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writes: Hi,Im 15 and I met this 16 year old boy on the net, and he's the nicest thing in the world - he's so sexy, but hes also funny, kind, polite and well fun to talk to n he says the same about me. We talk every night, and we both have webcams so he knows and i knows that neither of us are 50year old pervs or somwething.Youve probably worked out I must be gay, and being gay in the UK (where i live) aint that easy, im not camp or nutin so no-one knows im gay in 'the real world', but finding someone thats hot, nice and gay and feels the same for u is a pretty hard thing to do. Weve both been out with girls n all that, and we both want someone propa to love and talk to about things ive neva been able to talk about with anyone else befor.But......every time Im not talking to him I feel sad, and I dont talk as much as i used to do at school. I wih i could actually be with him, but he lives 3 hhours away, n we both still live with our parents.... I feel helpless/sad without him, but i cant be with him either What do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, -Clare- +, writes (11 July 2006):
 If you feel that you really trust him and your parents aprove then why not. You seem to really like him so go for it. Take a chace and you'll never know if he is right for you unless you maske an effort as much as him to go and see him. Take a risk you never know what could happen. -Clare-
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2006): I am glad you have brought this subject up, that is very brave of you. I live in the U.K and my cousins son is in the same position as you. Try to stay close to your friends in school, talk to your parents about it, whoever you are closer to out of them both, do they know about your relationship? If not, you must tell them, explain this boy you truly love and i am sure they will understand. If they already know about it, explain how you feel to them, tell them that you feel sad when you are not talking to him or he is not with you. Have you got his number and has he got your? if yes - phone him whenever you feel sad. He will cheer you up i am sure!
If you need any more help e-mail me. Good luck! x x x
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reader, kayleighanne1 +, writes (8 July 2006):
 hi. i no how hard it is bein in ur postion im bi-sexual and i found it hard tellin my family that i add a girl friend as long as u and this lad as ur familys permision and there understanding bein with the lad shouldnt b a problem. but take ur time dont rushin into anthing just yet, but there is a gd scene in blackpool look in to pride 2007 (blackpools is in middle of may 2007) they r there 2 help out, gd luck and b careful
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reader, Little_Laura +, writes (8 July 2006):
 This is tricky. I think you need to come out to some people - say your parents and some close friends. I think this would make you feel less alone. We're in 2006 - if people have a problem, it's their issue, not yours. Then once your parents know the situation ,you can begin to discuss going to visit him. Take it slowly, parents are very sensitive creatures!! It might take then a while just to get used to the news that you're gay. (Maybe, although you shouldn't really lie, you should tell them that this guy is a friend of a friend). Just take it slow with them.
Let me know how you get on,
Good luck, Laura xxxx
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reader, Natalie-x +, writes (8 July 2006):
 Why cant you be with him? You obviously like this lad, so, take action! But, make sure you definatly trust this bloke first and inform you parents, you can't do this with-out them knowing.
If you really cant be together, try and meet new, exciting people, or tell someone you trust about your situaltion, and maybe they can help, also, make sure you tell the bloke how you feel when you're not talking with him, and maybe he can help out too.
Dont just sit back feeling helpless. Do something about this. Good luck!
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reader, Terrapin +, writes (8 July 2006):
 maybe you could arrange to meet up half way to where he lives one weekend. I know how much the gay/lesbian scene here in the uk sux, but check ur local phone numbas there shud b sum gay support line, ask them where u can go. good luck and remember, sweet as he is its ok not to pick a life partner right now.
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