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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: i got pregnent with my ex last year and he ended it, i had an abortion and it just seemed he didnt want to bother and was not there for me, but now i have strong feelings for him again.Do I like him or is it because it's the month I had my abortion?
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reader, alexis** +, writes (3 February 2010):
i think its pry b/c you2 have ben thru so much. a abortion is a big deal! going thru that is big &hard, but if he didnt want2 even try then he dont sound like a good guy anyway. its understandable 4you 2be thinking about him again, but people dont usually change, so find someone who is there4 you. dont you have a good friend you could lean on rite now, instead of him?
i wish you luck:)
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reader, NM1218 +, writes (2 February 2010):
I say get over him already,you are young and focus on other things besides having sex.Btw make sure you use protection,along with you boyfriend,then you won't have this problem again.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 February 2010):
This sounds like loneliness to me, more than anything else. I suspect it's all to do with Valentines Day and your abortion. This isn't about love at all. Just remember one thing about this guy. He left you when you needed him most. He's not the guy for you at all.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (2 February 2010):
Valentines is approaching. Everyone is talking about love. And, you feel lonely. With the history you two have, and with your doubts. I'd say it is the loneliness that is causing the attraction.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010): If you still like him for the next month or two I guess its because you like him. But dangerous waters though! He made you pregnant and didn't care! You don't want to have a boyfriend who isn't there for you for something so important in your life!
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