Is it harmful to shampoo your pubic hair during a menstrual cycle?
Q. My mom says not to shampoo my hairs on the first day of menstrual period. i asked her why and she just told me that shampooing hairs on the first day can disturb my menstrual cycle. is that really true? well i don't believe her, i need help. i ...
A. 7 March 2011: To maintain good health "downstairs" you should try to use something without fragrance, because scented soaps can cause a yeast infection. ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with being sexually conservative?!
Q. I felt strongly about the kind of misleading advice / negative overtones that are often present in the responses to people who've been sexually conservative (or abstinent) and are disturbed to find their SO (significant other) have not. They are ...
A. 7 March 2011: nothing's wrong with it, but you don't have to shove it down people's throats either. :)
and what's more.
maybe some people just don't like the possibility of never knowing what it's like to be with other partners. who knows?... (read in full...)
Do I take up with my ex again?
Q. what is this? I have an X? He become my X 3 years ago, after we having irreconcilable differences. He was cheating on me, drinking and partying hard. we loved each other so much So i let him go, even when i still love him i cried my self to s...
A. 7 March 2011: You can give it a shot if you truly want to. Sometimes relationships with exes go far.
But if you do so, remember to take it day by day. Remember he is an ex for a reason and he did cheat on you.
I'm sure most people would say find someone new... (read in full...)
Am I a beauty or a beast?
Q. Hey i could really use some help as i am rather confused. I am 14 years old and i have had alot of problems in the past with my looks, i have always been really consoiuse about my weight and i have always been convinced i am real ugly. ...
A. 7 March 2011: Kids are mean. You probably are beautiful. And you seem very sweet. Growing up, I had the same problem. You live in a town full of people you've known since kindergarten, when you're at your worst, and also when you're at your best. God knows I ... (read in full...)
Getting pregnant without sex?
Q. Neither me or my boyfriend have ever had sex before, but we do other things together. I was just wondering how low/high the chances are of getting pregnant if he doesn't ejaculate near my vagina, but his penis touches it and rubs against it while ...
A. 7 March 2011: Yes you can get pregnant. I don't think anyone here is able to really gauge whether the chances are high or low. But if he gets aroused, the preejaculate can get you pregnant. And sperm can live inside you for seven days. If it only takes a drop of ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to go straight?
Q. Hi, I'm a 15 year-old homosexual. I was wondering, is there a way to be straight? Or could I be going through some strange phase? if I can't be straight, what's the best way to come out? Just say "I'm gay" out of the blue or start a conversa...
A. 7 March 2011: Some people would argue that you can by using religion or what have you to suppress those feelings, but why bother? It would just make you unhappy in the end trying to love someone you're not hardwired to show romantic interest in. I say embrace it. ... (read in full...)
Can someone contract STDs or mouth infection through oral sex?
Q. Hi I have never tried any form of oral sex. I have a fantasy about it but i'm scared i might get any form of STD or infection of the mouth. Is it possible to contract the above mentioned diseases through oral sex? Also should i ignore the natur...
A. 7 March 2011: Yes. You can contract stds of the mouth from oral sex, like a yeast infection in your mouth or herpes :) and as a female, i'd say its probably more polite to "ignore" the smell than perhaps saying "wow you smell nasty" haha. Mouthwash would probably ... (read in full...)
Is it impossible to think I might be able to marry a virgin or at least a very inexperienced girl?
Q. Is marrying a non promiscuous girl a rarity in todays world. I am a virgin man looking to marry a virgin or someone with very little sexual experiences. Is there a possibility that this may happen or should I not care about this....
A. 7 March 2011: I understand the religious and moral weight of being a virgin. And yes, they do exist, I'm sure you could attend some sort of religious social group or religious dating site for assistance.
But remember that the aspects of someone's personal... (read in full...)
I'm 31, have 2 children, and I'm divorced. I know I'm a lesbian, but how do I convince others this is who I am?
Q. Please help me... I am 31. I have 2 older children, and was married to their dad for 10 yrs. Ok this is where it gets complicated... I always wondered why I seemed as a 9, 10, 11, 12 and 13yr old that I had thoughts about other girls, I even went as ...
A. 4 March 2011: I have the same problem. I'm thinking of actually making a nametag. It'll say "hello I'm Jasmine, feel free to lift your skirt." Haha no really. Kind of interested in figuring that out myself. The gay bar scene isn't really my thing.... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend of 2 years was having a long distance relationship! Should I forgive him?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and I just found out today that he's had a long distant relationship with another woman for the last year, so I wrote him an email to end our relationship. I found out by making a fake profile on a social ...
A. 4 March 2011: Screw that.
Okay no, to be fair, i'd confront him about it. If he doesn't show remorse, then tell him off, cuz it's still cheating and emotionally painful. If he doesn't feel bad (which if it went on that long, he probably doesn't), tell that bast... (read in full...)
Moved in with him, together a year, he wants a break, have nowhere to go to give him space, don't want to lose him?
Q. my boyfriend and i will be celebrating our one year anniversary in about a week, maybe. basically i'm from mass, he's from nh, we met through a mutual friend i met in college last winter. we started dating months after little sleepovers, parties,...
A. 4 March 2011: Update:
Thanks for everything. We're not together. I'm with the friend now hahaha. And my ex still txts me for booty calls all the time. Even though I wanted to for awhile, I didn't. Gotta maintain my dignity, sucks for him. Oh well. :)... (read in full...)
I exercise and do sports constantly but can't seem to lose weight!
Q. Hi, Aunties! I'm in a great relationship with one of the best guys in the world. I'm beyond lucky to have him, and I love him very much. At only 16, I know that I'm going to be told I know nothing of love... And that's probably true, but I'm very...
A. 11 March 2010: sounds to me that you're doing everything right.
and you cant really ask that much of your body when you're doing everything right.
you really just need to make yourself happy before you can make him happy. and obviously if he thinks theres nothing ... (read in full...)
Ok, does he fancy me? Are we going out? Actually... whats going on?
Q. OK here goes, I really like this guy and introduced myself to him, a foreign exchange student. We started talking a lot in outside his classes or the library and after one amazing conversation, we exchanged number. I initiated that. The first week ...
A. 6 March 2010: that definitely doesnt sound like friendship to me.
if it is, i kinda want a friend like that haha.... (read in full...)
What does she have that I dont? why her and not me?
Q. Hi everyone! Am a bit down at the mo as I happened to see my ex with his new girlfriend. How do I get over this? He left me without closure, told me throughout the relationship that he didnt love me, yet he's on social networking sites (so I'm told) ...
A. 6 March 2010: maybe because you let him walk all over you.
guys like confidence and independence in their women.
sometimes a girl that can say "well, screw you then" to a guy thats being unfair is the sexiest girl there is.
guys like a challenge just as much as ... (read in full...)
Moved in with him, together a year, he wants a break, have nowhere to go to give him space, don't want to lose him?
Q. my boyfriend and i will be celebrating our one year anniversary in about a week, maybe. basically i'm from mass, he's from nh, we met through a mutual friend i met in college last winter. we started dating months after little sleepovers, parties,...
A. 6 March 2010: hes being a jealous ass. i know anyone logical is going to tell me i should leave him. but i love him with all my heart. ... (read in full...)
Moved in with him, together a year, he wants a break, have nowhere to go to give him space, don't want to lose him?
Q. my boyfriend and i will be celebrating our one year anniversary in about a week, maybe. basically i'm from mass, he's from nh, we met through a mutual friend i met in college last winter. we started dating months after little sleepovers, parties,...
A. 5 March 2010: he didnt come home last night :( and i didnt get into the house til midnight for bed. lame.
i need money. i wish i could be a sperm donor. lmao.... (read in full...)
How do I go about having sex with my cousin?
Q. ok so im 14 almost 15 and so is my cousin only she turns 15 a few months before me. ever since we were about 6 weve played sexual games like "show me urs ill show u mine" and doctor and we also watch porn together almost everytime we see each other. ...
A. 4 March 2010: there are 9 billion people in the world, there is no reason to bang your family.... (read in full...)
Moved in with him, together a year, he wants a break, have nowhere to go to give him space, don't want to lose him?
Q. my boyfriend and i will be celebrating our one year anniversary in about a week, maybe. basically i'm from mass, he's from nh, we met through a mutual friend i met in college last winter. we started dating months after little sleepovers, parties,...
A. 4 March 2010: good plan. i'm trying to stay away from talking too deeply about it to make the occasionally inevitable times we talk too pressured, despite the fact im confused and falling apart inside haha. im also working on feeling and looking more confident ... (read in full...)
It's getting that I'm scared to have sex in case I hurt them...
Q. I was seeing this girl that I really liked. We tried to have sex one night and it just didn't work. I just couldn't get aroused. I had been seeing her for only a couple of months and it wasn't really such a serious relationship but I really liked ...
A. 4 March 2010: male virgins to my friends and i are a rare commodity but a precious one. a girl that has the blessing of being with a male virgin is a lucky one. haha. personally i know many girls who prefer virgins because they're more involved in the emotional ... (read in full...)
Does he want me back or does he just want sex?
Q. 2 days ago me and my ex (who lives 200 miles away) spent 4 hours on the phone chatting and I brought up the fact I want him back but he told me he had a gf. He told me he loved me but don't want to break this girls heart because he be no better than ...
A. 4 March 2010: he wants sex. be honest with yourself, why else would he send you that picture?... (read in full...)
Moved in with him, together a year, he wants a break, have nowhere to go to give him space, don't want to lose him?
Q. my boyfriend and i will be celebrating our one year anniversary in about a week, maybe. basically i'm from mass, he's from nh, we met through a mutual friend i met in college last winter. we started dating months after little sleepovers, parties,...
A. 4 March 2010: that is good advice. i'm kind of trying to make the best of everything but and figure out who i am, because part of me thinks the spark was lost when we became more of a unit over us becoming better adults who happen to be in love.
weirdest thing ... (read in full...)
Moved in with him, together a year, he wants a break, have nowhere to go to give him space, don't want to lose him?
Q. my boyfriend and i will be celebrating our one year anniversary in about a week, maybe. basically i'm from mass, he's from nh, we met through a mutual friend i met in college last winter. we started dating months after little sleepovers, parties,...
A. 4 March 2010: update: tonight he said i was "welcome to watch a movie with him" and said not sleeping in our bed was my choice. during the movie i was texting our mutual guy friend and he actually appeared jealous and kept making comments. he actually said "you ... (read in full...)
Will the first time really hurt?
Q. I am thirteen and have been in a great relationship sence i was nine. With the same guy. I am completely ready for sex. no one can say its puppy love because it is not. not even close he means a lot to me and no one ever made me feel that good. and ...
A. 4 March 2010: I'm only a few years older than you. 19. but i can tell you, you should wait. men generally do not respect women who give it up without much foresight outside of "will it hurt" - sex is life changing. i lost my virginity at 17 to a man i loved, and ... (read in full...)
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