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anonymous
writes:I have been divorced for a little under 1 year, i have no kids of my own. Now i am falling in love with a woman with 3 kids and my family thinks that i am making a mistake........ i really love this woman. wht should i do?
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reader, rcn  +, writes (11 September 2007):
 This is your life. You're old enough to make your own decisions, and if it turns out to be a mistake, you're old enough to make those mistakes. If you're truly falling in love, don't let family influence your decision for happiness with this person
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reader, carebearer  +, writes (30 August 2007):
Definately forget what your family are saying and go for it. Good on you for loving this woman and seeing the person she is and not "Oh no she already has 3 kids."Like so what, you're divorced and unless you got with a virgin it would be pretty hard to get with someone who did not have some history.Your family should be happy that you are lucky enough to find someone again.Good luck and be happy together!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007): forget what your family say or think if you want this woman go for it,my fiance did and i had 6 kids bck then, and now 7 our own child
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reader, raychell +, writes (27 August 2007):
 I agree with smeedle. I'm seeing/living with someone who has 4 kids. As long as your ok with it then I dont think it really matters. Who you see doesnt really have that much to do with your family. They maybe think your making a mistake because of the fact that she has had a serious relationship before you and will always bee reminded about it because she has the children. Dont worry about it again its up to you who you see and you cant help who you fall in love with. Mail me if you wana talkGood Luck.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (27 August 2007):
 To hell with what your family thinks, if this woman loves you back or has some strong feelings for you then go for it.
It is your life and your life to make mistakes or find happiness, who knows what the future brings.
Just because she has kids should not make any difference, she has a past just like you. Your parents maybe worried about her having kids etc but hey it is you and her not them and her.
Go seek happiness and if your path is with this woman then good if not then ok but at least you will have tried.
Good luck
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