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*ickie123
writes:hey well i met this guy over 3 months and he has a girlfriend but he inst spending anytime with her because she lives in another state and they aren't spending time together because he goes t college.. then here i am and i never had feeling for this guy but there a big age difference he is 8 years older than me and we always spend time together we go to th e beach and talk we talk when were going through something and we always flirt childish and he always tell me that any guy would be lucky to have me and he always tell me what my age is because he likes me bu the 8 years difference is a big problem is this because the age difference?and why does older guys like younger girls?
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reader, reign154 +, writes (21 April 2009):
Ok here we go. Hi. This guy has a girlfriend in another state and even though he goes to college away from her literally they are still together. I think its pretty cool that you can hang out with him and really have a connection with each other. But don't let him fool you, he may be trying to win you over to get you in bed. I know you are smart and i don't even want him to think for one second that you are easy game because i know that your not. He knows how to play with your heart and gradually doing things to get his way. It may not seem like he wants sex from you right now, but believe me when a guy has a gf and does these things with you he knows that he can get away with cheating and charm you. Im not going to lecture you because i know that i wouldnt want anyone to try and tell me im wrong or stupid for feeling so strongly about any guy. Even though we dont know each other i want to tell you what i would tell any of my friends and that's to be careful,stay ahead of his game, and just stay friends with him. There are always other fish in the sea(lol i need 2 stop being around my gram :)) if u want to talk my door or box is always open.lol xoxoxo reign
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reader, kaylagal +, writes (15 April 2009):
 Older guys like younger girls because they are easy to take advantage of. He can play you and get you to do things a girl his age would not accept. You're inexperienced and pure, you a good target.
He's too old and he has a girlfriend. Don't allow him to use you. Mentally and intellectually you have nothing in common. He's just telling you sweet nothings to get what he wants. Him not spending time with his girlfriend who is out of state also means he's not getting any sex. And that's where little sweet you comes in. That's the purpose you are there to serve. Telling you any guy will be lucky to have you is just a line, and it's old and lame, every guys uses that. Don't fall for it. RUN..
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (15 April 2009):
 he also has a girlfriend... so yeah. i'd definitely stay away!
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reader, nickie123 +, writes (15 April 2009):
nickie123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for your comments
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): the age difference now makes your relationship illegal... and frankly, i find it odd that a college boy in hanging around a 13 yearl old. i'd stay away, because he sounds pervy.
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reader, Specter +, writes (15 April 2009):
Yes it is the age I had the dame thing buy mine 3 years but guy don't just like young girl because your hot sexy and u are young but also your the first girl he look at
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