What is my next line of approach?
Q. I have a crush on this girl at school and i don't know what to say to her I haven't had a girlfriend in a long time and i don't know how to talk to any girl to start a relationship My cousin told her that i have crush on her and she didn't say ...
A. 19 September 2010: a) talk to her during a hang out with a bunch of people around
b) just go up to her and start talking..?... (read in full...)
I still love my first boyfriend even although I accepted this other man's proposal!
Q. I am so worried.. i have two options.. when I got my first i was so happy but he left me after 3 years.. he ditched me for a girl.. so after that i got a new friend.. he became my best friend.. he proposed to me many times but i refused.. then when ...
A. 19 September 2010: Hello? You're first bf LEFT you for another girl and you're considering on going back with him? You obviously have someone who loves you, your current boyfriend. If you're not happy with your current boyfriend than I suppest finding a new love. ... (read in full...)
Have I lost my chance with him?
Q. i really like this guy and it was all good at the start of the school year till i got evil looks off another one of his close friends who is a girl. i stopped talkin to him and something bad happened between them but now i talk to him again. ...
A. 19 April 2010: uhm.... obviosly he also chose to put the distance in the middle. try talking to him and just ask what you guys haven't been the same. sorry but its tough to give an answer to this since you never hooked up or dated. good luck... (read in full...)
Forever single?
Q. It is hard to describe how much a single two letter word can cause so much pain. From middle school to now I have heard to word no more times I care to count. I have always thought how myself as a nice caring person however I was always isolated, ...
A. 19 April 2010: dont get your hopes up so soon. theres a reason for cause and wait. dont look for a relationship too hard. doesn't that defeat the whole chemistry? i've never liked those dating websites anyways. maybe you have high standards? could it also be that ... (read in full...)
I love him as a person but there's no sexual spark!
Q. Is it right to stay with someone who you love very much as a person, but the sexual spark isn't there? I love him and want him to be happy. I know my being with him makes him happy, but he is happy with me just being there. I want so much more, like ...
A. 19 April 2010: there needs to be a sexual spark or else you will cheat on him in the long run.
I know its difficult to be with someone who has the different interests than you, but that's what makes it unique sometimes.
anyways maybe the sexual spark will com... (read in full...)
I want to end this relationship but don't want her to hate me
Q. hi am currently in a relationship n am not happy its not the same as it used too be its the 3rd time that we have been out with each other bt this time is just different were both young but ive had enough but i dont want to break her /heart and her ...
A. 19 April 2010: Wait..it's been only the third date?... (read in full...)
My friend thinks I should talk to me ex-boyfriend, but I don't know if I want to
Q. Hi, i dated this boy like 2 years ago and we went out for a pretty long time and got really deep in out relationship. when we broke up it was because of this huge dramatic thing that happened between me and my fake friends at the time. he broke ...
A. 19 April 2010: Hmm... well first of all it's your choice. If you want to talk to him than do so, if not than don't. it's really that simple. judging from personal experience, there's a reason why he is in your past..maybe he should stay there.
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We used to talk, now not so well.
Q. I really like this guy and at the start of the school year we talked no problemn. then one of his friends a girls startin given me evil eyes and i stopped talkin to him for 2 weeks. we talk again and get along but lately i notice he talks to other ...
A. 14 April 2010: try talking more to him and ignore the other girls. If it doesn't work out than move on... (read in full...)
My guy is mad because I went to see a movie without him
Q. I invited my man to my nephew birthday party in lafayette, la which is about two hours away from where we live. After the party, everyone wanted to get together and go to the movies; everyone except my man. We rode up there together, so I told him I ...
A. 11 April 2010: um..... your family is important too isn't it?
Well why didn't he want to see the movie? and why is he bitchin? it's not like you cheated on him.... (read in full...)
Finding this break is more difficult that I expected
Q. Alright, so my girlfriend and I have been together a year now, and the other day we decided it'd be 'best' for both of us if we took a break, but not like completely split. To be more specific, we won't touch anyone else and expect to get back ...
A. 11 April 2010: You should get a hobby....get your mind off of it. Whatever the result of this break is, it'll be for the best. You have to give it time though....chill... (read in full...)
He keeps dragging me down, how do I tell him?
Q. well ive been going with this boy for nearly over 2 months now, but he keeps bringing me down most of the time and the problem is i love him that much i cant tell him how it makes me feel, but i know that he loves me the same way as i do love him he ...
A. 11 April 2010: Ok. First of all you NEED to tell him how you feel. How he makes you feel and why.
Don't take this the wrong way but you've been with him for only 2 months, it shouldn't be that hard to kick him to the curb.
If he doesn't make you feel worthy, ... (read in full...)
Do you think my ex would change if I were to go back to her?
Q. Hi all, i really need some help here !! I split up with my girlfriend of 9 months about 6 weeks ago and we've had a really tough time since saying some really nasty things to each other. She finished with me becuase she said she wasn't happy an...
A. 24 March 2010: Ok... I say leave both. The girl who has a boyfriend will do the same behind your back with another guy. Also, you may still have feelings for you ex, but it's clearly over.
Stay away from bad habits and look for something fresh- a new start with... (read in full...)
How can I make my girlfriend not feel like I am using her.
Q. i have a girlfriend and i really love her alot. the problem is that i dont know how to treat her right, without making her feel like that i am using her for my own good. i dont want to make her feel that way at all. i need adive on how to treat her ...
A. 22 March 2010: Well I'm not sure why she would feel like you're "using her". Is it for the sex, money? You also left out how long you're been together now.
The best way is to listen to her. When you listen to a person speak and show concern, she will know you care... (read in full...)
I was drunk and don't know what I did...help!
Q. im 15 and i was at a party and i sort of took a 21 year old boy back to my house and got into him :/ and let him stay till the morning but my friend was thier to and i was really drunk and i dont remeber anyhting! so i dont know what i havve do...
A. 22 March 2010: you're 15 got drunk and woke up not knowing if you had sex with someone?...wow...why get drunk to the point where you dont remember what happened? first of all, if you did have sex you'd know it. you mean to say you didnt notice an odor, wetness, ... (read in full...)
I am getting back pains after sex. Is doing it daily too often?
Q. Hello all ! I want to ask you that is it good to have sex daily or it cause problem for health? I get back pain after sex. We usually have sex whole night but i desire it more n more is this so much sex drive cause back pain for me? Plz help me how ...
A. 22 March 2010: I agree with the post below. This mostly depends on your positon with him. He's probably applying too much pressure to your lower back some how. ... (read in full...)
How can I say what I mean to him without getting all tongue tied?
Q. I have seen this guy for about two weeks. He seems like a good guy and I would like it to work out for us. Unfortunately, I am not very good at reading people's character and know about them deep down. I can have a good laugh but when it comes to ...
A. 21 March 2010: Just be yourself and know what makes you happy by not being selfish to him either... (read in full...)
What are my chances of having a long term girlfriend???
Q. I'm 22 and I've never had a long term girlfriend and although my confidence is a lot better than a year ago (let alone when I started uni 2 and half years ago), I worry that if I will struggle to find a girlfriend when I work full time. I do ...
A. 21 March 2010: Engineering is a great feild. Believe it or not women are in this feild as well. So I wouldn't get upset about not seeing a cutie in a skirt at work..
anyways before a serious relationship, have you had any girlfriends for more and 3-5 mont... (read in full...)
He told me dreamed about kissing me - why won't he actually do it?
Q. My relationship with my friend is driving me crazy. We met a little over a month ago through a mutual friend while he was still dating a girl who is now his ex. Lately we have been spending a lot of time together going out, hanging out at my ...
A. 20 March 2010: Maybe he is still undecided and going through an emotional battle after the break up. The laughing and flirting may not be what he's feeling inside. Hey how about you make the first move? That'll make or break you guys.
Good luck... (read in full...)
Back and forth online argument and I don't think that I should apologize.
Q. Evening peeps! I would like some opinions on my current situation please. On facebook recently I put as my post " Im 99.9 per cent sure children are more messy than dogs,lol!" Now this post was regards to my mate who'd I'd just gone to visit. S...
A. 20 March 2010: I agree. 1) remove her from your facebook. You do not need stress or to be apart of her anger. 2) we (adults with no children) will never understand a parents role. They will never understand our suggestions and will take everything the w... (read in full...)
How to make sex more enjoyable for him?
Q. hey :) me and my partner have been sexually active for a while now, and id like to try out some new stuff to make it more intense for him, simply because i want to please him :) i would really like to suprise him by doing new things, be it foreplay ...
A. 20 March 2010: Hmm... lots of thoughts going through my mind. Here's one..have you tried anything in the shower? I've heard there's nothing better than standing in the shower, having hot water hit your back, and getting blown at the same time...on hot water and a ... (read in full...)
I have a phobia of condoms, and a phobia of pregnancy! Help!
Q. I've run into a bit of a snag due to some slightly contradicting phobias of mine. After deciding sex would be in our near future, my boyfriend and I discussed it a little. There seems to be a bit of an issue now, however, and I've gotten to t...
A. 20 March 2010: searh: IUD... (read in full...)
I cant get over my first love!
Q. I have been 6 months. 6 months ago, I broke up with my first love. We were together for almost a year, and have liked each other for longer. He used to leave me notes everywhere saying "I love you" or "I miss you babe". We were always gunna be ...
A. 20 March 2010: I don't think you'll ever really get over him. This may sound a bit silly but the way I sortof got over my first bf was to start a relationship with someone else. Someone, guy or girl, to start talking to on the phone or hanging out with to avoid ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be gay....what should I do?
Q. I'm so confused right now. I'm 15, and I know that deep inside, I'm straight, or at least bisexual - I want a relationship with a girl, and I've had sexual experiences with girls in the past. However, several years ago I got caught messing with a ...
A. 20 March 2010: Give it time and don't rush. Get to know yourself first and what makes you happy. Ofcourse, experimenting may help or make matters worse.
What ever makes you happy within will makes it way out eventually.
People over 25 are still confused... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do anymore, should I move on?
Q. hi everyone i live with my boyfriend and think that he is really immature because i just caught him watching porn in the living room when i went to sleep. we haven't had sex in like a week and everytime I try to make love to him, he rejects me and ...
A. 20 March 2010: Hi ChicaLatina,
He may have commitment issues as well as sexual arousal problems. There is not much I can say. This is an issue you need to sit down with him and discuss.
Why doesn't he want to have sex with you? Maybe he's watching porn to help ... (read in full...)
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