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*hicaLatina
writes:hi everyone i live with my boyfriend and think that he is really immature because i just caught him watching porn in the living room when i went to sleep. we haven't had sex in like a week and everytime I try to make love to him, he rejects me and it hurts me so much that he would rather watch porn than be mature enough to make love to me. that makes me feel that i am not good enough for him, he makes me feel so down and he only tells me sweet things when i have straight hair and my hair is naturally curly so i just dont know what to do anymore, should i move on? I know Iam not ugly but he makes me feel that way. what should i do???? :(... also i look at his myspace history and he is always looking at other girls, i moved out once of his house for about 5 months than he was begging me to move back in with him but when iam with him, he treats me like a toy.
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reader, ChicaLatina +, writes (20 March 2010):
ChicaLatina is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanx everyone 4 all ur advice. But i have talked to him many times. N by the way. He doesnt pleasure me. He only lasts like 5 min at the most if we even get to do it.
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reader, Luckie128 +, writes (20 March 2010):
Hi ChicaLatina,
He may have commitment issues as well as sexual arousal problems. There is not much I can say. This is an issue you need to sit down with him and discuss.
Why doesn't he want to have sex with you? Maybe he's watching porn to help his arousal. What ever the case is, he has to give you the reasons to leave him. After hearing him it may be wise to leave him once and for all.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 March 2010):
Leave him. It's not even worth talking about, because he's already looking at other woman on the internet. A man who makes you feel bad is not worth your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): My advice is to try new things with him,postions,toys holes,etc.,but if it hurts,then stop.Hes young and hes gonna want to explore different things. Good luck baby.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (20 March 2010):
 leave him.
relationships are supposed to be fun and loving.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (20 March 2010):
 Don't move back in. Keep your hair curly. He's not immature, he's a jerk and he doesn't know what he wants. No he doesn't treat you like a toy since he doesn't even play with it, he treats you more like a housemaid. It's not you, he may be having problems. Do you like the way he fucks you? Does he cum too quickly? Is he blaming you for his poor performance? He's young I can't think of what problems he's having.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): Have you actually talked to him about this, there are two sides to everything so its important you both talk and to hear each other out. Both agree that it will be calm, non-judgemental and you agree to hear each other out with no interruptions or arguments. Your boyfriend might be embarassed that you know he watches porn or something might be upsetting him, you never know? Does he know how your feeling? people arent psycic the only way to get your views across is to say something.
What do you mean he treats you like a toy?
I suggest if have tried talking to each other without much sucess then theres no point staying with someone who makes you feel unhappy.
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