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He had his choice and he chose her... but now he wants me, too!

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Question - (2 May 2005) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2005)
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Over a year ago my best friend was given the ultimatum by his girlfriend: her or me? He choose her but now he constantly rings me telling me how much he misses me. I've told him to concentrate on his relationship and to forget about me but he's adamant to see me in secret! He won't break up with her but if she finds out he's been talking to me I'm the one who will have to take the blame! Help. I'm worried.

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A reader, star3482 +, writes (9 May 2005):

why wont she let him see you? by friends do you mean ex partners that decided to stay friends? if not then he should tell his girlfriend to get a life!

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A reader, madam treudeau +, writes (3 May 2005):

Tell him to piss off and stay true to yourself. Tell him that you're going to rat him out if he doesn't leave you alone.

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A reader, trusty +, writes (3 May 2005):

What's to be be worried about? Friends last longer then boy/girlfriends. Do you miss your 'friend'? Meet up with him just the once for now, though. Talk about what is going to happen, and tell him straight that you will see him as long as he tells his girlfriend. But it is wrong keeping it from his Mrs. How would you feel if you were in her shoes? Tell him straight.

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