What is my girlfriend hiding? And why is she getting so many text messages?
Q. I am really looking for some advice as I have spoken to close friends about this situation but I am getting mixed responses. Here Goes: I have been with my girlfriend for four years. We met in Edinburgh once and started to chat online and phone. S...
A. 23 August 2005: i think you should dust your own closet first. then confront her. you sound like you may have more issues than your said girlfriend, just the thought of you invadind her privacy is enough to turn me against you, how do ypu want her to trust you ... (read in full...)
I need some advice on the way to handle relationships...
Q. Hi, I am stupid as far as handling relationships are concerned. I don't know if I am too weak emotionally but I tend to give away control to other person quite easily. Sometimes, what happens with this is the other person manipulates and u...
A. 23 August 2005: when you stood up for your self you felt better did you not, well then keep standing up for yourself and tell them to piss off. you don't need them anyway. unless you for some strange reason like the way they mis-treat you then by all means go ... (read in full...)
No feelings for my husband any more...
Q. Hi.. I need help to understand relationships. Is this the way most people behave, is it acceptable? I have been married for 18 yrs, 2 kids (16 and 13). The first year was OO, the rest have been acceptable. We did split up for 6 months 15yrs ag...
A. 23 August 2005: you must be willing to take the very first step towards re-covery then , and only then can anyone be able to help you,are you willing?
if so, then take that step, don't look back except to find the child support payments.... (read in full...)
I get nothing but criticism and accusations from my boyfriend. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I am a 19 year old male and I'm in a relationship with a 40yr old male. We have been having problems now for months. He spends more time with everybody else with me. He's nasty to me, he puts me down, he tries to stop me talking to my family and ...
A. 23 August 2005: put on your walkin boots and serve him with his walking papers too, 'cause dude, you definately don't need a guy like that. ... (read in full...)
My parents don't approve of my boyfriend...
Q. I am going to be 14 in December and my boyfriend is 19. I really like him and I feel he is the one for me. My parents don't approve. How can I be with him without him getting in trouble and get jail time? He says he don't want to go to jail but...
A. 23 August 2005: and neither do i, 13 and not even out of junior high, dating a senior, or worse one that already graduated.you should really be ashamed of yourself, putting your parents through this,and testing their will not to have you turned over to the port ... (read in full...)
Why do married men ogle other women?
Q. Why do men when they are married 'lech/ogle' women and flirt with them? Are they insecure, are they trying to boost their own ego, are they not happy with their own marriage?...
A. 22 August 2005: the answer to your question is all of the above. because you my friend have answered your own question leaving out (1) one very important thing they are trying to aquire notches on their bedposts, take into consideration that you too are one of ... (read in full...)
Forbidden by my mum to see a co-worker who I'm very interested in...
Q. I am currently a 17 year old female, graduating from high school this May. I am very comfortable with myself and confident in who I am, and it is maybe for this reason that people always mistake me as many years older then I actually am. I work...
A. 22 August 2005: not if you value your freedom. don't do anything to jeaprodise your relationship with your mum, at least for right now. lets say you give it a cooling off period of a few weeks or months, then see what she says. you surely don't want to lose your ... (read in full...)
I thought he was trying to take advantage when I was drunk, but now I worry that I've turned him off permanently!
Q. I have a friend who I imagined likes me. Two weeks ago I went out with my friends, including him and I got drunk. He took me home that night and while he was driving me home he confessed he likes me. Later on, we starting talking about a sensitiv...
A. 17 June 2005: call him again and get straight to the point , don't lolly about the bushes. ask him straight up what are his truest and deepest feelings for you. then, should his answer in your opinion be straight up on the level then tell him how you're feeling ... (read in full...)
He had his choice and he chose her... but now he wants me, too!
Q. Over a year ago my best friend was given the ultimatum by his girlfriend: her or me? He choose her but now he constantly rings me telling me how much he misses me. I've told him to concentrate on his relationship and to forget about me but he's ...
A. 3 May 2005: Tell him to piss off and stay true to yourself. Tell him that you're going to rat him out if he doesn't leave you alone. ... (read in full...)
We're friends and housemates. Now I want to tell her I want to be more, but... how?
Q. Dear Cupid; I am in a real predicament. I am a young professional man and it is becoming increasingly obvious that I am completely enamoured with my housemate. She is a beautiful, successful and completely honest girl who I have utmost respect f...
A. 3 May 2005: Here's what I think you should do: take her out to dinner at some nice place you know and ask her how she feels about you, then explain to her how you feel towards her. Then see where that leads you. If it were meant to be, it will happen, if it we... (read in full...)
When I catch my boyfriend flirting by text, he always has some excuse for it...
Q. I am only 15 years old. I have been in a relationship with this guy for nearly 18 months. I really do feel that I do love him and that it's not just lust, it's so much more! But I do need some help. Our relationship lacks a bit of trust. He trust...
A. 3 May 2005: You live 430 miles apart from each other, for how long now? And you need advice. Wake up girl and smell the daisies and daffodils. You and you alone need to decide to stick it out or move on. I can only offer my opinion you are the one that mus... (read in full...)
What I thought was normal sex, he thinks is "boring". What he wants, I think is "unsanitary"!
Q. Dear Cupid; I am involved in a long term relationship, which I am hoping (fingers crossed) will eventually lead to marriage. I'm not unexperienced or new to sexual encounters. The problem I am having is that in all my past experiences being w...
A. 28 April 2005: When you kiss are you not exchanging bodily fluids. Perhaps he is wanting you to prove your love for him, by being willing and open to doing and trying new things in the bedroom as it were. Just don't condemn the guy for wanting to make it all night ... (read in full...)
My fiance says there's nothing going on with his business partner, but evidence shows something else!
Q. I need help!! I am very insecure about myself. I have been with my fiance for nearly 3 years and am getting married next year. He has just set up two new companies and the last one he has done with two others. The woman who is a partner in the b...
A. 28 April 2005: If you really want to know what is going on while he is away, my advice is to hire a private investigator to follow him for a while and report his findings to you personally. Secondly if, what he is saying is true, I advice you to swallow ... (read in full...)
With school and housework, I'm helping all I can, but my b/f wants me to get a job, too...
Q. I have been living with my boyfriend for 7 months now. He works and makes enough to survive. I am an international university student so I can only attend school, not work. Lately hes been pressuring me to find a job because I had a part time ...
A. 28 April 2005: Where do you really see yourself with this guy? I believe that, if he were really interested in your well-being, that he would be a little more considerate towards you and your employment status at this time. I'm getting that you are a student ... (read in full...)
There are 5 years between me and my b/f and everyone thinks this is a problem, except us!
Q. I'm going out with some one who is 5 years older than me. I'm 17 and he's 22. Everyone seem to have a problem with this. Are we in the wrong?...
A. 11 April 2005: By whose standards are you wanting to know? Are you in trouble or in the wrong as it were asked. It depends solely on your beliefs. What do you and he think and, moreover how do the two of you feel towards each other? Are you willing, and are you ... (read in full...)
She left me suddenly, saing she needs "time and space"... How can we sort this out
Q. I have been disabled and unable to work for 6 years. My wife left me 2 weeks ago, after a bad patch that started at Christmas. We've been married for 13 years and went through a similar patch 2 years ago but didn't leave. It lasted 6 months then ...
A. 11 April 2005: Maybe you should re-compose your thoughts as well. Where were you six years ago when you were working? Life with her was a bit more pleasant, right? You had a job, money coming in to pay the needed bills, rent, and other expenses. Have you ever ... (read in full...)
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