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*owderedheart
writes:For the last month, my ex and i started talking again, and it's been so wonderful, he really made the effort, because he had been really hurt. and we've been talking everyday, and been planning to meet up again, for the first time in a over a year. i've moved away and he's moved away, and so we're going to be in the same city finally in 12 days...but we got into a "fight" 6 days ago, it's not even really a fight, it just got heated, to me i think we are both scared about this... since things have been going so well, i tend to forget that i had hurt him, and when he said that i didnt deserve to see him again, i got very defensive and hurt...and said it seems like we are moving backwards, not forwards...and i think it offended him because I havent seen him him online for 6 days (we only chat online)... and after talking to him everday for a whole month, it kind of makes a difference.....we had all these plans made, i'd only be back for 2 weeks, and he'll be gone too... so i dont even know what to do right now, i've been so looking forward to this, and i thought he was too.... i mean, i know he was, but i cant believe he would just cut me off like this... what can i do? i'll be back in 12 days and i have no form of contact with him.... how long before i really panic?
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reader, powderedheart +, writes (14 October 2009):
powderedheart is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe did meet up, and it was really really nice, super affectionate, like we never left.... but now its been a month and i havent really heard from him, we havent talked... so...
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reader, aisforacting  +, writes (26 August 2009):
 I honestly don't think he cares that much. If he did he would do everything he could to be there.
Don't worry about what he does. I think you should move on and find someone who appreciates you.
Goodluck!
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