Lost without her
Q. my girl stopped the relation because of her parents , i feel lost without her , do i have to call her back ? or if she wants will find the way to me ? or if she wants she will wait till i call for her ?...
A. 10 September 2006: Hi there.
My advice would be to call her. Not to get her back. Just tell her how you feel. But dont hassel her. Just say you'll still be there for her as a friend if she ever needs it.
Maybe she'll want to get back too, but dont get your hop... (read in full...)
I want to date my best friends ex, would it be wrong not to tell her ?
Q. There's this guy I know Named Adam. He has known me for about 5 years. My best friend went out with him for 4 years. He just told me that he liked me and asked me on a date. I told him I would go with him. Do you think that was a bad decision on my ...
A. 23 July 2006: Maybe you should give your friend your friend a call. Let her know whats going on. You could tell her how you really feel about this guy. Hopefully she'll understand.
I wouldn't be to bothered if I was getting married, but she might be differen... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with my friend's (now) ex-boyfriend...
Q. I have a female friend and I met her boyfriend. The boyfriend and I became very good friends (share secrets and tell each other everything). He is like a brother to me, but I recently realised that I am in love with him. He recently broke up with ...
A. 10 July 2006: There's nothing you can do. Would you want to hurt your friend like that? And anyway, he's in a relationship. Try and think of him as the brother you described. You two getting together would hurt a lot of people.
If he were to break-up with his... (read in full...)
I still play with barbies. Am I to old?
Q. Hi. I have a problem. I still play with Barbie dolls, and I'm almost 16!!! Me and one of my friends play with them, but we like playing with them. Am i too old? should i stop playing with them? Please help me!...
A. 9 July 2006: If you like playing with them, why should you care? I understand you may want to outgrow them, and you will eventually. But for now, if you like plaing with them, there shouldn't be a problem.
It strenthens your imagination. You'll probabll... (read in full...)
The signs are there that he likes me...so why won't he ask me out?
Q. hiya im becky i was just wonderin im in love with this boy and i want to ask him out and he's given me all the signs we go out to bowlin and stuff and hes really kind and sweet to me. so i got my mate to ask him out and he said no he wants to do it ...
A. 9 July 2006: Maybe he's just shy. Or, maybe he likes you as a friend. And only a friend. He may have said he'll ask you out so he doesn't hurt your feelings.
Ask him again, but you ask him. Not a friend. Ask him how he feels about you. If he want to be a cou... (read in full...)
How do I stop my boyfriend from cheating on me?
Q. hi i have a bf and i dont want him 2 cheat on me what do i do?...
A. 9 July 2006: You can't stop someone being unfaitful. Obviously you don't trust your boyfriend, so why are you still with him?
If he's done it before he's capible of doing it again. He would dump you if you did it to him, but when he does it, he expects ... (read in full...)
I'm ready for a family now, but my husband wants to wait and keeps putting it off!!
Q. I'm 31 and have been married for just over 10 months and the problem is that I am ready to start having a family, but my husband want to leave it 'for a few years.' The thing is, he seemed very keen on children before we got married and I know deep ...
A. 9 July 2006: Well, he may well feel under a lot of pressure. But assure him you're not trying to force him into doing something. Sit down with him and calmly explain that you're happy where you're living and talk about your career plans.
If it comes a couple o... (read in full...)
Tough times in my life, but no one to talk to!
Q. I am having a really tough time. My boyfriend just broke up with me and I just found out that my uncle passed away and he and I were really close! I am not doing OK. I feel like I have no one to talk to or that no one cares and I'm sick of it. I...
A. 9 July 2006: Losing a close family member is an extremely difficult time. I recently lost my grandad, so I know how you're feeling. Why dont you go to his grave, or light a candle for him in church to get to say goodbye properly. It will be hard, but you have to ... (read in full...)
I want my mate to know that I feel jealous of the girls he dates...!
Q. Hi there, I need some advice on my sexuality. I am 16 and have been best mates with someone for over 4 years. Recently, he has become interested in girls and has started going out with a few. I am glad for him and support him, as well as liking ...
A. 9 July 2006: Hmmm...you may be bisexual, or maybe you just feel jelous that your friend has found other people to spend his time with. You should let him know you're always there for him and ask him not to forget you're still his best mate even though he has a ... (read in full...)
I don't think that losing my virginity is a big deal. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. is it wrong that i really and honestly dont believe that losing my virginity is a big deal? im 21 and quite honestly ready, but am not interested in love. i have a fear of the whole thing but im sick of being inexperienced. my friends think its odd ...
A. 9 July 2006: There's nothing wrong with you. You may have thought it was a big deal at one point before now, but you're obviously ready to take a step and get a little more experianced.
But that doesn't mean sleeping with any guy that asks you. Make sure he ... (read in full...)
I need some freedom from my parents' opinions!
Q. My parents don't approve of me dating my current boyfriend. I am 17 and he is 19. For some reason they have a big problem with that and always bring it up when they fight with me about him. He is the love of my life...and I'm not just saying that! ...
A. 9 July 2006: This is a sticky situation. You have to understand that your parents probably want to protect you from adulthood. But they must understand that you're in love.
Why not suggest inviting round to meet your parents? Show them how serious you two are,... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and want to date, mum doesnt approve, I want to date but im scared mum will find out!
Q. Im only 13 and Im going out with my best friend.My mum says im too young for a boyfriend,I don't feel this way,everyone I know has had at least 1 boyfriend even people younger than me!I want to go out with him but Im afraid that my mum will find ...
A. 8 July 2006: This is fact...There is another person in exactly the same situation as you. Me!
My mum doesn't want me to get a boyfriend till Im 17, (Im 14 just now) and Im going to respect her wishes. Dont try to go out with someone behind her back. I've don... (read in full...)
How to make "it" bigger?
Q. I dont know how to make my dick bigger? How can i do that im only 14 years old....
A. 8 July 2006: For goodness sakes, mate. You're 14 years old! I'm 14 and all I think about is if my hair's sitting ok, and when my friends are coming up. Not 'how do I make my tits bigger' (sorry for the language)
You have to stop worrying. You and your bod... (read in full...)
Worried about losing my virginity!
Q. Hey im 16 and a virgin and im really worried becuase me and this guy ive been with are ready to take our relationship to the next level and after nearly 3 years im ready but im really worried that its going to hurt or im going to put him off becuase ...
A. 8 July 2006: Well, you must make sure this guy is right before you give him your virginity. If he is right, explain to him how you feel about your situation. Tell him you're nervous. But, he shouldn't care if he really loves you.
Don't jump into things w... (read in full...)
I think I need to lose my virginity!
Q. Hi I am 14 years old and I feel Im getting to that age where I think I should lose my virginty. I don't have a boyfriend or anything, but I really wanna not be a virgin anymore. Any advice? StIlLaViRgInNY...
A. 8 July 2006: OK, I'm 14, and I don't want to lose my virginity! Sometimes I think 'it would be great to have a boyfriend' but so do a lot of people.
Some girls who have had sex are desperate to get their virginity back. It's not something most people want to ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her what I'd like without hurting her feelings?
Q. Hi, I am in my late 20's and, after coming out of a long term relationship, have started going out with a new girl my age a few months ago. I am starting to think she is very inexperienced though. What is the best way to tell someone that you wo...
A. 8 July 2006: To start with, no girl would like a guy to tell her she isn't experianced and it shows. So try not to blurt that out. When your kissing or in bed, take the lead, and show her how you like it. She'll soon know how to get stuff right for you.
Try n... (read in full...)
Can't stop thinking of sex with my boyfriend's best mate!
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for about 2year and i have always got on well with his mates but all of a sudden ive found myself fancying his best friend and thinking about him all the time he's always been a good mate and we get on really well we ...
A. 8 July 2006: You need to let your boyfriend know you how you feel. Not about his mate, but about your relationship. If you feel the other guy is more mature and understandable, ask your boyfriend to be there for you when you have a problem, or just go to him ... (read in full...)
Marriage is slowly falling apart but we want to turn it around
Q. Hi, This is my first question here. I wish I didn't have to ask it, but I do.. My wife and I are having problems, we both feel as though the spark has left out relationship. We dont really make love anymore, we hardly spend any time togethe...
A. 8 July 2006: Well, to start with, make little changes in your daily routine to fit in time for each other. Even if it's a quick cup of tea together, or watching a movie. Try and have family outings to let your children know everythings O.K.
If things don't ch... (read in full...)
18 and I'm ashamed to be a virgin!
Q. Hi. I'm 18, I've never been really kissed (my first and last kiss was a little pash with a guy in year 4) i'm pretty ashamed because all my friends are no longer virgins and constantly ask me about who i've kissed and why i don't a have a b/f. I a...
A. 8 July 2006: I think you're sensible to be a virgin! Ok, I'm only 14, but, I know that you should never just have sex with someone so you can join in a conversation. If you got offered would you take it by some random guy? I'm hoping you answered no.
When ... (read in full...)
I'm a gay teen, have met another guy 16 on the interweb but feel so down because we're not together!
Q. Hi, Im 15 and I met this 16 year old boy on the net, and he's the nicest thing in the world - he's so sexy, but hes also funny, kind, polite and well fun to talk to n he says the same about me. We talk every night, and we both have webcams so ...
A. 8 July 2006: Why cant you be with him? You obviously like this lad, so, take action! But, make sure you definatly trust this bloke first and inform you parents, you can't do this with-out them knowing.
If you really cant be together, try and meet new, exc... (read in full...)
I've met a guy on the 'net and things are as serious as they can be... For people who've never met!
Q. PLEASE don't judge me... I know i shouldn't have.. but i dated a guy over the internet. I'm 15 and he's 17.. at first i didn't take it seriosuly at all.. like i figured okay me and him will have fun whenever we are on the computer otherwise no. Then ...
A. 8 July 2006: I'm not judging you at all. I know what it's like to be creeped out by someone over the internet. What you should have remembered was NOT to give out you're telephone number or personal details, to someone you've never met. And are you sure he's 17? ... (read in full...)
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