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... Send *ipsta a private message | | | *ipsta's profile:I am 21 and have been through a lot in life, including relationship breakdowns, family separation, near death, depression and much more.
I like to help people, and offer advice from my life experience, to help people get through life's uncertain situations.
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I'm always happy to help out a stranger and show the world that you don't have to know someone to bring a smile to their face, or change something in their life forever.
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I want a boyfriend! How do I go about getting one when I am the only gay in my school?
Q. Hi I am in my teens and I'm gay. I've been masturbating to gay sex like millions if time and I feel pleasured but the thought that makes me have an orgasm is having a boyfriend and there's no gays in my school except me but no one knows. ...
A. 21 April 2010: Hey mate,
Although I myself am not homosexual, I went to school with many people of different sexual orientations, but a lot of my gay schoolmates didn't come out until they were 17-18.
Its great that you are accepting of your own sexuality at... (read in full...)
Can they really not have sex in the morning if they 'have to pee'?
Q. Me and my boyfriend's sex life has been declining. We used to have sex at night about 5 times a week. Now we are down to one, maybe two nights a week. He is usually too tired to do it at night, so we have been having morning sex. Well the recent ...
A. 21 April 2010: Hi there,
Needing to pee during sex is a huge inconvenience for a guy, and usually it is impossible o continue, and when you go to pee, you have to be 'soft' in order to do so.
This does ruin the guys mood because it can sometimes be difficul... (read in full...)
I feel guilty about what I watched.
Q. Okay so this sounds really stupid but my boyfriend asked me to watch some porn so I did because he asked me to and I guess I wanted to know what all the fuss is about. Ive watched it on about 4 different occasions and I always delete my browsing ...
A. 13 April 2010: You can go into control panel internet connections and delete 'files', 'cookies' and 'history'. this may work unless there is a tracker through the router. If he hasn't had a go at you about it yet though, unless he is strict or religious, porno... (read in full...)
Is it better if he stays in the army or leaves?
Q. Hello, My boyfriend has just returned to army training, after 2 weeks leave. He has been there for 15 weeks before hand. He has to go to training in england which means he is away from home in Northern Ireland. As soon as he got back he said he ...
A. 13 April 2010: As a former soldier, I can tell you the way he is feeling now is entirely normal, on your first leave during training is the hardest. If he stays in it gets a LOT better once he is based. The army is a brilliant career path for a young man and ca... (read in full...)
How do I go about getting an abortion?
Q. i am 15 ( 16 in 5 days), and my boyfriend is 19. my mum hated it when we first got together but now she is used to it. i really love him and he really loves me we are so happy. but i think i might be pregnant i am really scared but he said whatever ...
A. 11 April 2010: Hi there,
It is a big step to terminate a pregnancy, and if you are certain that you wish to do so, I suggest speaking to your GP to get the process started.
I suggest speaking to your boyfriend before you make the final decision, as if he finds ... (read in full...)
If I watch lesbian porn does that mean I am a lesbian?
Q. dear cupid, I regularly watch lesbian porn. i am a girl aswell. I dont know if i'm a lesbian or not because i'm still attracted to boys. But not attracted to girls. i don't know what to do! help!...
A. 10 April 2010: Its perfectly okay to enjoy watching lesbian porn if you are a girl, and it doesn't make you a lesbian.
There are a number of reasons why you may find lesbian porn more arousing/exciting that guy-girl porn;
1) the female form is apprecia... (read in full...)
Can guys feel if they have released pre-cum?
Q. Last night i may have done something stupid. I was in the car with my ex-boyfriend who I often hook up with, we were fooling around and he really wanted to have sex. It was quite cramped and he didnt have a condom on so I kept saying no initially. ...
A. 10 April 2010: Normally no, a guy can not feel pre-cum, as it is released in much the same way as female discharge, t during sex, a guy can't feel his 'wetness', due to the females own lubrication.
I suggest taking a morning after pill, as there could be a sma... (read in full...)
Too painful to lose my virginity! Is his penis too big?
Q. My bf having a very thick and large penis (about 8.5"), when we try to have sex last night, it felt like I am never try to do leg split before and somebody force you to split and then some skin torn away. I scream in pain but his penis head still ...
A. 10 April 2010: Hi there,
It does sound like he might be quite large to lose your virginity to, but there are ways of making it easier on yourself.
Have you been sing lubricant? this could help.
If this still hurts, then try masturbating prior to sex, insert... (read in full...)
No vibrator... how can I improvise?
Q. How can I get a vibrator without ordering it off line and where can I get one that cost less that 20 bucks? What else can I use if i dont have a vibrator or dildo?...
A. 9 April 2010: when my partner was younger, she used a Playstation controller, until she bought a small handheld vibrating back massager, these can usually be found for cheap too. jst mke sure you keep it clean, as with any sex toy.
:)... (read in full...)
Did she just reject me?
Q. She said "Ur Crazy" I said "Crazy about you" She said "You are mistaken" I said "LOl. It's true. I am" The she said, "Oops your mistaken again." I said "Lol. Ok I am MISTAKEN!" She said, "I know. It's okay." I was trying to make the situatio...
A. 9 April 2010: From what ws said, I believe, unfortunately for you, yes, she did just reject you.
She says 'you are mistaken' in the sense that she is not into other girls, and you are mistaken in thinking there is something more than a good friendship there.
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Any insight into itchiness after sex?
Q. I sometimes get an itchy foreskin after intercourse with my girlfriend of over 3 years. It affects the exterior AND interior (tip) of the foreskin. We have unprotected sex and use lubricant every time. It sometimes occurs after masturbation as ...
A. 6 April 2010: Heya thanks for that! Something so simple has thus far worked! Thanks again!... (read in full...)
I'm late for first time, could I finally be pregnant?
Q. im 20 and have been with my man for 2 years. its been nine months since we started having sex without using anything (we do want a baby), we have sex a few times during the week, and at weekends we do it like 2-3 times in one day, he usually does ...
A. 6 April 2010: These are sometimes good indications that you are indeed pregnant. Although sometimes this is not the case.
My G/F and I are also somewhat 'trying' (if it happens it happens) but we have been fooled thus far.
Recently we thought she was ... (read in full...)
Difficulty ejaculating in most scenarios.
Q. Hello, I've been dating a girl for a very long time now and the whole time we've been dating I haven't been able to cum UNLESS I am the one doing the "work". I can't with head, hand job, her on top, nothing. I can when I titty fuck her or on top o...
A. 4 April 2010: hey mate, this could be for a number of reasons.
The no.1 cause of this is usually anxiety/self-conciousness, you may not feel like it is this, but it usually is subconcious.
A way to try and fix this is maybe have a drink before sex to help ... (read in full...)
He treats me nicely, but when he's around his friends he ignores me. What should I think?
Q. hi okay so this guy is rly confusing me hes one of the most popular guys in school and im not im not like a nerd but just like in between okay well he flirts with me all the time (my whole math class notices) and he's my "therapist" he sorta like ...
A. 4 April 2010: Hi there.
The thing with guys within your age group, are very easily swayed by his friends. if you are in a different 'social level' than his friends, he may feel like he will lose his status and popularity at school.
He obviously does like yo... (read in full...)
How can I overcome the loss of my unborn baby?
Q. Last year in September, I got pregnant, I was 16 at the time and I was on the pill, it was just very bad luck. When I found out I was no longer with the guy so I had to make the decision about what to do. Shortly after I found out about the pregna...
A. 3 April 2010: I'm so sorry for your loss. My partner and I went through the same thing twice within the last few years, it is a very hard thing to deal with and is very emotional.
I can suggest having the support of good friends to help you through this time... (read in full...)
A kiss, ...with a twist. How should I spice it up?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 6 months and i want to kiss him a little differently to normal to make things a bit more fun. any ideas? x...
A. 3 April 2010: you should definitely try nibbling and kissing his neck and ears as well.
also lightly stroking the back of his head with your fingertips feels sensual as well.
Being close and touching eachothers faces and necks gently can also add a nice lit... (read in full...)
Will guys judge me because of my lack of sexual experience?
Q. This might sound very crazy but I desperately need some wider opinions on this. I dated my boyfriend for two years and despite being together for so long, we never had sex. It wasn't that I didnt want to sleep with him or that I had specific ...
A. 3 April 2010: As a guy speaking from a guy's point of view, what you are doing is fantastic! Firstly it is very brave and noble of you to hold on to virginity (I'm not religious, but view it highly).
Any guy who is worth your time is not going to judge your lac... (read in full...)
How can I change my promiscuous ways?
Q. 3 April 2010: I feel like such a slut. I am only 16, 17 in 2 weeks and I have slept with 14 boys over 2 years I think. I dont know why I do, I just watnt to feel wanted. I get used and it hurts me like mad and i get really really down because I ...
A. 3 April 2010: Hi there, unfortunately there is nothing we can do about the past. being the age you are, sexuality is very confusing and hard to control. My current long-term g/f has had an extensive past in terms of "relationships", and regrets what she has done ... (read in full...)
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