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writes:Please help me :'(I've been with my husband since we were 14, we're now 18.When I was 15, I fell pregnant with our daughter, who turns 3 this December. We got married nearly a year ago.I love my husband so very much, but I'm absolutely heart breakingly petrified that he's gay :'(He's always been openly bisexual, although he says he's only ever had oral sex with one man. He says he loves me and all he wants is our family :'( But Recently I found Gay porn on his laptop, as well as a secret Facebook profile in which he is listed as Gay and single, it includes pictures of him half naked, and men commenting sexual things on the pictures. One picture is him in our bedroom, in his boxers. A man commented "Take them off." He replies "I will later ;)" In one picture he's cropped me out of our wedding photo. The caption reads "Me at my sisters wedding" :'( :'(Im devastated :'( Is my husband gay? Exploring his bisexual side? How Do I begin to deal with this? What Do I Do now? All I have ever wanted is him and our precious little girl. My heart is breaking :'( Any advice would be greatly appreciated xxxxxxx
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reader, Atsweet1  +, writes (28 September 2012):
 He is openly bi sexual you all ready answered this question bi people do gay and lesbian things. Bi people tend to be neutral when asked if there gay or lesbian. Ask him is he go sneak behind your back with male lovers or be upfront of faithful just to you. Get direct don't be alarm you know how many of us fall for bi or gay str8 pretending men. It hurts the girlfriend wives but the guy probably won't stop but make try once they have crossed that threshold of gay man on man or bi man with man sometimes then girls sometime.
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reader, Peonysheart +, writes (27 September 2012):
 You definatley need to talk to him about whats going on and what all you have found. You are both young. Haveing a child and than a marriage at a young age is hard. Someone that is unsure of there sexuall preference, even harder. It sounds like he is trying to explore his other side.
Best wishes
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2012): Before you confront him, all signs indicate that he is gay. If the answer is yes be prepared to handle it. If he denies it, also be prepared for lies.
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reader, chad_warns +, writes (27 September 2012):
 I would confront him with all the information you know about him and ask him why. Be frank with him and ask him if he is gay. Tell him not to be afraid to come out if he is. Be supportive of him. You need to talk to him and confront him.
I hope everything works out for the best. Good luck.
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