My possesive ex is threatening to kill himself but i really dont want to be with him. Please help!!1
Q. Hi. I am quite scared as this has never happened to me before. I went out with a guy. It was more a rebound from my ex of 3 years. WE were together about 2/3 months and I realised I still liked my ex and also that this guy was very possesiv...
A. 28 March 2006: I would definately go to the police still and report him because it doesnt look like he is going to leave you alone that easily so its best to stop it now. But dont listen to his threats if he was going to kill himself he wouldnt threaten it he ... (read in full...)
Can't get over my girlfriend's one night stands!
Q. Hi, I have been with my girlfriend now for close to 3 years and we have a lovely 13 month old daughter, we also love each other very much. however i have got a problem with her past, before we met she had an affair with a married man and 2 on...
A. 23 December 2005: Forget her past for a start because it has nothing to do with you! Why would you want to cause trouble in your relationship for no reason. You have a daughter to think about. You obviously have a good relatioship other then this so stop putting your ... (read in full...)
He doesn't trust me...should I move on?
Q. My current boyfriend does not trust me, i have doen nothing to cause this distrust, he sectretly checks my phone for text messages or calls that i have both recieved and made to male friends, yesterday he asked to use my phone and secretly erased a ...
A. 23 December 2005: If your not doing anything to cause the distrust then the problem lies with him and not with you and no matter what you do or say to him this isnt going to get any better for you chick. If you really think this is worth fighting for then you could ... (read in full...)
Are there any differences that come along with dating a black guy?
Q. Are there any major differences between a spanish female and a black male who date? I'm dating a black guy right now and he is very sweet, but are there any differences that come along with dating a black guy? I've only dated an egyptian guy and ...
A. 22 December 2005: There are differences with every different guy you date! Instead of looking at the colour why not concentrate on the fact you actually like him and see where it goes!... (read in full...)
Does this guy like me? If so, why hasn't he made a move?
Q. I wanted to ask if it sounds like this guy I'm friends with has feelings for me. These are all the things he done to me so far: 1.When I wore sandals he started touching my toes and told me I had nice feet 2.When I told him I was getting my lon...
A. 1 November 2005: It definately sounds like he like you but maybe hes too shy or to scared to do anything because hes unsure how you feel about him! If you like him too then id say arrange a night out together, flirt abit and see where it ends up. Lifes to short ... (read in full...)
Was she telling the truth about no longer enjoying sex?
Q. Hello, I have been in a relationship with my partner for nearly 2 years. We have overcome a lot to get to where we are today, but as of late we have been arguing about everything and anything and last night during a heated row my partner said to me ...
A. 7 October 2005: It sounds like your partner is feeling very low at the moment and is taking it out on you. Her lack of desire for sex is probably linked to how she feels about herself. Try sitting her down and having a proper talk without the shouting and maybe you ... (read in full...)
When I'm alone is when I miss my ex the most... but I want to get over him!
Q. I have just broken up with my boyfriend and even though we weren't happy together I am finding it hard to get over him. I don't want him to get with anyone else even though I know we dont get on. Does anyone have any good tips on how I can get ...
A. 30 September 2005: From my past experiences there isnt really an easy solution to get over an ex, but what does help is your friends.When i was in your position my friends helped me alot by coming round so i wasnt on my own all the time, i was out pretty much every ... (read in full...)
Would it be OK to date my ex-husband's cousin?
Q. I am a recently divorced. My question is, is it OK for me to date my ex husband's cousin? He and I have been really good friends for 4 years and we want to take it to the next level. What are your thoughts on this and how should we go about go...
A. 30 September 2005: If he makes you happy then go for it. We only have one life and if we spend it worrying what other people think then everyone would be miserable. People always want something to gossip about and probably will talk about you for a few days but then ... (read in full...)
I've realised that I don't fancy him, but I have to tell him somehow...
Q. Hey I have a bf and we have been going out for a few days, and I've decided I don't fancy him... We were friends before, and he was flirting with me ever since.. I really like the attention, but now we are going out, he won't leave me alone!! ...
A. 30 September 2005: You need to tell him otherwise you will ruin any friendship you ever had cause you'll just be thinking about all the things that annoyed you about him. You dont need to be harsh just say that you prefered being friends with him and would like to go ... (read in full...)
The fact that my lady friend is being stalked by a workmate makes her hesitant to consider a relationship with me...
Q. I just met the girl of my dreams but she just got out of a very bad relationship and the guy keeps stalking her. They both work for the same company. She came to visit me in Key West durning the Poker Run last month. Then a hurricane came thru, Ka...
A. 30 September 2005: the best thing for you to at the moment is to be her friend, she is obviously going through alot with this other man, and probably feels like it would be unfair to get involved with you while all this other stuff is going on. Let her know that your ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling overworked and underappreciated... and I exploded about it...
Q. My husband and I have been constantly arguing, since he hasn't worked a steady job in over 6 months, and really doesn't seem to want to work. My son (15) and his daughter (16) both live with us, I work 7 days a week overnights. I get no help around ...
A. 28 September 2005: U need to sit down and talk properly to your husbend, set aside some time where you wont be interrupted, let each other have your say without raising voices. It certainly isnt fair that you do everything in the house and this needs to be sorted now! ... (read in full...)
The breaking-up with me was bad enough... but the sick lie made it worse!
Q. G'day Several months ago my then girlfriend told me her younger brother was dying from recently diagnosed terminal brain cancer. Over the next four weeks i was unable to see her as he was being treated, but spoke to her and her family weekly on...
A. 21 September 2005: Please dont waste your time feeling upset about this, infact feel sorry for her and her family for having nothing better to do then make up such a sick lie. Be thankful your out of the situation because you deserve better! Dont give her the time of ... (read in full...)
We're taking time apart and now she wants to meet up again. Is she going to drop a bomb?
Q. Hi, Please, help! My girlfriend and I are on a break. It's been 8 weeks, but this is OK since I did the same a few years ago. I know she loves me, but she said at last conversation "I'm afraid if we get back together it'll be great and someth...
A. 21 September 2005: shes obviously been thinking about you to invite you out, i say just go with the flow, dont get your hopes up, but enjoy each others company, catch up. See if there is still a spark and go from there! Goodluck chick!... (read in full...)
My married guy says he's "not strong enough" to leave his wife...
Q. I met a guy several months ago and he is married. Recently we started seeing each other as a bit of fun. Neither of use expected it but we ended up falling for each other. He said that he would leave his wife to be with me but when it came to it he...
A. 14 September 2005: Its not really an ideal situation to be in but things do happen and you can't help who you fall for, but it sounds like to me that this is just an excuse to leave his wife, i'm not doubting that he has feelings for you but I think deep down his ... (read in full...)
My girl didn't seem to care about me, until there was a chance I'd go out with someone else!
Q. I was recently seeing a girl for about 2 months. I went on holiday and when I came back she seemed different. After a lot of chasing on my part she said she didn't want to be with me. This was about a month ago now but the other weekend she found ...
A. 14 September 2005: Take it from me ive been that girl many years ago, things always look more attractive when you cant have them. Its all a game and best just leaving her to it. Dont ruin your chances with this other girl for someone who cant make up her mind!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend prefers to stay up with porn than bed me. Am I too idealistic?
Q. I moved in with my boyfriend 6 months ago. So, maybe i'm too idealistic, but our pattern has gotten me down. I go to bed, he stays up and masturbates to porn on my computer, thinks he erases it from the history, (but isn't as computer literate as ...
A. 13 September 2005: No not at all but I think you have both got yourself in a rut, and you need to communicate with each other before it gets any worse, it might be that he feels he cant communicate with you about his sexual needs, try having a chat with him about it.... (read in full...)
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