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writes:Hey. I was wondering if anyone could help me. I have a crush on this guy who is very much older than me but have a feeling he feels the same way. Here are a few things he does when I was last around him:1. He keep's asking for hugs and kisses2. When I don't hug him he sulks and when I do hug him, he gives me the longest hugs ever.3. He's always taking photo's of me.4. Talking to me and also joking I should be his date to his neice's birthday lunch.5. Often asks his neice to phone me and invite me over. 6. He phoned me for Christmas to wish me and it almost sounded as though he was stumbling over his words but still keeping his cool.I don't know if I'm over-thinking things but I need to know if he is at all interested.Please someone help me! I have a real big crush on him and I need to know if I'm getting myself excited for nothing or if I should wait till I see him again? I don't want to make a fool of myself either.
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reader, nickie123  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 honey i went to the exact same thing your going through but my crush is 8 years older than me well does he have a girl friend?do you think that this is true love?i went through the exact same situation and there one thing you have to realize us girls like felling like a woman and think like we are girls we want to be someone mature and know what hes doing.guys love girls that haven't been through what other woman had been going thought and by the things you asked me he likes spending time with you because you seem like a very cool person like a little sister don't let your emotions run fast it will hurt you hoped i helped think does questions over okay :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): It would help to know exactly how much older than you he is, but by the sound of it he's interested alright, but doesn't want to make a fool of himself either - just like you. Maybe he thinks you think the age gap is too much, but if you don't think it is - tell him how you feel, you could have a fun future together, who knows?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): i think the only way you'll now if ur not mistaking things is asking him where u guys stand. ask him what kind of relationship u two have. make sure u know and he knows whats going on between u guys. cuz if he is misleading u and u ask him about things then he'll know that he is misleading u and most likely he'll realize that he's messing with ur mind and if he's a man than he'll let you know exactly how he feels. just let him know that u need to know whats going on because u dont want to be making something out of nothing and end up getting hurt. ( thats what i think)
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