Is my ex girlfriend playing mind games???
Q. Hi sorry this question is going to be really long with the details and such. Me and this girl dated for 3 years. You could say she was my first love. I was her first love too. Our relationship was wonderful she was tight with my family i was tig...
A. 9 December 2009: yeah yu most likely will always care about your first love. i can understand you wanting to know but sometimes chasing this to find out can end in tears.
maybe its best to accept that the relationship has ended, therefore even if she does miss you... (read in full...)
Calling all males, can you tell if a girl likes you?
Q. Right. Simple question, more complicated answers I guess. I've read lots of times on here before that men and all males in general are rubbish at noticing signs that a girl likes them. Apparently they have no clue until they're told. I know girls te...
A. 9 December 2009: ok so i feel it is irrelavent if all males can or cannot tell if you like them, what you want is some advice on making sure this guy knows you like him.
simple..
1) text, email speak often.
2) go out together often
3) kiss when the time i... (read in full...)
Is my ex girlfriend playing mind games???
Q. Hi sorry this question is going to be really long with the details and such. Me and this girl dated for 3 years. You could say she was my first love. I was her first love too. Our relationship was wonderful she was tight with my family i was tig...
A. 9 December 2009: hmm i can imagine its frustrating for you.
looking at it in simple terms (because im only hearing your interpretation of the events) then i would say a few things.
1) she isnt ready to let go of you fully
2) she wants to be more than fr... (read in full...)
Help me deal with this pain...
Q. I didn't meet my first love until I was 23. Now, after 3 years, loss of parents, unemployment, failed pregnancies, and the life that can happen in three years, it's over. I don't know how to deal with this pain. I never knew how much it could hurt. ...
A. 8 December 2009: first of all you need to know your not alone when feeling this pain, i split up with my first love and i was in pieces.
Now i imainge you are starting to think of all the good times etc to make yourself feel worse.
I understand you two will hav... (read in full...)
Its not fair on my boyfriend to still be in love with my ex, how do I get over him?
Q. Hi My ex and I broke up 7 months ago. I'm currently with a guy who treats me far better and loves me far more than my ex. I can't seem to get over my ex, no matter what I do about it. 1.) is there anything I can do to try to get over him? 2.) I...
A. 8 December 2009: you need to establish if you seriously love your ex boyfriend.
have you thought that the feelings may not be love just a strong feeling because you know you cant have him at this moment in time?
obviously you are going to think about your past ... (read in full...)
Why do I start to feel like this 3 months into my relationships?
Q. i was with my ex for 2 years on and off, we only lasted up to 5 months each time tho because after 3-4 months id start to feel as if i no longer had feelings for him but as soon as another girl was on the scene i cudnt handle it and all a sudden my ...
A. 8 December 2009: id like to just take a guess at the way these guys act around you..
are they all over you, do you feel so confident that you have them were you want them and you feel that you are in control of the relationship?... (read in full...)
Help for my sex addiction...
Q. I think I may have a problem in that I think I'm a sex addict. I want to stop and I'm ashamed to get help for it. I find it hard to end it with these men that I am fb with. I dont want to hurt anyone. What can I do? ...
A. 8 December 2009: are you sure its an addiction?
the first step to recovery is to realise you do have a problem and then you must seek help. i imagine speaking to a doctor will point you in the right way to help with your issue.
to be honest, its your life, y... (read in full...)
How do you become an Alpha male?
Q. Alpha males of the great ape species beat up the other males. This is how they become the alpha males. After they've won, they don't worry about getting females. They can chill out and have whatever female they want. There are guys who are con...
A. 8 December 2009: ok ok i think this is what you are getting at so here goes.
an alpha male demonstrates all the 'desirable' aspects to the females concious and subconcious mind.
in nature and natural terms women desire someone that can look after them, this... (read in full...)
After 24 years of marriage he now tells me he wished he'd had sex with more women! This is making me very insecure
Q. After nearly 24 years of marriage my husband, aged 51, announced to me that 'the biggest regret of his life was that he hadn't had sex with more women'. I also found out at the same time that he had lied to me about being a virgin when we met and ...
A. 8 December 2009: now im only 20 so cant really relate to his age however, he has openly told you this hasnt he? he isnt suggesting that that is what he is going to do, in a way it is just a fantasy, its him pondering over what he could have done. Im sure... (read in full...)
Is it normal for guys to switch from being hot to cold?
Q. Is it normal for guys to switch from being hot to cold? My bf and I who are both in our mid 20s, have been together for almost a year. Throughout our whole relationship I have felt like I am walking on egg shells. If I show him affection a...
A. 8 December 2009: well i wouldnt particularly withdrawn myself if a female was giving me attention however i wouldnt go over board in reciprocating the same behaviour.
I think this hot cold malarkly could be due to you both having issues you should discuss.... (read in full...)
He offered his ex his spare room should she ever need it! Is this normal?
Q. My boyfriend's ex is down and he offered her his spare room if she ever needs it. Should this weird me out? Because it really does!...
A. 2 December 2009: look at it from the other way round, you say to him your ex can stay at yours..
it is entirely dependant on the relationship he has with his ex.
if they are now very good friends (which is rare) and that is all then maybe it is ok, but express ... (read in full...)
What do to for the best? Should I confront him?
Q. My boyfriend is cheating on me. I followed him from home one night and I know where she lives. I want to confront this girl but I don't know that to do. If I confront her I will lose him altogether but if I don't I can always use this as blackmail ...
A. 2 December 2009: he has cheated on you.. why do you want to keep him with you.
What reason have you to accept this deceiptful act?
The girl hasnt done anything wrong its your boyfriend.....
Address the issue with him. figure out why? from there you will make... (read in full...)
Why am I overreacting so much about all of this?
Q. okayyy, i've been with my boyfriend for 6 months. we get on amazing but his ex issues seriously bother me. she tried breaking us up until she got a bf of her own a couple of months ago, but im still majorly iunsecure. Everything was great until i ...
A. 2 December 2009: you stil havent really understood, read my post again.
Its not about solving the problem you are faced with today but solving the problem as a whole so similar things dont become a problem in the future.
TRUST HIM, let this go. Dont think about... (read in full...)
I am in love with a player who doesn't give a damn
Q. I have been with my guy for five years. He refuses to agree to have a monogamous relationship but says that I am the only one. I have knowledge that he has cheated several time. He wont say that he loves me but wont say that he dosent. Our lives are ...
A. 2 December 2009: hey,
been a player it sounds like he is doing it well.
my view on it is this..
1) you are so attracted to him because of the way he presents himself through his actions etc.. he is demonstrating characteristics of an alpha male. He is showin... (read in full...)
I'm insecure about my looks and can't stand to see sexy women on tv
Q. i am a 23 year old girl who is overweight but i take pride in how i present myself most days. i guess ill say i am attractive for my weight. i have this wonderful boyfriend whome i love very much. we have been dating for over a year and live tog...
A. 2 December 2009: insecurities can be difficult to resolve. If it is entirely YOUR insecurties that are causing the problems then obviously this is something you need to resolve.
1) Stop with the negative thoughts
You need to snap out of the negative frame o... (read in full...)
Why am I overreacting so much about all of this?
Q. okayyy, i've been with my boyfriend for 6 months. we get on amazing but his ex issues seriously bother me. she tried breaking us up until she got a bf of her own a couple of months ago, but im still majorly iunsecure. Everything was great until i ...
A. 2 December 2009: Initially, i would get bothered about that if i saw my girlfriend having those things. However, after i try look at things logically and calm myself down i would later understand that; it is difficult to accept what he is telling you but over ... (read in full...)
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