The boyfriend, his ex and their child are going to the movies!
Q. Hey. This site always gives me great advice and I was wondering if you lovely people could give me your opinion. Dating boyfriend 1.5 years. He has a 6 year old daughter with an ex. Bit if history/ Seen as myself and my other half knew ...
A. 11 August 2013: Hey guys. Thanks for all your comments!!! Real great and insightful. In regards to username. It's from 7 years ago when I was 18 & had been let down by some guy I thoughtvibwasbib love with.. If anyone can advise on how to change it that would be ... (read in full...)
I've never been able to achieve orgasm through penetration.
Q. Hi, I need some helpful advice please??! Here's the low down... I've been sexually active for 12 years now and have never had an orgasm via penetrative sex. Oral and hands I'm fine with... I can reach clitoral orgasms just fine ( thank...
A. 21 July 2013: Hi, thanks for your advice. In regards to the porn thing, we've only done that a couple of times & to be honest it's me that enjoys it & initiates it but he's been responsive too it 2/3 times. So that's not the only thing to get him going. I just ... (read in full...)
He's living with his mistress and driving her SUV only 2 weeks of leaving our home.
Q. I had my husband of 15 years to move out of our home because I discovered more evidence that he's having an affair. He moved out, but refuses to talk to me about anything. He's been doing this every time I try to talk to him. The isolation from our ...
A. 20 July 2013: Firstly This woman is a disgrace to others. I think you should demand answers - do not make anything easy for him until he tells you the absolute truth. If he will not tell you then go to her fo find out. This is nt acceptable. You were married & ... (read in full...)
He woke me up and used the "two minute blow-up doll" method.
Q. So Im really mad right now. My husband and I dont have sex often ( maybe twice a week if that- NOT by my choice ( he gets mad if I complain or ask for 3-4 times a week.) So its almost 4 am. He woke me up around three ready to go. I was sound asleep ...
A. 20 July 2013: I just posted something very similar. Inbox me if you like?! We could go through the frustration together & have a good old whinge / try come up with solutions ??! X... (read in full...)
This man has left me wondering if i'll ever have a proper relationship
Q. I'm 39, beautiful and never have had a boyfriend. I had a very special relationship for 7 years with a man who was the most amazing man when we would spend time together. When we weren't together, he was being the most amazing man to another. Then ...
A. 16 June 2013: Hi, sorry to hear your so down about this but it sounds like you may need to take a step back & think about a few things. You are speaking of this man as though he was your boyfriend, yet you state you have never had a boyfriend.. This was a ... (read in full...)
Should I confront my ex-bestfriend who is now sleeping with my soon to be ex-husband?
Q. My best friend and my husband are now lovers. She left her husband, he left me. She has two kids and we have one. She and he have discussed kicking me out of our family home and them moving in. I suspected something was going on for so long...
A. 19 May 2013: If you share mutual friends then please get in their first and make it known to your other friends that you knew something was up before he had left... Make sure they know that she didn't do this after the break up.
In regards to confront... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is crushing on his son's girlfriends. His behavior is too strange!
Q. I have a question about what constitutes friendly behavior and what constitutes bad behavior. My boyfriend has started asking his son often when his son's new girlfriend is coming over to our house. Now, My boyfriend thinks I am jealous of his son's ...
A. 10 May 2013: I'm 26... This is creepy!! If my boyfriends farther acted like this and I was aware I would feel uncomfortable with the whole situation. The fact he has no interest at all in daughters boyfriends hits the nail in the coffin & proves that this is ... (read in full...)
How do I change the underlying issue within myself?
Q. Hello Dearcupid, I have come to see what is a major reoccurring issue for me in my relationships with men. 1) I base my self-worth on a man's approval. For example, I just broke it off with a guy who I was clearly not emotionally compatible...
A. 10 May 2013: I'm in the same place as you... Although I have trouble getting out of bad relationships. Weird!! I know I'm worth more & know whats morally right.. Just mentally im not all there & pretty sure i need councelIing.... It seems that After a period of ... (read in full...)
Was this a friendly rejection?
Q. So theres a guy who i see once a month due to work and he will flirt and so on just with me even though we have a big group. Today i emailed him internally stating: i've had a really naff day!are you free for a drink after work?I can ask ..(a mut...
A. 10 May 2013: Do you know if He has a wife or girlfriend?
I would leave it at that for now, if he's interested he will follow up.... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the guilt trips my ex lays on me?
Q. Short and Sweet: How do I not let his guilt trips get to me, and how to get him to move on? Backstory: I was with my ex for 1.5 years, and it was great for the most part. Certain traits I didn't care for, and vice versa, but it worked. No plans...
A. 10 May 2013: I'm not going to offer advice here but just wanted to say that you are so strong for walking & really are an inspiration. ... (read in full...)
How can I stop my co-worker from taking credit for my work?
Q. Dear Cupid This is work related propblem. My office collegue doesnt work at all, he free rides ma all the time. But my managers everyone is basically giving him credit for my work. Everyone knows im the one who is doing everything, but still h...
A. 10 May 2013: Your boss's are human. Ask for a meeting with them or the HR manager & be very honest. Try not to make this a personal problem byt be strong & confident in your point. If you have evidence, take it with you. If your company responds in a negative ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so tired, sad, frustrated and angry all the time.?
Q. I have a good life....love my job, my partner of 6 months and I have an amazing family but for some reason I cant feel happy. I have tried improving myself and feeling happier by losing 6kgs, gettting back into my artwork that I havent done for 7 ...
A. 10 May 2013: Hmmm. Yeah, my partner coming to bed late all the time or not having intercourse with me because he's been jerking would wind me up too. I think your being harsh on yourself by saying these are small things & should admit to yourself that its ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend saves pictures of beautiful women he knows
Q. My boyfriend (we'll call him Jim) saves pictures of beautiful women he knows onto his phone (he gets the photos off Facebook and online). I've known since I met him that he likes being seen with attractive women - the overwhelming maj...
A. 10 May 2013: Yup. Not okay!!! To me this really is not a way to show someone that you care but is a childish behaviour & infact he is probably loving the reaction he is getting from you by having these pics. Your jealousy will be giving him quite a nice ego ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is going to spend Mother's Day with his ex and his daughter
Q. My boyfriend has a daughter with his ex, and usually he got to see his daughter after he finished class like around 9pm. Recently his ex decided that 9pm is too late to come see her (even though on the days she works, she's ok with him watching her ...
A. 10 May 2013: This is a tough one... I know I would feel exactly the same as you...call it immature or call it insensitive but it's human nature & your feelings are nothing to be ashamed of. You have 2 options here:
1) you can keep it to yourself but I have n... (read in full...)
I thought we were getting into a relationship, but she sees it as 'just friends'
Q. Hi guys I wonder if you can offer me some advice regarding this matter. I have known this woman for quite a few years and we use to work together. In this time we were nothing more than friends. In the past year we have become close and have s...
A. 2 May 2013: Wow, I've been in this situation but as a woman who had a great friend & colleague ( at the time) really get the wrong impression & it caused big issues.
All I can say is we didn't sleep together but 1 night I Did get tipsy & kiss him / say some... (read in full...)
Do you think anyone would be upset by his actions? I'm doubting myself and I feel like I'm in the wrong all the time.
Q. My boyfriend seems to have 2 personalities. He said he come to dinner with my parents earlier but then changed his mind, my mother went to the effort of cooking for him so I told him he was being rude. He went out and I have no idea where he is and ...
A. 22 April 2013: Oh dear, all I can say is that I'm familiar with this behaviour. My current boyfriend was actually dating two other people at the beginning of our relationship. Here were the clues: constantly hiding phone Changing passcode regularly D... (read in full...)
I think I'm gay because I'm crushing on a female teacher
Q. Hello, I think I'm gay. I have had three boyfriends and broke up with all of them because I just didn't have any feelings for them (more than friendly feelings). I have had a few minor crushes on a some of my friends and one bigger one for this ...
A. 22 April 2013: Hi, I have a twin sister who is gay, she also dated men between the ages of 14-16 and then came out as gay and since has only dated women. As were identical twins and I've only dated men this leads me to the conclusion that sexuality isn't ... (read in full...)
Should I keep trying with him even though he doesn't return my calls?
Q. please help.i meet this guy coming up to 2 weeks so far its been good,ive been round his house 3 times and stayed over night the thing is he wants sex and deep down i want it two but not just yet, anyway this weekend i went away on a day trip and he ...
A. 26 November 2007: Hi there, i know this is hard when u really like someone but he sounds like hes not interested. If he liked you the same way you like him then surely he'd be the one calling you??
if u really wanna persist ith this then one of the best ways 2 g... (read in full...)
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