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I watched gay porn but I don't think I'm gay.

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Question - (20 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been having this problem for a few days now. You see I don't want to be gay and honestly I don't think I'm gay (I have nothing against gay people I just don't want to be if you know what I mean) but its become a bit of a problem for me.

The first time this happened I was watching some lesbian porn while masturbating however when I got to the climax I started to think about men having sex, Then the next time I watch the same video while masturbating I stopped it near the climax and opened a gay video to watch which helped me finish faster for some reason.

I'm hoping this is just a phase that i'm going through. I still feel attracted to women and after I finish (other then worrying that I might be gay) I don't really think about men but still.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010):

There's nothing wrong with you at all. I'm a straight female who climaxes faster watching gay (yes, guy on guy) porn rather than anything else.

The simple fact of the matter is you're not gay if you like girls.

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A female reader, jadena United States +, writes (21 January 2010):

You are not gay, you are just experimenting with watching different types of porn. Don't be hard on yourself, when you are a teenager, it is a very hard time trying to figure out where you belong in this world. Some people think that if they find the same sex attractive that something must be wrong with them, not true.

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A male reader, NM1218 United States +, writes (20 January 2010):

You are being too hard on yourself,you would know it if you were gay.People often times think or masturbate to many images,it does not mean they are seriously attracted to that nature.

Fro example I have masturbated to porn featuring older women,but it does not mean I prefer older women to girls my age.I'm 23 now and honestly,I have never masturbated to gay porn.Some straight guys can,and many women can also with regards to lesbian porn.But I never did,never turned me on.But we are all different,it does not make you gay.

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A female reader, 'Janey' United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2010):

'Janey' agony auntyour not gay, hey im a gay and went through the same phase, i liked watching lesbian porn, i believe its because you no how it feels so you feel what they feel i suppose, dont worry its nothing to worry about :) x

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