What kind of person makes this sort of random offer?
Q. I met a man on a train on the way into New York City. He was very helpful as I was asking for directions and he travels often, so we spent about an hour chatting. He gave me his number so he could send me some links and when I texted him to thank...
A. 7 November 2014: haha the thing is i didnt find him to be flirty at all when i was with him. Or maybe because I am so oblivious.
He was very polite and very much the gentlemen.
I joked that he was my sherpa, and he said then he should be carrying my bags. swo... (read in full...)
What kind of person makes this sort of random offer?
Q. I met a man on a train on the way into New York City. He was very helpful as I was asking for directions and he travels often, so we spent about an hour chatting. He gave me his number so he could send me some links and when I texted him to thank...
A. 7 November 2014: I am attracted to him!
But he was making all these moves I was oblivious to.
Well - we can't have any dates because he hasn't asked me, and we don't live in the same city.
Well I can not do anything now.... (read in full...)
What kind of person makes this sort of random offer?
Q. I met a man on a train on the way into New York City. He was very helpful as I was asking for directions and he travels often, so we spent about an hour chatting. He gave me his number so he could send me some links and when I texted him to thank...
A. 6 November 2014: Hello! thanks so much for your responses. Well I was kind of shocked that he made such a random offer. I mean, it is still pretty easy to say whatever you want to a stranger and do nothing about it. He said he invited me because he assum... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend cheap or am I being unreasonable?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now - and i think reality is really just hitting I used to gush about how perfect he is in every way – and I think the honeymoon is now over. One of my issues that I want to ask about, is regarding ...
A. 28 August 2012: Hi Everyone - thanks for your advice. I have talked to him about it and letting him know this is happening. I mean yes, he pays for our dinners out most of the time, (which is happening less and less, since i am cooking, or he is so picky he will... (read in full...)
I have a reunion with my ex in 2 weeks and now he's disappeared.
Q. For the last month, my ex and i started talking again, and it's been so wonderful, he really made the effort, because he had been really hurt. and we've been talking everyday, and been planning to meet up again, for the first time in a over a year. ...
A. 14 October 2009: we did meet up, and it was really really nice, super affectionate, like we never left.... but now its been a month and i havent really heard from him, we havent talked... so...... (read in full...)
Why do I want to be with someone who shows little regard for my feelings?
Q. My ex and i broke up more than a year ago, and moved away from each other, we were together for a year and half, and it was a very passionate relationship, we definitely loved each other a lot, but i hurt his pride, and that was it for him. A fe...
A. 5 October 2009: why do you think its about low self esteem?
i dont have any self esteem problems at all, actually i really love myself, but i think its because i hurt him once, he was definitely the one who loved me more before that in our relationship. it was perf... (read in full...)
I love my ex bf very much, but is it love or should we just move on?
Q. I've been here a while now! I just have so much emotion! I am so very grateful for this site and all the agony aunts. I love my ex boyfriend very much, even though we havent seen each other in a year, but still keep in contact. However last con...
A. 9 July 2009: ok i hope so!!!! he's so special to me. I just hope he fels the same way.
thanks so much for responding. ... (read in full...)
Is there a way for us to successfully be together again?
Q. I love my ex, but we haven't seen each other in a year, we sometimes keep in contact, and most recently he has contacted me to reminisce about old times. He said if we were ever in the same city we should meet up. Recently my friend saw him in my ...
A. 6 July 2009: its been a year now since i've seen him!!! you'd think that was enough time! I've sent him nice emails since, and I haven't heard anything back. I see him log on and I have deleted him because I cant bare to know he is online and we are not ... (read in full...)
My first boyfriend has reappeared in my life, and married and I don't know how to stop living in the past.
Q. I didn't start dating until I was 20, but I never had a serious relationship until I was 23. But the first boy I dated when i was 20, only for 3 months, but he was the sweetest, cutest, most lovely boy, and til now I still think about how wonderful ...
A. 6 July 2009: Hi AuntyEm,
You're right, and i would never mess around with a married person. I just really appreciate the kind of person he is, and we are not compatible in so many ways anyway, (religion, lifestyle, diet). I am trying to focus on myself but ... (read in full...)
I know I need to get over him, but he's beign so callous!
Q. Wow, ok, I have a huge problem getting over my ex boyfriend, because he was my first love, at 23. The relationship lasted for a year and a half. He has 2 MSN accounts, one with his real name, and one with a fake name. I met him online, on his fake ...
A. 6 July 2009: thanks guys! it's so horrible right now buy i am itching to email him...
Ilovebowsandcherries (heehee!), I am just so sad, because we were each other's first love, and I can't believe it's been a year since I've seen him, and i still cant get over... (read in full...)
I know I need to get over him, but he's beign so callous!
Q. Wow, ok, I have a huge problem getting over my ex boyfriend, because he was my first love, at 23. The relationship lasted for a year and a half. He has 2 MSN accounts, one with his real name, and one with a fake name. I met him online, on his fake ...
A. 6 July 2009: Ok I just want to say I actually took my own advice and deleted both his accounts off my MSN, I feel.... really good. ... (read in full...)
He ex says he has something to tell me, but wont say what. Why is he waiting so long?
Q. My ex and I have not seen each other in a year now, we live in different countries, but still love each other, as we have both expressed it to each other. I had some issues and I hurt him very much, not by anything external of our relationship, but ...
A. 22 May 2009: thanks for answering denizen, i know, i really don't to have my imagination run wild on me, but i can hardly imagine what you could hold on to for a month and not say, when he keeps saying he has much to say. im going crazy. ... (read in full...)
Fine except I'm scared to ask out girls...
Q. I'm a 22 year old man, has a good social life, a good job, and am enjoying life. However, I have a problem with confidence which is affecting my ability to get a girlfriend. Every time I try to ask a girl out, I end up stopping myself because I...
A. 10 May 2008: so you have no problem talking to women, its just asking them out? why dont you put yourself in a situation where you know they are single. like, one of those speed dating things, if that's too traumatic for you, why dont you get get a friend to set ... (read in full...)
Should I move with my boyfriend?
Q. I'm 28 and a successful engineer and have worked all my life to get this job that i love. im quite independent as i earn enough to live comfortably in the city. my boyfriend has asked me to live with him but in a town far from the city as he just ...
A. 10 May 2008: hi,
i suppose what i have to say in response to your posting is, that you should do things for yourself. what is important to you? do you want to pursue your career or do you want to make a sacrifice for love. like i guess the question is, what woul... (read in full...)
I told my boyfriend at the end of our relationship I was molested as a child and he didnt care.
Q. my boyfriend and i of one year have been having many problems the last 3 months, he never said it was over, just "this isn't worth it anymore" and "you need to find another guy" but never officially that, we were through. we had another fight and i ...
A. 23 April 2008: hi, thanks for answering, i'm messed up now, but it took me a long time to let someone in my life, and so i let him know hoping he'd understand thats why i do lack experience in relationships. the thing is he always says he's an understanding ... (read in full...)
Does anyone out there understand a man's mind?
Q. Here's a question for anyone who thinks they understand a mans mind! I was with my ex boyfriend for a year. Lived together from 3 months, looking back it was too soon and it caused problems. We did/do get on amazingly well, we have a very deep...
A. 23 April 2008: hi, along with a few of the other respondents, i feel im in a similar situation too,
he needs, to figure out himself out first. im sure you want to be there for him, and i want to be there for mine too, i tried for 3 months, waiting for him and ... (read in full...)
If anyone has been through this please tell me what I can do to get over him. I know this relationship will never work.
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago... I love him with all my heart but the relationship will never work as his feelings are always from one extreme to another. One week he will focus all his attention on me and treat me as though i a...
A. 23 April 2008: hi there, i feel like i was in the same relationship as you, when things were good, i was his princess, but whenever we got into even a little fight, not even a fight, but whenever i was upset, he would be furious that i had anything to be mad over ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me because he says we are incompatible! What does this mean?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I met 4 years ago, it was immediate attraction but we lived in different countries. I moved in close to him, and so we dated a year and 2 months. There is no doubt about how much he loves me,we even talked about getting married ...
A. 23 April 2008: hi, i feel like i'm in a similar situation as you, we feel in love right away, passionate and romantic. and we were pretty different people, but opposites attract right? he's very athletic, and outgoing, and a people person, and i like to nest, av... (read in full...)
I want to get him out of my life - but how?
Q. I need help I'm trying to get over my ex! I have relapsed 2 times now I'm trying to not go 2 weeks without talking to him then end up seeing him again.I know he's no good for me I just feel alone and need some company and see him. I would think I ...
A. 23 April 2008: hi, i've had that same issue before, and as much as i knew in my head that he was wrong for me, i just couldn't. just as i thought i got out, he pulled me back in, heehee. how i got over it, really, was time. time will do wonders, and you have to ... (read in full...)
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