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We broke up and I can't get her out of my head and find it so difficult to move on.

Q.   Hi everyone, I'm really hurting at the moment, i split from my ex 4 months ago and well i tried 2 move on and forget about her but i just cant, i still love her but she got with someone else a week or 2 after we split up, shes still with this per...

A.   11 March 2007: What if you can't imagine doing nothing without this person? She never gave me enough time to get my head sorted, she moved on a week or 2 later. She read the letter and has said to a person who speaks to both of us that she didn't realise i would ... (read in full...)

Is there anything I can do? Should I wait for her or what?

Q.   Hi, I give advice to people on here but i can never seem to give myself advice if that makes sense. I'm stuck in a rutt at the moment where i'm in love with this girl who i met through a friend. We have got to know each other really well and i've...

A.   19 February 2007: She isn't aloud male friends, and he found out that i was txting her and she was txting and ringing me and also going up town with a few of our friends. He said if he finds out that i'm out with her he will kick me in lol but i aint fussed about all ... (read in full...)

I am 40 and single again, all the guys my age seem to have baggage or are unavailable. Should I just quit the dating scene?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have been married and divorced 4 times. I have tried getting back out into the dating scene. I've been fixed up, I've waiting to get asked out, or I ask guys out myself. It seems every guy out there is gay, married, or "unavail...

A.   8 February 2007: Hi, Never give up on finding love, you maybe say you are "40 Years Old" but i look at as "40 Years Young!" There isn't anything wrong with trying to find someone to be with, but just don't reduce yourself to anyone you can find or who is interest... (read in full...)

He wants to try again... should I risk being hurt again?

Q.   Where to start?? well....i had this boyfriend last year who i fell for very badly... and i really thought we could last. I lost my virginity to him and i really wanted us to work. He made me smile and i couldn't stop thinking about him...or talking ...

A.   8 February 2007: Hi, All i have to say is never go backwards in life, it causes too much problems and some people say thay changed when they really haven't and is it worth getting hurt all over again? Think of how bad you felt the first time around and if you coul... (read in full...)

I'm so scared I won't find love again...

Q.   im really unhappy - i had to break up with my partner after two years because i couldnt cope with him hurting me anymore. He's cheated, lied, not answered my phone calls, made me feel fat and ugly, ignored me and all other horrible stuff you can do ...

A.   8 February 2007: Hi, I have recently split up from my ex after 2year relationship and she got with someone else after just a week of us ending it, i still love and miss her but i know that it's better if we aren't together and i haven't had an arguement in ages... (read in full...)

I can't get a boyfriend

Q.   hi,im really upset because i cant get a boyfriend and every one else can what can i do?p;ease write back a.s.a.p thank you xxxxxxxxxxx...

A.   8 February 2007: Hi, You really are very young to worry about finding a boyfriend, it's very early and you are still growing! You might see your mates with boyfriends or people your own age with them but it doesn't mean its normal. If anything it's not normal as y... (read in full...)

I am terrified of commitment but really care for my partner!

Q.   I was hoping you could give me advice as to how a man who is a afraid of commitment would behave in a relationship, even though he cares for his partner....

A.   7 February 2007: Hi, This is a hard question as there can be many reasons why men or women can't always commit to a relationship, past relationships, problems within family or friends, or just feel they are too young to "settle down". If someone really cares for ... (read in full...)

Why aren't I getting dates? Do I need to be pretty AND popular?

Q.   I'm quite clever, and my family and people close to me, outside of school, say that I'm absolutely gorgeous. However, no-one at school says I'm very pretty.. and I'm never asked out by anyone. I'm not very popular so I'm expecting this to be the ...

A.   7 February 2007: Hi, All i can say is be yourself, you can't change and i don't think anyone should change to find a boyfriend/girlfriend, if someone likes you for you it is the best feeling ever! You will find someone you just got to say to yourself they aint bump... (read in full...)

Worried about the little lump on my vagina. Any ideas what it could be?

Q.   About a month ago i found a tiny lump in my vagina. Its not growing or hurting but its just there. im 16, im not a virgin and im really worried. its really small and its just kind of sitting on one of my "lips", what should i do? i dont want to go ...

A.   7 February 2007: Hi, I recommend going to your doctor A.S.A.P embarrassment isn't a nice feeling but it's better than risking your health! Talk to your mum about it she will understand and will help you. Hope everything works out and it turns out to be nothing seri... (read in full...)

I love him but he has a gf! What can I do?

Q.   I love, well..have strong feelings for this boy in college. I think he likes me to, but I'm not sure. Plus, he's got a girlfriend, but she lives in Hull and they only see each other once a year! What can I do? Please help!...

A.   7 February 2007: Hi, If he likes you enough he will split up with his girlfriend, but you can't do nothing as a) it isnt fair on the girlfriend b) it isnt fair on you being in the middle of them two c) it's up to him to decide what he wants to do. Back off and tell... (read in full...)

When I try to break up with him he gets angry and upset! Guys - how would you want to be broken up with??

Q.   I'm seeing this guy but I don't have any feelings for him anymore. I want to break up with him but I don't know how to because when I try to suggest breaking up he just gets angry and upset and then says 'lets talk about this some other time' Mayb...

A.   7 February 2007: Hi, There is no way of a good break up or being broken up with/dumped. Tell him how your feeling and that you can't be with him no more, there is no point in being with someone you cannot love or give him what he wants. Eventually if you tell him... (read in full...)

My friends are all having sex and I've never even been kissed!

Q.   I am 15 and i have never kissed a boy before. All my friends are now having sex and i have never even kissed one. They always tease me and i dont like being round them when they are talking about things like that. Do you have any suggestions about ...

A.   1 February 2007: Hi, Peer pressure is one of the worst things you can feel as a teen, i didn't lose my virginity til quite late but i didn't let my "friends" or people at school into any of my business even if i had a g.f or done anything. It will happen in time... (read in full...)

Do you think that you should accuse somebody if you have no proof of cheating?

Q.   Do you think that you should accuse somebody if you have no proof of cheating? But what if they have a history of cheating? Do you think people can change and not cheat anymore or is it once a cheater always a cheater? I been with my boyfriend for ...

A.   30 January 2007: Hi, In my past experiance cheats never change but everyone has different views, some people can forgive and forget but i can't. If he cheated at the beginning it wasn't a very good start, if you think how it is at the moment you could be with him ... (read in full...)

He has a gf but I like him a lot. What can I do to stop thinking about him?

Q.   i dont no where to start , well this boy has fancied me for ages but i didnt really like him in that way until this party we went to but he was with his girlfriend but he was dancing with me and kisses me we were drunk but we both didnt regret it , ...

A.   30 January 2007: Hi, It's a hard situation to be in as you are like the 3rd person in the relationship, if you tell him i'm going to back off and tell him that if he likes you enough he will know what to do, tell him to make himself happy but you aint being the ... (read in full...)

I might be pregnant. My bf has been accused of rape-what if he goes to prison! How would I cope with a baby?

Q.   help me please , I'm nearly 18 and think i may be pregnant ,i had unprotected sex with mi boyfriend over Xmas and now I'm l8 on mi period. I'm really scared because i don't want a kid , mi boyfriend is 21 and already has a kid with an ex , he rarely ...

A.   30 January 2007: Hi, I know someone else at this very moment who is being accused of rape and i know he didn't do it, the lass has no proof and it was over a year ago and she hasn't gone to police or anything but is making his life hell, if the courts cannot have... (read in full...)

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