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Does age matter when he's a young adult and I'm a teenager?

Q.   hey well i met this guy over 3 months and he has a girlfriend but he inst spending anytime with her because she lives in another state and they aren't spending time together because he goes t college.. then here i am and i never had feeling for ...

A.   15 April 2009: thanks for your comments... (read in full...)

Is he just flirting with me or does he really like me?

Q.   Hello, Lately I been going crazy about this boy named JK his same age as me but turning 17 this year and I’m 16. Today I saw him when I was walking to school he kept looking behind to see me and at the end he crossed the road and then looked...

A.   15 April 2009: i think that he is totally into you and girl he sounds like a guy any girl would want i think that he is trying to impress you with your little brother and that's adorable when you guys see each other talk a lot and he wouldn't be shy or you to ... (read in full...)

My husband prefers porn over me

Q.   hello i have a question. I been married for 6 years my relation with my husband has gotten bad we fight allot and about a year a found out he was cheating on me so we often fight becouse of that. We havent had sex for about 5 months he always tells ...

A.   15 April 2009: that's not normal and i think that sick and a sin. i think he needs rehab and help on his addiction in porn i hoped i helped :)... (read in full...)

14, he's 18, does that makehim a pedo?

Q.   hi, im a 14, and my boyfriends 18. i know alot of people think its weird, sick, wrong, etc. but i really like him, and we were friends for months before he asked me out. the thing is, one of my friends told me that hes lik a pedo.. i dont thiink its ...

A.   15 April 2009: no don't believe that your friend is just jealousy of you well honey guys like you for a reason probably;y your cute and maybe you seem mature for your age iv been through the same exact thing but in the other way it could be dangerous for you ... (read in full...)

Major crush on much older guy

Q.   Hey. I was wondering if anyone could help me. I have a crush on this guy who is very much older than me but have a feeling he feels the same way. Here are a few things he does when I was last around him: 1. He keep's asking for hugs and kisses ...

A.   15 April 2009: honey i went to the exact same thing your going through but my crush is 8 years older than me well does he have a girl friend? do you think that this is true love? i went through the exact same situation and there one thing you have to realize ... (read in full...)

I'm in love... but confused!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time now. I have stuck by him through a lot of problems he has had. He quit his job and is still unemployed. He drinks daily and has made it clear there is no way he will marry me anytime soon. ...

A.   15 April 2009: you even said it. you aren't happen if you stay with your recent boyfriend that will effect you inn the future you have the control not him so i think that you should decide happiness or sadness i think that you wouldn't find happiness in your boyf... (read in full...)

My boyfriend died 8 months ago and I can't move on...

Q.   Hey dear cupid, I was dating this wonderful guy for 2 years, everything was perfect we never fought, never argued, it was a perfect relationship. He was my prince charming.. he asked me out on prom and since then we have been inseperable... but he ...

A.   10 April 2009: hey i read whta you put but you shouldnt decide or want tolive. God has you hear in earth for a reason just wait for the answer i really worry about you and please dont think does thoughts just go to church and you will find a happiness that you ... (read in full...)

Do you think that my boyfriend being another race would affect us...

Q.   Hey, I am just here and confused and I really need help from you my cupid friends. :) Well my question is - I am Hispanic (Dominican republic) but my boyfriend is white. Do you think that effects our relationship because we're baptist and do y...

A.   10 April 2009: thanks to all of you i am really grateful for your answers you guys made me realized that there is great people and i really appreciate Cat, thankful and all the other answers you guys are really good people and i am very grateful ... (read in full...)

Sexually abused by my brother... what do I do for the best?

Q.   Hi, I'm Heli and I'm 13. I was sexually abused when I was younger, by my brother who is 3 to four years my senior. I have told a few people about what happened, but I've never told them who it was who did it to me, because I still live with my ...

A.   9 April 2009: i think that your brother know what was right or WRONG nad i think that you should tell on him because not only will he pay the consequences but he will go to counseling and will make him a better person as a brother that he should be to you i know ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend died 8 months ago and I can't move on...

Q.   Hey dear cupid, I was dating this wonderful guy for 2 years, everything was perfect we never fought, never argued, it was a perfect relationship. He was my prince charming.. he asked me out on prom and since then we have been inseperable... but he ...

A.   9 April 2009: hey i cant say that i know what you feeling or going through and i know that isn't true because i haven't been through that, well what i think is that everything happens for a reason and that's part of life there sometimes that the person that we ... (read in full...)

I want to kiss my GF but I don't know when to do it

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have a girlfriend and want to kiss her but don't know when to do so. Please Help...

A.   11 March 2009: Do it when you feel comfortable around her but tell her what you feel about her i hope that there's guy like u in this world +... (read in full...)

There's this boy I like, but does he like me?

Q.   There’s this boy that I like and im not sure if he likes me. I don't want to ask him and i'm way to shy to ask him anyway. I would just like an honest opinion so I know. Here are some of the signs: He stares at me a lot from the other side...

A.   11 March 2009: well hes totally into u you but don't ask him if hes falling for that will just scared just become friends with him and when he asks you out he wont be shy about it :)... (read in full...)

I am depressed because I need a man, but really don't want one!?

Q.   I have a 4 month old baby. The longest I have ever been single before my pregnancy was maybe 1 week. I wasnt with my daughters dad for very long, in fact, we were only together 18 days. On the last day we were together I found out I was pregnant, ...

A.   10 January 2009: you sound like just a woman not a teen.. when i read this i started to cry because almost all my friends wen through what you are going through they get raped they get sick and eventually gets pregnant you should be thankful that you have a d... (read in full...)

Sick of being alone!

Q.   Hello fello aunts and uncles! Im 19 years old, really attractive, smart and outgoing. I have only had 3 boyfriends in my life but never anything serious. 2 of these boyfriends turned out to be players and jerks who only wanted sex and I was ...

A.   10 January 2009: i feel the same way just like you!! your really young guys see you as a pretty chick that has no feelings all the decent guys are somewhere you will find them you just need to be patient be hard on them when a guy asked you out don't say yea righ... (read in full...)

I've lost respect for my wife

Q.   I have been married for 5 years now and i feel im losing respect for my wife and i don't know how i feel towards her. I feel like im flirting with other women, My wife is a really good woman but i don't feel like i am a good husband, we have...

A.   10 January 2009: i think that you lost entrance in her because you guys don't have kids either way if you guys get a divorce it won't leave an effect because nobody is gonna get deeply hurt your wife might but your kids wont because you don't have any your you... (read in full...)

Wrong to be in love?

Q.   I want to find out that it is wrong for a 26 yrs old man to be in love with a 36 yrs old woman, and why?...

A.   10 January 2009: no it's not wrong at all your both adults and you have the right's to choose who to be with in life and nope your good nothing is wrong with it... :0... (read in full...)

I'm 21 want to date a 15 y/o afraid of what people will say

Q.   I'm a 21 year old male.... and I found a girl whom I have feelings for.... the thing is she's 15 years old... I'm afraid to date her because of what people might think. Shes a great girl but the age difference is the only problem... Anything ...

A.   10 January 2009: I know how you feel, I like an older man and I am 15 too. Date other people cause you might go to jail for this and she is a child she has to learn of life first until going out on the world or if you really love her wait for her date some other ... (read in full...)

They call me fat, will I ever have a boyfriend?

Q.   just wana ask if a girl that is fat..., well they call me chubby, flat nose, w/ big legs...can possibly have a chance to have a boyfriend?...

A.   10 January 2009: i have the same problem but i am not fat i am just really shy but we have the same problem we haven't got a boyfriend if you keep on worrying about you not having a relationship it just won't happen love yourself fist until somebody loves you first ... (read in full...)

Should I wait for him? Or go on?

Q.   okay so i dated this guy for a month and two days after our one month he was over at my house when his dad called. he asked where he was and my boyfriend said he was on his way home. so he left my house and went home. he texted me a little later and ...

A.   10 January 2009: I have the same problem with this situation. If he really likes you he would not care what his parents say he would just start going out with you and not worry what other people have to say. Forget about it because his parents are never going to ... (read in full...)

I'm 14, he's 18--parents hate him!

Q.   well ive been seing this guy for a bit now but were not dating.......weve had sex 4 times already and we text each other alot and hes 18 he texted me the other night saying that i was an angel and that he loves me.......i mean i know its wrong but ...

A.   10 January 2009: I am not being mean but how old are you? You're sick!! I am sorry but you're sick, or he's sick. I swear he can go to jail for this, you're a kid and you're already having sex with him, be a kid first and you will learn stuff.. I don't know if ... (read in full...)

Is she joking around or does she like me

Q.   i like this girl in my class but we have only been friends and i dont want to ruin that. But all of my friends say stuff like "you 2 would make a good couple,she asked me out for u" but i dont know if they are joking around. Also she is always doing ...

A.   10 January 2009: It's the guy's job to ask out the chick that they like don't be shy just go on what you feel. She's totally into you she probably feel's like you're not into her because you haven't asked her out. Just get out of your shell and do your bit! she'... (read in full...)

How do I get beyond this and feel attractive to him again?

Q.   I have been married to the same man for 25 years and a year ago after many months of suspecting, I walked into his girlfriend's home and found him in bed with her. I can't seem to forget or forgive. I feel like I'll never be as attractive as she was ...

A.   10 January 2009: and your still with him??? That's a shame I am not being mean though but divorce him, break up with him, guys once they cheat they will never be how you thought that he was so I am sorry but if you believe that you're attractive than your fine, he... (read in full...)

I'm starting to feel down because people make me feel like a failure.

Q.   I'm starting to feel down because people make me feel like a failure. I'm single and am hoping to find a partner I can settle with. Everyone always says to me, "you really should think about getting on the property ladder" - when I can't afford ...

A.   10 January 2009: well if you are feeling like this it might be the peers around you (people) they saying this things to you is making feel stress and unworthy but your not your steal living in this world and that means something this world need people like you i ... (read in full...)

I don't know which one is stronger, my head or my heart, how can I get over this teacher crush?

Q.   I'm so tired of being in love with this guy, that i can't have. I thought i would get over him soon, because it'll never work out...but yet, im still sitten here, love sick, and tired of it. I need help! I don't know how to get over him. Here's ...

A.   10 January 2009: omg i am so happy you feel the same way i feel the same thing is happening to me but my teacher is married and has kids i know thats sick and he always give me look; well you can get over him knowing that your better and not even him deserve... (read in full...)

Behind all my outward happiness I feel I'm really sad...

Q.   Okay so, in general, I'm a mostly happy person. I'm involved with theatre in school, I have good grades, a few guys like me, I'm a little confident in myself, I'm in band, I'm in deca, and so on. So pretty much I'm a happy person... but I alwa...

A.   9 January 2009: well talk to someone tell them everything that's going on in your life well not everything but the things you might not like or adore i think that most woman go through that not confident life am i pretty enough blah blah but do you love your... (read in full...)

Would a girl be able to fall in love with a guy like that?

Q.   I've a simple question to all, do you think a gorgeous gal can love someone with following features? Someone: 1. who is shy, 2. who is introvert 3. who can easily become friends with gals but nothing more than that. 4. who is not that cool. 5. ...

A.   9 January 2009: yea i wuld fall in love wit a guy like dat well i hope dat person iz chu lmao j/k but i think each gal finds a guy dat has that characteritics :) hoped i helped... (read in full...)

Should I ask him out because he's too shy and all??

Q.   I'm usually a confident borderling over confident lass. However, I have very deep rooted morals that somewhat are the major cause to this matter. Additionally being a girl, I do tend to prefer the whole "i'm laid back so i'll wait for you to ask me ...

A.   9 January 2009: well if he is de kinda of guy dat iz shy welll yea i think ask him out but dont do it hey chu want to go out just say dat chu need help in something if we kan go out and talk bout it and den he'lll get used to being wit chu along and he wont b s... (read in full...)

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