I'm confused about who I want to be with... one is my husband and the other guy is an old friend with whom I had an affair...
Q. First let me give you some history. I have known X since I was 5 yrs old our families were close and all of us kids grew up together there was 8 of us I was the only girl.We were all about the same age give or take a few yrs.I had a crush on X from ...
A. 16 August 2008: Affairs have little or nothing to do with Love,as I see it.And Affairs are nothing more than a physical,real-life fantasy. A kind of mental Porn to stimulate one's sexuality. But like a puff of smoke, it won't be there for you in the long-haul. So ... (read in full...)
I feel pressured by my boyfriend to take my clothes off in front of him.
Q. I feel pressured by my boyfriend to take my clothes off in front of him. I am shy and i lack self confidence. I have never gone naked if front of a man. I like to be partly covered when he is making love to me also...just my belly cause its not ...
A. 29 February 2008: When a man buys a car you can be sure that he see every single line of the car's body. Well and good, We don't want any scratchs on it when it's new. However a woman's body,for most of us men,isn't like a new car. We become sexually turned on ,and ... (read in full...)
On A Search For Either Escorts Or Massage Parlours Any Advice Welcome.
Q. Hi All I have never had a girlfriend or sex and I am in my 20's, I am fed up waiting for the right female to come along as I know it will probably never happen so I have decided to look for sex either in a massage parlour or hire an escort as I n...
A. 29 February 2008: Just go to the Yellow Pages of any Phone book and you won't have a problem getting AIDS. ... (read in full...)
Is my mother sleeping with my boyfriend?
Q. I’m a little confused. I have been dating this wonderful guy (Greg) for 9 months now. He is 21 I’m 20. I live with my mother and my younger sister ( our father left when we were little – so it’s just us girls). My mother loves my boyfriend to bits ...
A. 29 February 2008: Forget asking your mother if there is anything going on between her and your B/F. Mothers lie,so do fathers. Take the time to find out what ,if anything,is going on in your household. You have the right to know before you get deeper involved in the ... (read in full...)
My girl is very loose, but I like it that way, problem is I cant stay hard, help!
Q. hello everyone, I have a unique problem I believe. Let me say first I love my girlfriend and want to spend the rest of my life with her. We have been going out for about 3 years now, and things are really serious, marriage is on the horizon. My...
A. 26 February 2008: To be brief: Sex isn't about dicks or pussies, it about wanting to be with the other person,Yes, Regardless of gender preferences.There are lots of men/women who share their bodies sexually. B Don't rush out and wave your sexuality aroundut there is ... (read in full...)
Should I call it quits or try to work it out?
Q. I haven't talked to my boyfriend since Friday. He's mad at me but I don't know why. Everything was fine on Friday then all of a sudden he's mad. He always does this and it frustrates me so much and he never tells me why he's mad. He just goes on ...
A. 26 February 2008: When I was younger,
Back in time.
It was me, me, me,
Not your's and mine.
I ruled the roost,
She had little say.
A man can be blind,
Then wonder why she went away.
Now is the time to speak your mind,
So even a Jackass can understan... (read in full...)
I have just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years kissed a guy before we met and I don't know how to take this...
Q. I have just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years kissed a guy before we met but I have just discovered that he is on a swingers site and his profile is very detailed about him wanting a threesome and he wants to be in the middle. It also said he's ...
A. 26 February 2008: If he kissed a guy before you two met and didn't turn into a frog, Gee! You are lucky. As for a threesome,it makes for a sick relationship before marriage and as a rule will end it PDQ. Perhaps he is watching too much Porn.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much?
Q. Well my boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much? ...
A. 26 February 2008: Sexual pleasure, It's about his, not your's. And he is an insensitive Fool that I wouldn't give the time of day. Get out of that relationship,as there are lot of men who know how to love a woman.... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to start paying attention to me,instead of masturbating to porn?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 8 years and lately I feel that he doesn't think that I am attractive. He is always looking at pictures of naked girls online. He admits that he likes masturbating to these pictures even though usually I am ...
A. 26 February 2008: Porn can be a valuable tool in the heightening of the male's sexual response,especially when a man gets up in years. However there is quite a distinction in it's addiction,and being used as fall-out to enhance two people's sexual quality in their ... (read in full...)
For guys, if you slept with a girl while drunk, would it put you off? he's not answering my text!
Q. This isn't actually a question as such but am needing some advice possibly from a male perspective. Theres a guy that lives in the flat below and we know each other pretty well, we've been flirting a lot reacently. Last Saturday night I saw him when ...
A. 26 February 2008: Well Sweetheart: A lot of us men have sex without any commitment in mind. You see we can separate lust from love more readily than a woman can. So perhaps, You were just used in this case. And being drunk makes for a lousy sexual togetherness. You ... (read in full...)
For guys, if you slept with a girl while drunk, would it put you off? he's not answering my text!
Q. This isn't actually a question as such but am needing some advice possibly from a male perspective. Theres a guy that lives in the flat below and we know each other pretty well, we've been flirting a lot reacently. Last Saturday night I saw him when ...
A. 26 February 2008: Well Sweetheart: A lot of us men have sex without any commitment in mind. You see we can separate lust from love more readily than a woman can. So perhaps, You were just used in this case. And being drunk makes for a lousy sexual togetherness. You ... (read in full...)
For guys, if you slept with a girl while drunk, would it put you off? he's not answering my text!
Q. This isn't actually a question as such but am needing some advice possibly from a male perspective. Theres a guy that lives in the flat below and we know each other pretty well, we've been flirting a lot reacently. Last Saturday night I saw him when ...
A. 26 February 2008: Well Sweetheart: A lot of us men have sex without any commitment in mind. You see we can separate lust from love more readily than a woman can. So perhaps, You were just used in this case. And being drunk makes for a lousy sexual togetherness. You ... (read in full...)
The irony is my mistress has finally managed to leave her husband, but I have remarried.
Q. I was married to a clinically depressed woman for 12 years. The depression killed her sex drive to the point of being almost non-existent for the last half of the marriage. Eventually, I turned to the affections of another woman. She was in an ...
A. 26 February 2008: My! My! You folks came down pretty hard on this Fool,but do keep in mind that life is about learning better ways of relating others. Ha! You have never been a Fool? Well If your answer is "No", I don't buy that crap either, and there were lots of ... (read in full...)
The irony is my mistress has finally managed to leave her husband, but I have remarried.
Q. I was married to a clinically depressed woman for 12 years. The depression killed her sex drive to the point of being almost non-existent for the last half of the marriage. Eventually, I turned to the affections of another woman. She was in an ...
A. 26 February 2008: My! My! You folks came down pretty hard on this Fool,but do keep in mind that life is about learning better ways of relating others. Ha! You have never been a Fool? Well If your answer is "No", I don't buy that crap either, and there were lots of ... (read in full...)
The irony is my mistress has finally managed to leave her husband, but I have remarried.
Q. I was married to a clinically depressed woman for 12 years. The depression killed her sex drive to the point of being almost non-existent for the last half of the marriage. Eventually, I turned to the affections of another woman. She was in an ...
A. 26 February 2008: My! My! You folks came down pretty hard on this Fool,but do keep in mind that life is about learning better ways of relating others. Ha! You have never been a Fool? Well If your answer is "No", I don't buy that crap either, and there were lots of ... (read in full...)
The irony is my mistress has finally managed to leave her husband, but I have remarried.
Q. I was married to a clinically depressed woman for 12 years. The depression killed her sex drive to the point of being almost non-existent for the last half of the marriage. Eventually, I turned to the affections of another woman. She was in an ...
A. 25 February 2008: One of the best books that I have come across in years,and that can not only help you to understand your own sexuality,but also a woman's. Please read: "The Healing Power of Sex". By JUDITH SACHS. You won't be waisting your time.I can assure you oh ... (read in full...)
What are the benefits of marriage?
Q. In the week when Paul McCartney and Heather Mills agree monetary settlement, the question of fairness and behaviour arises. What are the benefits of marriage, if any? Isn't it just an unfair contract where if one party breaks the terms, the other ...
A. 24 February 2008: Marriage is one moment of madness,Where two stranger marry each other. It makes no difference how long they have been going together,they still are stranger,in most cases, all of their married life. And If the marriage for this reason or that ... (read in full...)
What are the benefits of marriage?
Q. In the week when Paul McCartney and Heather Mills agree monetary settlement, the question of fairness and behaviour arises. What are the benefits of marriage, if any? Isn't it just an unfair contract where if one party breaks the terms, the other ...
A. 24 February 2008: Marriage is one moment of madness,Where two stranger marry each other. It makes no difference how long they have been going together,they still are stranger,in most cases, all of their married life. And If the marriage for this reason or that ... (read in full...)
How do I politely deny their invitation to go on a date?
Q. I regularly work in the evenings at my parent's family business. Of course, I get customers who are in their 20's, 30's, all ages. I'm 18, and some of the men have giving me their numbers,or myspace..or shown some sign of interest, such a...
A. 24 February 2008: Just tell them that they got no ticket to ride, as no doubt sex is foremost on their minds, Being a man and over the hill, and with one foot in the grave and the other foot on a banana-peeling, but I'm still far from dead sexually speaking. And ... (read in full...)
How do I politely deny their invitation to go on a date?
Q. I regularly work in the evenings at my parent's family business. Of course, I get customers who are in their 20's, 30's, all ages. I'm 18, and some of the men have giving me their numbers,or myspace..or shown some sign of interest, such a...
A. 24 February 2008: Just tell them that they got no ticket to ride, as no doubt sex is foremost on their minds, Being a man and over the hill, and with one foot in the grave and the other foot on a banana-peeling, but I'm still far from dead sexually speaking. And ... (read in full...)
How do I politely deny their invitation to go on a date?
Q. I regularly work in the evenings at my parent's family business. Of course, I get customers who are in their 20's, 30's, all ages. I'm 18, and some of the men have giving me their numbers,or myspace..or shown some sign of interest, such a...
A. 24 February 2008: Just tell them that they got no ticket to ride, as no doubt sex is foremost on their minds, Being a man and over the hill, and with one foot in the grave and the other foot on a banana-peeling, but I'm still far from dead sexually speaking. And ... (read in full...)
Embarassing to date a fat person?
Q. is it embarassing to date a fat guy? what do you think when you see a fat couple? give me your own honest opinion pls....
A. 24 February 2008: What do I think about fat people?? Well, Only a fool doesn't know that there is more to be loved if your Sweetheart is fat. And "No",It isn't over when the fat lady dances, She 's in love with herself as we all should be. And who in Hell! set you up ... (read in full...)
Embarassing to date a fat person?
Q. is it embarassing to date a fat guy? what do you think when you see a fat couple? give me your own honest opinion pls....
A. 24 February 2008: What do I think about fat people?? Well, Only a fool doesn't know that there is more to be loved if your Sweetheart is fat. And "No",It isn't over when the fat lady dances, She 's in love with herself as we all should be. And who in Hell! set you up ... (read in full...)
Is this a way of saying she needs time or are we actually breaking up for good?
Q. My girlfriend says she wants a break. She says her priorities are all messed up. This happened right after I told her that she doesn't show me affection. She thought she was hurting me and says she cant do that to me right now. She used the ...
A. 24 February 2008: Being the dumper or the dumpe is an ego trip either way, Where our ego overrides our common sense and keeps us hanging in there when we really should of moved on long ago. And It's kind of like throwing good money after bad, where nobody wins.... (read in full...)
Is this a way of saying she needs time or are we actually breaking up for good?
Q. My girlfriend says she wants a break. She says her priorities are all messed up. This happened right after I told her that she doesn't show me affection. She thought she was hurting me and says she cant do that to me right now. She used the ...
A. 24 February 2008: Being the dumper or the dumpe is an ego trip either way, Where our ego overrides our common sense and keeps us hanging in there when we really should of moved on long ago. And It's kind of like throwing good money after bad, where nobody wins.... (read in full...)
Dating a guy who is a father of a 1 month old. Should I break up with him?
Q. im in 13 and in high school and im dating this guy hes 18,but he has a 1 month old baby.people tell me to break up with him....i dont know what to do...
A. 24 February 2008: You got some great advice, and much better than I could of put it. But your much too young to take on the responsibilities within a relationship, much less the care of his child,or your own should something happen. Don't rush life just let it flow ... (read in full...)
Dating a guy who is a father of a 1 month old. Should I break up with him?
Q. im in 13 and in high school and im dating this guy hes 18,but he has a 1 month old baby.people tell me to break up with him....i dont know what to do...
A. 24 February 2008: You got some great advice, and much better than I could of put it. But your much too young to take on the responsibilities within a relationship, much less the care of his child,or your own should something happen. Don't rush life just let it flow ... (read in full...)
Unsure...
Q. Dear Cupid I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years, I love him dearly. He stays in my house every night except for every other weekend when he stays in his own house while his two step children from a previous relationship visit. He has t...
A. 24 February 2008: Tell you what I'll do there's this bridge called the Golden Gate, that I own, And I will sell it to you for only one dollar,now we know that is a bunch of bull,don't we? Well love without a commitment isn't love,it's called being sexually used. Now ... (read in full...)
Unsure...
Q. Dear Cupid I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years, I love him dearly. He stays in my house every night except for every other weekend when he stays in his own house while his two step children from a previous relationship visit. He has t...
A. 24 February 2008: Tell you what I'll do there's this bridge called the Golden Gate, that I own, And I will sell it to you for only one dollar,now we know that is a bunch of bull,don't we? Well love without a commitment isn't love,it's called being sexually used. Now ... (read in full...)
My wife has left and I'm so confused and scared, please help!
Q. My wife has suddenly decided we are over. She ahs been contacted by an old boyfriend from Jr. High. We have had intimacy problems ever since becoming serious in our relationship. She has had an abusive past and was really dumped on by her first ...
A. 24 February 2008: I don't think that either of you realize that neither of you can give happiness to each other. First off all our happiness must come from within one's self. Lets look at Masturbation as a good example. We don't do it just because it feels good, but ... (read in full...)
My wife has left and I'm so confused and scared, please help!
Q. My wife has suddenly decided we are over. She ahs been contacted by an old boyfriend from Jr. High. We have had intimacy problems ever since becoming serious in our relationship. She has had an abusive past and was really dumped on by her first ...
A. 24 February 2008: I don't think that either of you realize that neither of you can give happiness to each other. First off all our happiness must come from within one's self. Lets look at Masturbation as a good example. We don't do it just because it feels good, but ... (read in full...)
White stuff in sexual activities... help, is it normal?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend over a year and he's only the 2nd person I've slept with. We have a great sex life but my self confidence drops as sometimes when he fingers me there is white stuff on his fingers. It doesn't smell and it's not cum, ...
A. 23 February 2008: Please, Do a Google Search.
Type in your Search-Bar, "White Stuff Fingering".
Then when the Info. window comes-up.
Click, "Fingering and weird white secretions Medical Questions. Do hope that it's helpful to you.
... (read in full...)
My wife has left and I'm so confused and scared, please help!
Q. My wife has suddenly decided we are over. She ahs been contacted by an old boyfriend from Jr. High. We have had intimacy problems ever since becoming serious in our relationship. She has had an abusive past and was really dumped on by her first ...
A. 20 February 2008: Quite often we only get to see one side of what's going on in a relationship,but then there is always two sides that need to be addressed. So my advice is for the both of you,together, to seek professional help,what have you got to loose? Quite a ... (read in full...)
My wife has left and I'm so confused and scared, please help!
Q. My wife has suddenly decided we are over. She ahs been contacted by an old boyfriend from Jr. High. We have had intimacy problems ever since becoming serious in our relationship. She has had an abusive past and was really dumped on by her first ...
A. 18 February 2008: You don't really define what is going on in your relationship.There needs to be more Info for any advice in your case. Why don't to give us a more complete look at what is going on within your Relationship. There are lots of great folk on ... (read in full...)
I can't stand him looking at other girls! What do I do?
Q. I am married to a gorgeous guy much younger than me and we are basically very happy. I just need helpwith one thing...... he really stares at other women. I've talked to him about it and he reassures me how muchhe loves me and says he finds it ...
A. 18 February 2008: If he isn't looking at other women he's dead, that's what all of us men do, but then most of us men don't make it quite so obveus,that is if we have a brain in our heads.you might want to point out your justifiable dislike for his crass ... (read in full...)
I've got back with my husband and it meant moving to his country, But I'm not happy here. What do I do?
Q. Hi, please advise me, i have recently gone back to my marriage, which ment me moving to the country where my husband is from, i am here because of my husband and to save our marriage, as i believed that if i had not come over to him our marriage ...
A. 18 February 2008: I know what you are going through as i too live in another country,not my birth country. But unlike you I'm male and am loved,as only a woman can love her man. With us men togetherness is most cases is often more about our sexual needs,not about ... (read in full...)
Why are some guys sooo obsessed with anal?
Q. Why are some guys sooo obsessed with anal? Some guys out there think it's great to fuck girls in the ass and some are really sick enough to have such things like magnam flashlights in girls asses on their porn files etc so what's the deal about...
A. 18 February 2008: Lots of men and women see anal sex as Homosexual,well,it's not. And it's just another area of both gender's bodies that have lots of nerve-endings that help to induce sexual arousal and give both gender added sexual pleasure,alone or together in ... (read in full...)
I experimented with myself and now I don't know how to feel. Any advice?
Q. Hi. Last night I found myself experimenting with my body. I suddenly had all these urges which were probably brought on by the fact that I haven't had sex in nearly a year. At one point, I even tried finding and stimulating my g-spot...... And I'm ...
A. 18 February 2008: Gee! women have G-Spots but never heard of us men having such a spot,anally speaking. You have been doing some anal exploration,And it's quite normal for lots of men to do that,so nothing to be ashamed of,as the rectum is a great area,for both men ... (read in full...)
I have a small penis,,how can I satisfy a female?
Q. Hi im a guy in my late teens and im really embarrassed ive got a very small penis just on 2 inches fully erect ive never had a girlfriend im to embarrassed what can i do can i even satisfy a girl?...
A. 17 February 2008: How about doing this and then you won't have a problem with the size of your penis. If you become enlightened as to a woman's vaginal make-up,then you will see that even your nose can bring her to an orgasm,and I am sure it is much shorter than your ... (read in full...)
Any tips for getting over being messed over by a guy?
Q. Hi, Has anybody got any tips for getting over being messed about by a guy. I keep thinking about him all the time. Sometimes I'm angry at what he did, sometimes I remember the chemistry we had and I'm hoping he will call me, other times I'm trying...
A. 17 February 2008: Me like AskEve would like to know more about how he messed you up.... (read in full...)
Unsure...
Q. Dear Cupid I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years, I love him dearly. He stays in my house every night except for every other weekend when he stays in his own house while his two step children from a previous relationship visit. He has t...
A. 17 February 2008: I"m think that what you ended with," What's in it for me"? pretty well sums up your awareness that there is not much in that relationship for you, but you just haven't decided as of yet,to cut-and- run. Please move on with your life,as you don't ... (read in full...)
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