Finding his porn last night made me think....he has a different 'ideal' and it is NOT me!
Q. I hope to receive some input here - this issue has given me a great deal of grief over the last two years I have been dating my current BF. My history - I dated a boy my age for 8 years. I was his 'ideal'. He liked pink skinned, blue eyed, tall,...
A. 6 April 2010: I wonder why you are still with the man who would never, for once, makes you feel confidence as well as happy. Why bother to stuck with a guy who never actually appreciate you as who you are while you can spend that whole time looking for someone ... (read in full...)
Should I cancel this trip so he realizes I'm serious?
Q. I just can't believe the incident that occured with me and my boyfriend. I went to meet him because he was waiting for his daughter to get dropped off by her mother..so, while I'm in the car with him and his daughter he ask's his ex if she needs a ...
A. 28 March 2010: I don't care how much he is trying to appreciate you by booking the vacation, but it won't do when he is an abusive partner. Cancel it and leave him. He abused you before, and he will do it again.
You should in fact caring for your child. Give you... (read in full...)
Do boys never make passes at girls wearing glasses?
Q. What do guys think of girls who wear glasses?I wear them and I seem to get a lot of attention but I was just wondering...
A. 28 March 2010: It doesn't matter, don't worry. If a guy really like you, he should see your true nature through the glasses. If he can not pass the glasses, he won't be a truthful man in the end.... (read in full...)
Fiancee lied about being a virgin, how can I let her down gently so she can find someone of the same mindset?
Q. Hai, il go straight to the point. My fiancee lied to me that she was a virgin, am 27 years and i kept my virginity she told me she slept with 10 guys and i dont i can marry her. How do i let her go gently so that she can find some else with her same ...
A. 27 March 2010: Then you in fact did not love her at all. She lied to you probably because she knew if she told the truth, you would leave her right away from the start. Now she told you the truth and you leave her, like she has always known, then you are, well, ... (read in full...)
I am so worried my family will spoil my engagement party!
Q. i'm so worried about my engagement party becos of my family will spoil it. they wont argue with my fiancés family, no. they will argue amongst themselves, about petty things, and it will just ruin everything, cos they cant be around eachothe...
A. 27 March 2010: You are a grown up. Tell them straight. Tell them you want the respect from them. Tell them if they have petty things to argue about then don't come to your party because it's your important and special date. Tell them you rather have less people ... (read in full...)
I've been offered to appear in an adult film. Any advice as to what goes on behind the scenes?
Q. I have been with my partner for 8 years and we have a solid relationship, in the past we have had threesomes with single men/woman and couples, it's never been something we do all of the time, just on the odd occasion, I have recently been offered ...
A. 27 March 2010: I don't know what to say but if you partner is, well, a good partner, he should not have agreed on it. I don't know but that is just me.
Like lilacfox said, you need to do a throughly research on whom you are going to be involved with. Involvin... (read in full...)
I am bleeding after sex and wondering if I need to go see a doctor.
Q. I am bleeding after sex and wondering if I need to go see a doctor or not. I have only had sex a few times and it was kind of rough. I was also wondering if using a condom can make you bleed after sex and if switching to another type of birth ...
A. 26 March 2010: There are some causes for those spotting of yours. It might be caused because you were a little dry down there when he came in. It also might be because you switch contraceptive pills. Usually those pills does cause light spotting too. If you still ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to go down on my but I feel uncofortable with it! Could it be I just don't like being licked?
Q. hi, I'm not sure what to do. My bf wants to go down on me, but I feel very uncomfortable with it. My ex tried it several times too, but I never really like it. I can't feel very much when being licked. If my bf uses his hands it feels better, but ...
A. 26 March 2010: I don't like to be licked because first I don't like it that much, second.... his mouth is where I kiss, I don't want to kiss a dirty mouth!... (read in full...)
He wants to reach the height of pleasure! Any tips?
Q. hi guys! my guy and i hav had sex heaps of times and now he wants to have an all nighter, foreplay then intercourse and then more foreplay. he said that if it is alright with me he would love to reach the height of pleasure in one night. should i ...
A. 26 March 2010: Do you enjoy having sex with him? Do you love him? You guys been together for quite a while already right? Do you feel totally cool with the idead? If you answer yes to them all then go for it. If somewhere in your heart still having some dilema ... (read in full...)
1st Time Questions 2
Q. I am the same guy from yesterday's post 1ST TIME QUESTIONS(Today me and my girlfriend(we both virgins) had to go to a date for sex 1st time in 2 and a half year relationship. I asked about condoms, pills, protection etc). I want to thank all the ...
A. 26 March 2010: What she is getting after you gave her the contraceptive pill was just side effects of the pill. Don't worry about it. For everything else, 1st poster already described everything :)... (read in full...)
What are some symptoms of pregnancy, and how soon can I take a pregnancy test?
Q. Hi there.. I'm in a bit of add situation last time I had my period was 10 feb, 3 weeks ago I my bf and I had sex after that last week we did again. Problem is I can't remember when last I have had my period since the 10th of feb, I actually don't ...
A. 26 March 2010: Your first part seems like a mood swing which a lot of females get when they are about to have their period. I can't tell the 2nd part about the seafood crave because, well, sometimes we want to eat something we have not taste for awhile. But to be ... (read in full...)
Is this tutor fair game?
Q. I'm not really sure how to go about asking this, so I'm just going to jump right into it. I have a tutor for my science class that I really like. He tutors me once a week and we get along great. I flirt with him a lot and I'm pretty sure that he ...
A. 24 March 2010: First, are you sure he is single? Second, how long has you guys been knowing each other? Third, besides "pretty sure he flirts back," are there any other signs such as care about you more than just a student, or seems to have a lot interests in you. ... (read in full...)
Condom leak??? Help! I need opinions
Q. *OP's own title* I've never really noticed this before. I was straddling my boyfriend (sitting position sex) and he came (with a condom on of course). I know this was stupid, but he stayed inside of me a couple of minutes right after he came. I real...
A. 23 March 2010: The spermicide lubricated condom could have helped a little bit but you should have used the Plan B pill right after that. I can't tell you what it was on his testicles cuz i was not there (awkward moment.... hmmm...) anyways, if you are still very ... (read in full...)
I'm still a virgin at 18, should I be putting myself out there a bit more?
Q. well, the thing is im just 18 and im still a virgin, and all my mates as far as i know have done it. im worried about being one of those guys who doesnt loose it until im in my late 20`s early 30`s. i know people are going to say "dont do it for ...
A. 23 March 2010: I treasure virgin man :) honestly. My fiance was a virgin up until he had sex with me, but I love it. :D I felt special, and for that I think you should hang on to it.... (read in full...)
Should I dump him just to make my mom happy?
Q. Ok, so I'm head over heels for this lovely boy, and we've just started going out. I accidentally let it slip that I had a bf when my mom was in the room. She started yelling at me and saying that I'm way to young, and I need to wait till I'm 15! ...
A. 23 March 2010: In this situation, I would agree with your mom. Your mom probably worry that you would bteak your heart sooner or later since, well, she probably had been through it. She wants the best for you since love sometimes clouds your head :) Usually, young ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend treats me well, but I think I'm starting to like his friend. Please help!
Q. him im 13 me and my boyf have benn together for 3 months he treats me really well but i think im starting one of his friends, he touches me in all the right places and when my boy friend aint lookin we hold hands and he rubs my bum plz hel...
A. 23 March 2010: To me, personally, your bf's friend sounded like a pervert as well as an untrustful friend. I don't think you should continue liking him because he is betraying his friend, would you think he wld be loyal to you or as a matter of fact, I don't feel ... (read in full...)
What are some symptoms of pregnancy, and how soon can I take a pregnancy test?
Q. Hi there.. I'm in a bit of add situation last time I had my period was 10 feb, 3 weeks ago I my bf and I had sex after that last week we did again. Problem is I can't remember when last I have had my period since the 10th of feb, I actually don't ...
A. 23 March 2010: pregnancy symtom, as far as I know, is morning sickness and changes in taste. I think you can actually buy the test and test yourself now since the new test can give result even you are 3 days before your miss period.
Hope you have good news :)... (read in full...)
Should I cling to the hope we will fall in love one day?
Q. I’m 13. I’m a really competitive basketball player, and I have been going to this training place for, oh, 2, years or so, to help with my conditioning. My problem is there’s this trainer who I have a huge crush on. Let’s call him “John”. He’s 22. ...
A. 23 March 2010: Right now you think and feel like he is the one for you but wait for some more years when you meet some more people, you will find the best half for yourself. You are too young to realize your soul mate. In my opion, don't cling to it. Let it go. ... (read in full...)
My student/teacher relationship is going good, but he feels anxiety about how we started!
Q. Okay, So Im interested in knowing what people think of this situtation, if not for myself but maybe for my current boyfriend who is struggling with some issues. As a senior in highschool I took a class with a teacher my older sibling had had....
A. 23 March 2010: I have never been in this situation so I hope you would accept my answer. Seeing how young you are compare to him. I guess he, somehow, is having some guilts. As you said, you both seems in love and very truthful to each other, but the only thing ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?
Q. I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...
A. 23 March 2010: You are still young. Your emotion for him probably just a crush. You still have a long way ahead of you in term of future. On this road, you might find someone else better and love you. I think it is best to keep your crush for your teacher in your ... (read in full...)
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