Will my cousin think I'm a creep?
Q. I feel really bad for I did something really stupid.Many months ago,my cousin who I love,kept ignoring me on Facebook.There is no reason for her to hate me,but her mom and my mom had gotten into argument.Nevertheless,I foolishly kept re-adding her ...
A. 7 March 2010: Thanks for your advice.Its good to know my situation is understood by others.I was feeling bad about myself,like I had done something to hurt her.You are right,what she did was petty.She is 23,and yet she ignored me.She never even sent me a ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to let guys down gently?
Q. I've been in this situation several times this year unfortunately. I have a guy who I hardly know ask me out, out of the blue...well...not EXACTLY out of the blue. I kind of expect that they like me at first. But it's always a big shock when ...
A. 4 March 2010: No need to be rude,for example its the same with guys.A few times girls have either asked me out,or made other moves,and I have rejected them in a nice manner.So as long as you are not rude,there is nothing to worry about.... (read in full...)
My life has always been controlled by my parents and now my husband. How can I break free?
Q. I grew up with very strict parents, I was not allowed to go out with friends or be independent. My day ran on a schedule, from school to various music, dance, and etiquette lessons. My parents determined how I would dress, wear my hair, and who I ...
A. 4 March 2010: Hey there
First off,you have to trust your instinct,nothing more or less.If you feel you may well regret your decisions in later years,and become resentful,then you should follow your heart and desires.DO NOT HAVE ANY CHILDREN,you don't want any... (read in full...)
I don't like my father's inappropriate behaviour! Should I be worried?
Q. I think my father is acting really weird. I've never been too close to him and whenever he wanted to kiss or hug me like my mother does, i silently rejected him because I didn't like it. That made him angry and we started to argue about unimportant ...
A. 5 February 2010: It is odd,but you should provide background on why you never loved or liked or father.... (read in full...)
The guy I like his flirting with somebody else, and she's no good for him! what should I do?
Q. I really really like this guy. He usually pays alot of attention to me and hangs out with me and walks to class with me. But lately he's been flirting with this other girl who is sooo not his type she the type that will break his heart in a few ...
A. 5 February 2010: You should tell him how you feel,and see what happens.Other than that,he has every right to be with someone else,whether you think she is his type or not.But take a chance and see what happens.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is cheating on me! Should I leave? or stay?
Q. hi, ive just found out my boyfriend is cheating on me. im unsure on what i should do. whever i should leave him or stay. please help... ...
A. 5 February 2010: I would say you should leave him,for he totally disregards you.Ofcourse some people change,but you should really discuss it with him,and make it clear that if you stay,you will certainly leave him if this occurs again.... (read in full...)
Considering dating an older woman...
Q. I am a college student and I am really not attracted to any girls I know personally or for that matter my recent and distant past. I have joined an online dating site, and have considered dating an older woman. I have just turned 23. My question...
A. 3 February 2010: Thanks all who have answered my questions,all of them were really well thought out and made me sure that what I am doing is the right thing and that I should not worry.... (read in full...)
I don't know how to have an orgasm.
Q. How can i cum or orgasm when i masterbate without sticking my finger / anything else in my vagina ?...
A. 3 February 2010: Stimulate you clitoris,for many women do not orgasm through penetration.So even when you do eventually have intercourse with a man,you may not orgasm.Good thing you are not having sex.... (read in full...)
Do I like him or is it because it's the month I had my abortion?
Q. i got pregnent with my ex last year and he ended it, i had an abortion and it just seemed he didnt want to bother and was not there for me, but now i have strong feelings for him again. Do I like him or is it because it's the month I had my a...
A. 2 February 2010: I say get over him already,you are young and focus on other things besides having sex.Btw make sure you use protection,along with you boyfriend,then you won't have this problem again.... (read in full...)
My friend is being too obsessive
Q. Hello everyone, I have a problem, at school there's this girl who I was nice to and we became friends, but now she's too obssesive, she waits for me after every class, intimidates my other friend, make me feel really down when she always complaine...
A. 2 February 2010: Give her time,discuss with her honestly that you need your space,but do not be mean to her.She is a good person,may even not realize she is annoying you.But do not brush her aside and be mean to her,you may need her one day and plus it is just ... (read in full...)
How do I handle my online dating friend?
Q. I have recently joined a dating website and have started emailing a guy that seems like a great prospect. I was the one who first send a short "ice breaker" message to him and he responded very positively. We have since been emailing very lo...
A. 2 February 2010: I think you are reading it the wrong way,he could very well be uncomfortable calling you first.But it does not mean he is not interested,or else he would not have given you his phone number or even continued e-mailing you.So make the first move and ... (read in full...)
Does my husband want me to have a baby now?
Q. We've been married for 2 years but dated for 7 before and we're both 30 (knew eachother when kids) Hes the kinda guy who loves kids. Anyway basically whenever we are making out he always like rubs and touches my stomach and just like holds onto...
A. 2 February 2010: Talk to him about it,and he will tell you whether he wants children or not.Btw I thought you were younger than 30 considering it says you 16-17 yrs old.But its good you guys are not teenagers,and have a stable life.Still having a child requires deep ... (read in full...)
I watched gay porn but I don't think I'm gay.
Q. I've been having this problem for a few days now. You see I don't want to be gay and honestly I don't think I'm gay (I have nothing against gay people I just don't want to be if you know what I mean) but its become a bit of a problem for me. The ...
A. 20 January 2010: You are being too hard on yourself,you would know it if you were gay.People often times think or masturbate to many images,it does not mean they are seriously attracted to that nature. Fro example I have masturbated to porn featuring older women,bu... (read in full...)
I don't know what I'm doing wrong but I've never been kissed by a girl... Help!
Q. Hey I'm 17 years old and I'm a junior in high school. I have never kissed a girl nor have I had a girlfriend. I have no self confidence in myself even though girls tell me I'm cute. I am puerto rican and have guido spiky hair and am 5' 8''. Most of ...
A. 20 January 2010: Firstly have you ever asked a girl out before?If not,then that is a reason why you have not had a girlfriend before.Girls are not just going to be your girlfriend automatically,you have to ask her out and initiate a relationship. Many people a... (read in full...)
Has anyone else been in my situation and can you offer any support?
Q. hey is anyone out there who was a victim of a sexually assault.. as for the past 2weeks i ahve had nightmares about the attacks and wonderd if some1 on here could surport me but private mail on this website?? im strugglein gettin thro eachday ...
A. 20 January 2010: You should seel professional help!... (read in full...)
His Father's sudden death is causing too much stress in our relationship! Advice?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating around 2 and 1/2 years. A few weeks ago his father passed away very suddenly. Not only has this created the normal emotional stress that comes with losing a loved one, it also has brought all sorts of financial ...
A. 20 January 2010: I think you both should stop fighting with each other,losing a loved one is no doubt one of the most stressfull and worse times one can experience.I think you guys should seek professional help and discuss the isssues at hand.Your boyfriend should ... (read in full...)
He hates me! So tell me... how do I get over him?
Q. I have a crush on someone who hates me. Hate might be a little strong but he is definately not interested. Yet I still can't stop thinking about him. It is making my life unbearable and I keep asking myself how could you be attracted to someone ...
A. 20 January 2010: I agree with the previous answer,you should not only occupy yourself with stressful work,trying meeting new people and doing things you actually enjoy.Overtime you will meet new men.I know your feeling,it really is bad to love someone,and yet they ... (read in full...)
Bleeding while using the bathroom..sore insides! My bf is going a bit rough on me..help!
Q. Okay my fiance and I fool around alot. We do alot of kinky things. We have not had sex yet though. When he is fingering me or something I think he gets to rough maybe. Because now the my insides kinda hurt it only hurts on one side though. I am...
A. 20 January 2010: When starting anal,it be slow so as not to be painful.Anal is different than vaginal.Anyways I would not see how fingering you could hurt your insides,maybe you can ask him to do it slow so as not to cause pain.But you should definitely have this ... (read in full...)
What is sex like? How do you know when you are ready?
Q. Im just curious.. What is sex like? Is your first time special or akward? How do you know when your ready?x...
A. 17 January 2010: Never rush into it,and yes the first time is always akward,but that is always the case.Do not expect it to be great,it improves over time.You should think it through to see if you are both ready.... (read in full...)
He put his penis in unprotected, now I'm late, but it wasn't full on sex
Q. Okay, so I don't know much about sex but lately I've gotten incredibly paranoid. A little while ago things with my boyfriend heated up and he stuck his penis in without a condom, but things did not get intense because we both didn't really move and ...
A. 17 January 2010: You should get tested,for it does not matter,as long as semen,or even pre-cum gets close,is enough to impregnate you.Sperm are one of a kind,and that they are easy to do damage.My mom told me that her relative way back in the days got pregnant with ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me? I love my teacher (not IN love)
Q. Ok, so I've been doing as much research as possible over the internet on this topic but none of the cases I found were quite the same as mine, and after months of searching for advice online and finding nothing, I've decided to post my question on ...
A. 17 January 2010: It is quite normal for one to feel attracted to a teacher or a similar fauthority figure.But really you may not be in love,but instead be infatuated.Not to mention that these feelings and fantasies are normal when one is in their teens.Seriously ... (read in full...)
I want to give my new boyfriend head...
Q. so i want to give my new boyfriend head. we`ve been together 3 months and we have started to get sexual. ive done it before to my ex and the ex before that and they always said it was really good. but the problem is... they were both ...
A. 17 January 2010: The reality is there is no reason for you to take his whole entire penis into your mouth.The sensitive part of the penis is the tip,so that is enough to drive him crazy.There is no reason to take his entire member inside your mouth,if you want to do ... (read in full...)
I don't know... Does love exist?
Q. Hello =). In this summer vacation i met this girl, she was everything i dream about, she was so beautiful and at the same time she was smart and sweet and had a great personality, wow she has been the best girl i met. You know, when i ask her out ...
A. 17 January 2010: If she says she has a boyfriend,then it can't get any more obvious than that.She is unavailable.Lets say there was a small chance she is lying,which means she does not want to be with you.I have felt the same as you,it really is one of the worse ... (read in full...)
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