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... Send *enaUnique a private message | | | *enaUnique's profile:hola,my name is Valeria and i am latina from Puerto rico.i live in new jersey and i am 16 years old. i like to help people out and give advices only because im good at it. nah im just playing but i really like listening to people and their stories..some are so interesting..that i have to help. i learn from them and their mistakes. im out-going i guess.easy to talk to..but not always. and i have been through some..like feelings getting hurt..love..confused ect.
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How do I get over her but remain friends?
Q. hey guys thanks for the help so far. you guys are amazing. in my current situation, i was with a girl for almost 2 years. if we werent hanging out, we were talking (24/7). however we were never "official" bf/gf. i was the one always saying were just ...
A. 23 January 2007: ok so as i waz reading it seems like your the girl and shes the guy in this situation. usallaly its the girl who thinks she found the "one" and the guy leaves are with no "good" reason. maybe this is karma or something. i think you should let her ... (read in full...)
I told her about my affair with a married women and she was upset! Have I lost her?
Q. I like a girl but i don't know if she will ever feel the same as i upset her before. I first met this girl about five years ago. She was a friend of my sister and we started going out mainly as a group of four and although we seemed to get on...
A. 21 January 2007: yea i have to agree with Salser..you did lost trust in that woman..i think you should talk to her about how you are feeling..and your feelings for her.
i agree completly with Salser (your last post) you should ask her out to eat or something and ... (read in full...)
I need to know...how do you know if a girl is attracted to you?
Q. how do you know if a girl is attracted to you. I have talked to a few girls who I find attractive but look like they don't find me attractive. whilst ones who seem to flirt with me I don't find attractive or they could just be taking the piss. A...
A. 21 January 2007: ok when you see a girl looking at you and you turn then look at her and she looks at you again.or she was still looking..then thats a sign..if you're walking around she'll keep a close eye to know where you are going and to see who you are going to ... (read in full...)
My bf gave me a black eye! He says he'll change. I don't know what to do.
Q. Hello,im 21 and i have been in a relationship with an amazing guy for 4 months. We planned to get engaged this year and i really know i love this man. But just over a week ago we had a row, to which he hit me in the face and i still have (a week ...
A. 16 January 2007: ok i know you love him and everything but what he did was sooo wrong! and i think its best for you to never ever forgive him for what he has done..and no matter if he says he will never do that to you again..o honey thats when he is wrong..for the ... (read in full...)
My mom found my bag of birth control! Now my parents are threatening to kick me out, stop paying for school, and say they've lost their trust in me!
Q. I hid condoms, birth control and papers from the clinic in my bedroom. So today I was going to throw out the condoms and papers so I put it in my bag. Without me knowing my mom went into my bag and found it. She flipped on me and she told my dad. I ...
A. 16 January 2007: thats nasty and that sucks for you...you're parents trust is the trust that youll never find in anyone else in this world..... (read in full...)
Starting to get feelings for the guy I'm messing with!
Q. I have been messing with this guy for awhile know. When we started we both agreed thats all it would be. I expected him to call once in awhile and ask for me to come over and do are thing and leave. But its more than that. We hang out almost ...
A. 16 January 2007: well he says that maybe someday you guys will be more then friends..and i think that the reason he said this is because he is not taking you seriously and he knows it. he is just taking you as a "friend with benefits" and he just cant see you as a ... (read in full...)
Do girls prefer the confident or shy type?
Q. hey girls! do you prefer a confident person or a shy person who tends to think about people's feelings....
A. 16 January 2007: ok lets see! well all girls have a different taste for guys..some like the "homies" some like "kinda dorky looking"(they think its cute and i dont kno why) some like "guys who act bad but for real they never did any bad" some like "the goody good" ... (read in full...)
How can I be less shy and more confident around girls... ?
Q. dear cupid i would like to know how can a boy who is shy get more comfortable around girls without going red and speak clearly, as it am shy and not confident around girls and plus the fact that every girl and sometime the boys say im ugly and ...
A. 16 January 2007: you might need to take some notes buddy
ok if your style in clothes are way behind then BRING THEM UP!! lets see your hair style..lets see..if its long to your shoulder CUT IT!! if its way to short almost bold LET IT GROW A COUPLE OF INCHES!!... (read in full...)
My partner shows me no love or affection
Q. my partner does not show me any love or affection or tells me that i am important. this has been going on for around 18 months now and he knows how i feel but he tells me its alll in my head. i have asked if we can go to relationship coulcelling but ...
A. 16 January 2007: ok girl what you have to do is go out one day with out him of course and by new sexy clothes but slutty but sexy and comfortable, then go to the hair salon and change your hair a bit..you can cut it if its too long. or make layers ... (read in full...)
My gf look at my interent history and seems jealous if I look at other women! What should I do?
Q. Im in Canada my girlfriend is from England. she lives with me. She is a very sweet girl and cares a lot. However she looks through my texts, montiors my internet history, watches my eyes to see who i look at. Seems to be jealous if i say hi to ...
A. 15 January 2007: well i think she is afraid of getting cheated. and if you are an attractive guy then she knows that girls are probably wanting to get with you and she is afraid you'll get turned on by one and you know the rest,
orr maybe is that she has alre... (read in full...)
Is sweating part of puberty?
Q. is sweating related to puberty? if it is then does that mean that i will grow out of it?...
A. 15 January 2007: yes it is..it really does suck doesnt it? having to put deodorant just to keep that nasty smell away..and then some people sweat more then others..yes it is normal and it really sucks..:)
Valeria... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and pregnant! My bf wants to keep the baby, but I don't know if I'm ready.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have only been together for 4 months and im 16 and pregnet! I dont no if im ready to have a baby but he rele wants one he is 18 and has lived his teen life and mine has just started but i no that i want to be with him but im ...
A. 15 January 2007: hahahahaha you lost your virginity had unprotected sex and made a baby..thats what you get for having sex at a young age..im a 16 year old *virgin*
hope you learn from your mistake..;)... (read in full...)
Is he going out with someone?
Q. im 13 and there is this boy i like and i dont know if he is going out with someone. How do i find out without asking him?...
A. 15 January 2007: ok you want to know if he has a girl with out asking him...and if you ask one of his friends then oviously their friend is going to tell him you asked...sooooooo why dont you just "spy"
if you see him talking to alot of girls then maybe he dont have... (read in full...)
This guy and I have a love-hate thing going on...but how do I let him know my true feelings?
Q. Okay so i like this guy jacob, and we are both juniors. we used to work with each other but i recently quit. i see him probibly once a day at school and he always does something wierd or like playful mean. so we have one of those hate love ...
A. 15 January 2007: ok then you guys are flirting..if you want to find out if he is interested in you..dont talk to him and if he comes up to you then thats your answer..or you can act like he did somethin to get you mad and then if he keeps followin you tryna see what ... (read in full...)
After walking by me, he stared and made eye contact. Does he like me?
Q. When a fella walks past you and makes a point of not looking at you but then when hes furthur away stares (without fail), and makes eye contact odes that mean he likes you?...
A. 15 January 2007: ok it just means that he is checking you out..every guy checks out any girl that passes them..he just doesnt want to make it ovious that he is checking you out and he thinks maybe from a distence he might make it look like he staring at something ... (read in full...)
I like this girl but before I got a chance to ask her out it was spread around school!
Q. Really need help! I started to like this girl at school and i got the feeling she liked me too. I was planning on asking her out soon but she told her friend that she liked me and now its hot gossip in the school and making things awkward. How do I...
A. 15 January 2007: ok if you are sure that she likes you then i think you should look very good one day or even every day and wait for the moment where she is a lone if you are scared to talk to her write in a piece of paper to meet her some wheres and then there you ... (read in full...)
I wouldn't sleep with him and now--he won't speak to me! Are all guys like this?
Q. i didnt slept with him! now he doesnt really talk to me! is he a Dic* or are most lads like this? i did really like him but im a virgin! but he didnt no that! is it my fault iv pushed him away (im nearly 18 in case u wanted 2 know)...
A. 15 January 2007: so he doesnt want to talk to you now? either he just hanged around you alot and made believe he liked you just to see how far he got and if he didnt get far he leaves or maybe he likes you alot and you turned him on and he wanted to do it..but you ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 - why hasn't anyone wanted to be my boyfriend yet?
Q. i am 16 yrs old and i haven't had any boyfriend so far neither have i been asked out or to be someone's gf.i have been only asked once to go out with a guy by his friends but i think they werepulling a trick on me/him. and i know i am beautiful many ...
A. 15 January 2007: oh my god..me and you have this in common!!! finally i found someone just like me!!guys always say im beautiful (expecially the older ones) and i see guys looking at me and giving me the eye..but they know that i am not one of those sluts out there ... (read in full...)
He said he's no good at love but he feels "lust' for me-what does he mean?
Q. I have worked with this man for 9 years i always knew he liked me we both have partners so did nothing about it until now im in love with him deeply he has stopped the affair because of his partner which i understand but i think he still wants me at ...
A. 15 January 2007: ok when he said he only has lust for you it means that he only... only..just likes you and thats it.no more and no less, period. and like he said he is no good in love it means he doesnt want to hurt you. not by hitting you but you know what i ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and want to have sex but i'm scared of getting pregnant!
Q. Im 14, and my boyfriend and i want to have sex both were both scared that i will get pregnant so what should i do?...
A. 15 January 2007: ok..14!!!??? i am 16 and still a virgin..girl if you think loosing your virginity now is right then your wrong..i dont think your ready for sex..besides your young the younger you are the more scared your going to be the more scared you are the more ... (read in full...)
Nothing in my life is good and I need help fast!
Q. Im not happy with my life! i rarely see my dad because he was never interested in me and my sisters when i was a child and i dont like the person he is. All of my sisters have left home and i feel that my mum would be happier if i wasnt around, she ...
A. 15 January 2007: listen take a deep breath..i am 16 years old and i was going through depression and i didnt tell my mom anything until the point where every morning i would wake up asking "why couldnt i just stay sleeping for ever?" or "whats the point of living" ... (read in full...)
I asked my ex if she still cared about me and she said she didn't want to answer that question! Why?
Q. Hi, well am a little confused here i broke up with my girlfriend about 5mnths ago and we've had ups and downs since but like we have sorted out our differences now and tonight i casually asked her do you still care about me or miss me and she sa...
A. 15 January 2007: hey..im thinking maybe she doesnt want to answer you because she doesnt want to be with you and she doesnt want to say "yea i do miss you and care for you" because it would probably make you think that she still has that certain love for you..maybe ... (read in full...)
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