older than her. I would just becareful. But most importantly dont let her drag you down into feeling bad thats the worst thing for you and she cant care for you that much if she does do this. Get back to me and I'll be able to help you more.Good LuckRaychellxXx
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