Wait for sex?
Q. What does it mean if a guy (whose a close friend) says he will "wait" as long as I want for sex? Do you think that he cares more about "just sex" and he actually has feelings/and cares about me?... or does he just want sex only? :S I'm still...
A. 18 March 2009: if its been going on for a year hed have to be after more than sex, not many grown men want to wait that long.... (read in full...)
My fiance is wonderful, but we don't have the same connection that my ex and I had. What should I do?
Q. i am 19 and i am enagaged i love my fiance but i find myself always making up excuses to not get physical. is like i am not sexually attracted to him as i was with my ex. i feel like i stil love my ex i think about him and i miss him. my fiance is a ...
A. 3 March 2009: First of all I am very sorry about all of this .. but in this case its probably better to let him go. if you are already having these doubts you will probably end up cheating or always wondering what if later on. Break it off before you get married. ... (read in full...)
I feellike an idiot! Why cant he say something?
Q. My ex and I were together for several months on and off. It gets complicated but basically he didnt want to be tied down in a relationship so he broke up with me. He insisted that we remain friends because he didnt want to lose me and we hung out a ...
A. 3 March 2009: Hes not worth it. Don't even waste your time reading into these things.... (read in full...)
First time sex, the pain was an agony and it hurts when I urinate, is it normal?
Q. I lost my virginity last night, i barely bled but i was so tense the pain was agony! we did it twice, without a condom but he withdrew before he came. Im sore now and it really really burns to wee, its awful! is this normal and will it always hurt ...
A. 23 February 2009: make sure to drink plenty of fluids next time, pee before hand and directly after. Cranberry supplements also help prevent them. ... (read in full...)
He bought me a couch at our second date!...
Q. So i just broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago. I met a guy online shortly after and we met one time and he seemed great. Said hes new to the area but we didnt do anything - no kiss or anything we agreed that we'd, if anything, be friends. he ...
A. 23 February 2009: we were going to look at furniture cause he was buying stuff for his place. said he got a good deal for them to add in an extra piece.
its sad because other than that things have been going great it just seems like a red flag.... (read in full...)
He bought me a couch at our second date!...
Q. So i just broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago. I met a guy online shortly after and we met one time and he seemed great. Said hes new to the area but we didnt do anything - no kiss or anything we agreed that we'd, if anything, be friends. he ...
A. 23 February 2009: I had mentioned that I was in the market for a couch yeah so not totally random. But I mean i definitly wasnt hinting!... (read in full...)
First time sex, the pain was an agony and it hurts when I urinate, is it normal?
Q. I lost my virginity last night, i barely bled but i was so tense the pain was agony! we did it twice, without a condom but he withdrew before he came. Im sore now and it really really burns to wee, its awful! is this normal and will it always hurt ...
A. 23 February 2009: Congrats you've got a UTI. haha, happened to me the first time too head on over to an OBGYN and they can give you some medication to take care of it. But don't wait cause those things get bad quickly.... (read in full...)
There is no physical attraction for me on my part.
Q. I'm with a really kind lovely guy but there's just no physical attraction on my part. We've had sex about 3/4 times and it's just completely boring for me! I do usually enjoy sex but it's more like just having sex for the sake of it or to keep him ...
A. 14 February 2009: Yeah, I used to feel the same way about my guy. I think there is such thing as having no chemistry with someone. But is having all of that other stuff worth having no chemistry? Thats a question you have to ask yourself.... (read in full...)
Where's the love when I have the flu? After two years he "hasn't decided" how he feels about me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years. We lived together at one time but he asked me to move out because he was too stressed out and claimed he didnt love me anymore. Well a few months later, like a sucker, I went back to him beca...
A. 14 February 2009: For Valentine's day I'm feeling quite a lot better. Im fighting off a cough and trying to get my appettite back. He dropped off some roses and went on to play video games at a friends house. ... (read in full...)
Is he covering it with his anger?
Q. My ex boyfriend dumped me 6 months ago, but he keeps wanting us to be friends. Even though we fight all the time. He's now in a rebound relationship with a woman trying to get out of a bad marriage. He's angry at me because I have a hard time ...
A. 14 February 2009: First of all I dont think you should really be "friends" with your ex so soon after the breakup - maybe years down the road or something but that's ridiculous. Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. He's tryin to make you jealous.... (read in full...)
He's just confessed to me he's 29... I'm 18, what should I do?
Q. I'm 18 years old and I fell inlove with an 29 year old man... what's really crazy is that he was an undercover cop. I met him at the hospital in the waiting room, he told me he was 17 years old in high school. I believed him because he does look ...
A. 14 February 2009: Yeah. Age is the least of your problems there. You got proof he is an undercover cop? That whole thing sounds suspicious. Please be careful.... (read in full...)
Where's the love when I have the flu? After two years he "hasn't decided" how he feels about me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years. We lived together at one time but he asked me to move out because he was too stressed out and claimed he didnt love me anymore. Well a few months later, like a sucker, I went back to him beca...
A. 14 February 2009: Thanks for everyone that has posted advice. I guess i expect more out of him because there were times during this flu that I thought seriously about going to the hospital, and I did get scared living here by myself... being by myself... I did end up ... (read in full...)
Cheated on for the fourth time- what I am doing wrong?
Q. I'm single again for the first time in a long time and I'm not quite sure of myself. I've been in a grand total of 3 relationships and they've all ended badly. I'm not sure what it is that I'm doing wrong here I mean I could swear that everytime I ...
A. 12 February 2009: Nothing wrong with you. It's something thats wrong with the guys that you are picking.... (read in full...)
I got mad when I saw him hugging another girl- am I in the wrong?
Q. ok im not sure if im in the wrong or not about my situation so here it is me and my boyfriend agreed to not hug anymore people of the opposite sex so today when i was in school i turned around and he was hugging another girl and i dont know but when ...
A. 12 February 2009: Do you hug people? If so, I'd say that you are being unreasonable. As long as it wasnt an "extra-friendly" hug... don't worry about it.... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and do not want children. Do I abort it or put it up for adoption?
Q. My birthday was two days ago, and for my present I found out that I am pregnant. For many people this would be fabulous news! And I really do want children, however due to finances, we really cannot afford to have a baby just yet. We were using ...
A. 12 February 2009: adoption.... (read in full...)
Where's the love when I have the flu? After two years he "hasn't decided" how he feels about me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years. We lived together at one time but he asked me to move out because he was too stressed out and claimed he didnt love me anymore. Well a few months later, like a sucker, I went back to him beca...
A. 12 February 2009: Sry, forgot to ask the question - Shouldnt a long term boyfriend want to take care of me? I mean friends can bring you powerade is it wrong for me to expect more from him?... (read in full...)
I feel so unappreciated by my husband...
Q. My husband and I have been married for six years and have two children together (6 with adhd and 2), however most of the time I feel like I am a single mother. He never does anything but sleep. He'll stay up until five o' clock in the morning ...
A. 12 February 2009: Geez I hate the video games. Sound to me like you just have an extra large child on your hands. Men are lazy. I'd probably show him the door. Or at least give him an ultimatum.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend looks at porn all the time- he even asks me to leave so he can look! Any advice?
Q. Hello. My boyfriend is a porn fanatic. He looks at it whenever he gets the chance, even with me around. He asks me to leave. We have sex regularly, at the very least once a day if not (usually) a lot more. I dont have a problem with him looking at ...
A. 12 February 2009: shouldnt ask you to leave. Try watching it together it could be fun. :) If it really is an obsession for him I would say that is a problem.... (read in full...)
Am I sick? Or pregnant?
Q. I am afraid that we are doing some thing wrong. I graduated last year and my boyfriend and I are having sex, but I am not comfortable with him. We are both in collage and do it almost every nite. The last 4 times are unprotected and it felt wierd ...
A. 12 February 2009: yeah, sorry thats just crazy you can get pregnant at any time. go to walmart, pregnancy tests are like $5.... (read in full...)
1st time--which position is best?
Q. I have a question.When losing your virginity,is it better for the female to be on top or the male ?.Bearing in mind, we are both virgins.Any other tips would be great too.I've thought of us having the light off and just having candle light,and ...
A. 12 February 2009: They say its best if you are on top and I tend to agree. You can take it your own pace and usually it feels better.... (read in full...)
Three's a crowd
Q. I have been 'shacking up' with my boyfriend for the past 6 months and for the most part things have been going well. Except one major thing. He loves to have his friends over, and it has gotten worse since they have all now recently graduated. ...
A. 10 June 2008: Now he is saying that he is too stressed at work to deal with my problems and that I should "do my own thing" for a while cause he can't take anymore stress. that is not the way relationships worked last time I checked. ... (read in full...)
We split up for a month and are trying again. Problem is he slept with another girl during the split!
Q. hiya, ive been with danny for over 2 years, we have had a real bad time but always comme through. the last couple of months we were arguing alot and then we split up for a month. last week we bumped into each other and on a good note decided to give ...
A. 10 June 2008: He should have told you for your own safety I think. Was it safe sex? Condoms aren't even 100% effective. Just on that basis alone a little knowledge would have beeh the responsible thing to do. ... (read in full...)
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