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reader, dr.lenise +, writes (10 July 2006):
honey you can not control that you can do any and every thing your man wants and can be doing it well damn good but if thats something he wants to do thats exactly what he going to do. i really think you need to let him know you are going to be the one and only woman in his life and if you isn't for him then he need to let you go but trust is one of the man things you need in a relationship honey if he tell you he stop cheating you will want to believe him because the love we have for our men but there will always be that little thought "i wonder if he still cheating on me"
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2006): Lillybet is correct and it's good she pointed out that oversight. I think the title and the actual question asked, is confusing. Zeeza, when I re-read your question, it appears you are concerned about you bf cheating on you in the future. Is this what you are trying to ask? If so, try not to worry about what could happen, if nothing has occurred yet. This is something many people worry and are afraid of. Just be positive, gracious and make sure you set boundries and have his respect. He must do the same for you..insist on it. This is no guaruntee, he won't ever cheat. Anything to do with love is a risk, but well worth it. Just have fun and enjoy the ride, hun!
Goof Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2006): You have made a decision to love a man who can't and will not ever be true to you-- so no, you can't make his stop cheating on you, hun. He has poor character, dear and only 'he' can make himself stop cheating. You now know what your future with this man will be like. Shattered trust, resentment, bitterness, miserable despair and unhappiness. Let's face it, having a cheating man is not something you really want, is it? No woman does. So now you need to decide what you're going to do about all this. You should get out and never look back If I were in your shoes, I'd face the loss, get my dignity back by leaving. Then you take the time to heal, recover-then go and find a wonderful man who would never do this to you. They are out there, you just have to look for them. Good Luck.
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reader, Natalie-x +, writes (9 July 2006):
 You can't stop someone being unfaitful. Obviously you don't trust your boyfriend, so why are you still with him?
If he's done it before he's capible of doing it again. He would dump you if you did it to him, but when he does it, he expects another chance.
He's not worth your worrying. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2006): girl you must be crazy u cant stop your boyfriend cheating on u what the only way u could stop him is u wave a magic wand and his penis disappears and theirs a fat chance happenin ditch the sorry execuse for a man
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (9 July 2006):
 Cut off his penis lol..haha just joking....but you can't really stop someone cheating they cheat for a reason. you could find out he reason and see if it's a problem in your relationship then you can tr to fix it but he's got to not wanna cheat, it's not only down to you he's gotta wanna stop.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2006): The best thing to do is get to know someone as much as you can before you start going out with them. Once you know them, you should feel confident that you can trust them.
It sounds to me like you don't trust your boyfriend, nor do you have any experience at all with relationships. Are you sure you're ready to have a boyfriend?
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