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writes: I was recently seeing a girl for about 2 months. I went on holiday and when I came back she seemed different. After a lot of chasing on my part she said she didn't want to be with me. This was about a month ago now but the other weekend she found out that something might happen between me and this other girl. She has since contacted me, not really giving much away as to why. I also saw her out and she seemed weird around me. Do you think she is still interested? I know she is seeing someone else, and if so should I pursue it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): I have just been through this with a girl. She will just destroy you!! its hard to do but swear her off.
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reader, pops +, writes (14 September 2005):
Stay away from this girl. Consider yourself lucky to have escaped. She is either mean, or crazy or both. Ignore her, and date other girls. If she is envious, that is her problem. She had her chance with you, and she pushed you away. If you have anything to do with her again, you only invite yourself to a long time of bizarre behavior, and your personal unhappiness. You are too young to have to go through this. And why would you want to? Stop referring to her as MY Girl ! She never was, and she isn't now. MOVE ON.
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reader, jaime +, writes (14 September 2005):
Its obvios she still has some feeling for you, because she doesnt want you to be with anyone else. But if i was you i would move on, maybe hard but its the right thing to do. But you will have to find out if she realy is seeing somone else. But i think you will be happy and much less confused if she find somone else. Good luck xxx
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reader, LEXI8580 +, writes (14 September 2005):
Take it from me ive been that girl many years ago, things always look more attractive when you cant have them. Its all a game and best just leaving her to it. Dont ruin your chances with this other girl for someone who cant make up her mind!
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reader, missdee +, writes (14 September 2005):
No do not pursue. She is using the "I don't want you but I don't want anyone else to have you" and that's wrong. If you pursue this girl she will only serve to destroy what you could have had with this other girl then she will be done with you again. Most likely she will be able to keep her boyfriend while she does all this. Girls can be bad. Gotta watch for the gameplayers and she is one. Look on or give somebody else a shot. This girl isn't worth the trouble she will be.
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