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I listen to people. I am not a fake; if someone needs me, I'm there. I love my friends to death and will do anything it takes to keep a good friendship. I'm not dating right now cause the boys I go to school with are REALLY immature. Not friends with them except for a few. Girls here, wish me luck. I hang out with older people in high school and get along with them great. my best friends are 3 boys and 2 girls. i love music, reading, and sports. i am still wondering why all of a sudden I am having so many problems, which is why I joined this. hope it helps!! o(_)o

I like my best friend and want to tell him before I move. How should I tell him?

Q.   I'm moving soon, and I like my best friend. I want to tell him, but I don't know how he'll react and I don't want to ruin our relationship. People tease us about it, so I'm sure he knows that I like him. Should I tell him before I move or just write ...

A.   7 March 2010: Hey guys... I told him a few days ago, and he turned me down in a really nice way. He was cool about it, and he is still my best friend. Thanks for your advice, I'm glad I told him how I felt. ... (read in full...)

Ideas on teenage dating sites?

Q.   Anyone got idea's for a teenage dating site? Im not too young to date and dont tell me to not get involved with guys cuz ive never had a bf and im ready. thxx. ...

A.   7 February 2010: You shouldn't go on a dating site if you've never had a bf. Try going with guys at school first. Internet safety and all. I'm not saying that you're too young, but for this age, I believe you should start by being friends. ... (read in full...)

We have solved our problems but other people wont forget

Q.   i had some problems with a guy in september,october,and early november. we solved those problems and we are now boyfriend and girlfriend but no one will let us forget about what happened in the past. we have moved on and have now been dating for ...

A.   6 February 2010: I don't think your relationship is any of their business. If it's over and in the past, then that's that. Just be yourself with your bf and in front of everyone else, and hopefully they will see that what happened doesn't matter anymore. I agree ... (read in full...)

Is there a "nice" way to break up with someone?

Q.   Is there a "nice" way to break up with someone, or a right way? I reconnected with an ex-boyfriend over facebook, and we've been dating steadily for the past 3 months. We have a lot of common interests and get along well, but I am not physical...

A.   24 January 2010: It will always hurt one way or another to break up with someone. That's never going to change. What I think you should do is talk to him when he visits you. Tell him the truth, you don't like him like that but you want to stay friends with him. If h... (read in full...)

Should I just get it over with and tell them both that my best friend is the father?

Q.   I'm eight months and three weeks pregnant with my best friend's baby. My best friend is obviously a guy and it was a stupid, drunken, completely irresponsible night. And... I've been dating another guy for a year and five months now. Yes, I cheated, ...

A.   24 January 2010: I think you should just get it over with and tell them. I don't think you'll want to be explaining the whole thing in the hospital, and it's better to get everything settled before the baby is born. If it is your best friend's baby, you need to tell ... (read in full...)

Should I ask out my best friend?

Q.   i have this huge crush on my best friend and i really want to ask her out, the only problem is she knows i fancy her, what should i do?...

A.   24 January 2010: It's good that you are already friends. That's good cause it means very likely you will stay friends no matter what the outcome. Ask her out, just don't overdo it. ... (read in full...)

He's not mine so how do I stop loving him?

Q.   I know Im young but hear me out.... Im 18 ....I found this guy whom Im sure I love, Every time I see him I get butterflies in my stomach, sometimes I get palpitations in my chest.I always think about him.....I see him in my dreams... somet...

A.   24 January 2010: I have the same problem. Try being friends with the guy. For me, the more I like a guy as a friend, the less I think of them like that. However, you may get lucky. For now, try to shake off your thoughts so that you don't end up hurting yourself. ... (read in full...)

We are cousins and madly in love, should we tell?

Q.   ok, well a few years ago my cousin came to stay with us for a while and we imediately became really close, then one night he kissed me (although i had been wanting too for ages i didnt, because i wasnt sure how he would react.) anyway we ended up ...

A.   24 January 2010: I don't really have any experience with this, but I think you should confide in someone that is a member of your family. Talk to them about it and see what they think. I don't think you should go running off and get married, but enjoy your ... (read in full...)

Wondering if my periods are normal

Q.   I'm 13 and I've been a woman for a little over a year now, but my periods aren't regular and sometimes I miss 3 or 4 at a time and then a heavy one in the middle of the month that lasted bout a week for the flow to finally stop, and then last month ...

A.   24 January 2010: For it to be irregular, it is normal. Especially if you have only had it for a year. I've had mine for 3 years and it still isn't regular. Since every body is different, it might take you a longer or shorter time to become regular. If you're still ... (read in full...)

I feel I cant match his last girlfriend for looks

Q.   Okay, so I'm dating this guy and everything is great. Execpt I feel like theres alot of pressure on me. The last girl he went out with was gorgeous, she's really pretty and one of them most desired girls in school. I feel like I cant possibly li...

A.   24 January 2010: You shouldn't listen to what those other people say. Really, it's none of their business. You are you. Don't try to be like this other girl. If the boy is trying to make you be, time to move on, but if he is going out with you because he likes you, ... (read in full...)

My best friend and I are fighting over a boy

Q.   My best friend is saying stuff about me and I want to punch her in the face..Should I? This all started over a boy....

A.   24 January 2010: If she's really your best friend, she wouldn't be saying stuff like that. Talk to her, and tell her that this guy isn't worth ruining your friendship over. Guys will always be around, but having a good friendship, especially at this age, is WAY more ... (read in full...)

He used me in order to make his ex jealous!

Q.   i like this guy from same school but different class for 6months..i want to talk to him so badly,but don't know how to approach him naturally. one day he approach me and said he wants my number..i was so happy like crazy person.. so began conta...

A.   21 January 2010: He might or might not be using you, but you should confront him and talk about it. I totally agree with The Realist. Talk in a calm manner, and you should be able to settle his. Good luck!!... (read in full...)

I'm a girl starting to notice girls??

Q.   Ok so this is totally weird for me. I am straight, but recently I have started to notice girls too. I don't really like them that way, but I'm interested in their bodies more than guys. I don't think I'm bisexual, but I don't know if this is just a ...

A.   18 January 2010: Hey everyone thanks for responding it made me feel better to know. :) It does make it easier to know this is a part of growing up and that it's not really unusual. Thanks a bunch!! ... (read in full...)

Why am I so hurt?

Q.   I dated a girl on and of for 3 years or so. When we broke up it was always my doing and when we last broke up a year ago, I told myself and her that it would be the last time. We had just moved in together in a new city and the relationship was not ...

A.   17 January 2010: If you ended it, then you ended it. When guys do that, girls are hurt too. Maybe she needed to feel close to someone, or she wanted to think she was over you. It could be many things. You don't need to forgive her and she does not need to forgive ... (read in full...)

I was breaking out in pimples so I bought an over the counter product and now I look even worse

Q.   Hey there, ok so im 15 yrs old and I started breaking out bad on my forehead on the left side of my cheek. Im kind of like a drama queen so i couldnt handle it anymore so i went out and bought Proactiv. I started using it for about 2 weeks and it ...

A.   17 January 2010: either you're allergic to something in it, or it's too strong for you. Everyone at this age is going through puberty, so your face might or might not be smooth again for awhile. Ask your doctor or friends what they use or recommend. good luck!! ... (read in full...)

I am 14 and really ready for a baby... got money and stuff, what do you think?

Q.   hi, i am 14 and want a baby..ive cared for babys all of mii life n have the money for it...i kno a baby is alot of work and its all about the baby and u come last..but i dont care.. i wanna have a baby to love me and share their feelings wit me n ...

A.   17 January 2010: It's nice that you have the money for it, but keep it for yourself. Use it for college and supporting yourself first. Right now you live with your parents who take car of you. Continue talking care of babies, but also realize how you are setting ... (read in full...)

I am crushing on my cousin!

Q.   I don't know why but recently i have been having feelings for my cousin. Now i know that this is wrong but i just get weak at the knees when he smiles and i think he knows about it because he gives all the hints and we always give hugs and kisses to ...

A.   17 January 2010: He might know it, but does it mean that he "likes" you too? Boys flirt. If he hugs you longer, it could mean that he likes spending time with you and is letting you know it. Try not to fantasize too much, because you could just end up hurting ... (read in full...)

No visa - no win situation.

Q.   Hey there This is a bit complicated so please bear with me. My boyfriend Albanian but lives in Sicily where we met six months ago. He can't visit me because his residency gets him into the shengen countries of which our lovely UK is not part....

A.   17 January 2010: If you really like him and think that you can make it work, then you should stay with him and try to work it out. Sometimes boys can avoid talking to their girlfriends for random reasons. Don't bug him about it, but when you do get the chance to ... (read in full...)

I am so lonely I cry and cry every night

Q.   The guy I dated for several months moved away and I'm so heartbroken. I was always independent and never had a real relationship til this guy, and now I can't stand being alone! I feel so sad and lonely all the time, and would do anything to meet ...

A.   14 January 2010: hey there, first of all, you're not dumb. get that out of your head. love is special. not many people get to experience it in a good way. it's perfectly normal to feel sad over a relationship, but don't let it rule your life, especially if that some... (read in full...)

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