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writes: is it wrong that i really and honestly dont believe that losing my virginity is a big deal? im 21 and quite honestly ready, but am not interested in love. i have a fear of the whole thing but im sick of being inexperienced. my friends think its odd not to care so much, but i really dont and plan on losing it to a guy friend. does this mean somethings wrong with me because they make me feel like there is? Reply to this Question
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (12 July 2006):
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No you are not odd.
Do it when you are ready and find the right partner who you love.
Ignore your so-called *friends*.
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reader, Natalie-x +, writes (9 July 2006):
 There's nothing wrong with you. You may have thought it was a big deal at one point before now, but you're obviously ready to take a step and get a little more experianced.
But that doesn't mean sleeping with any guy that asks you. Make sure he respects you and understands how you feel. Dont worry!
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reader, Angel Wings +, writes (9 July 2006):
 My dear girl,
You obviously have a lot of self respect, you also need self reassurance, and self confidence.
You show the respect by the way you are (waiting for the right guy) in my books anyhow.
Don't be influencewd by others who badger you ~ it's your life to live the way you want.
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reader, bonym +, writes (8 July 2006):
 My dear its a shame more young ladies are not like you. Nowadays everyone is in such a hurry to have sex and its ridiculous how many children are sexually active nowadays. If you are not ready for love now, that does not mean there is something wrong with you at all. You are perfectly normal my dear so dont worry!!! xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2006): I dont think there is anything wrong with you everyone has there own timetable for everything so go ahead do what you want to do your an adult capable of making your own decisions so hey hope this helps : )
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