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Should I call it quits or try to work it out?

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Question - (26 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I haven't talked to my boyfriend since Friday. He's mad at me but I don't know why. Everything was fine on Friday then all of a sudden he's mad. He always does this and it frustrates me so much and he never tells me why he's mad. He just goes on like nothing happened so I was thinking about breaking up with him but I don't know if I should. I need help. Should I call it quits or try to work it out?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008):

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thanks for all your advise it really helped me

i decided i would try to talk to him one last time an we worked it out

thanks lotts

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A female reader, jenna34 United States +, writes (26 February 2008):

He's going to make you feel crazy, get out of this now. He's selfish and he's picking fights so he can push the envelope and see how much he can get away with. this type of guy doesn't want to communicate, he wants you to think there is something wrong with you.

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A male reader, leonard j. Douglas  +, writes (26 February 2008):

When I was younger,

Back in time.

It was me, me, me,

Not your's and mine.

I ruled the roost,

She had little say.

A man can be blind,

Then wonder why she went away.

Now is the time to speak your mind,

So even a Jackass can understand.

What you need and what you want,

And you won't be ating out of his hand.

Do see if he is open,

to hear what's on your mind.

If he can't do that,

Then leave him behind.

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A female reader, dearkelja United States +, writes (26 February 2008):

dearkelja agony auntIt sounds to me like you two need some work on your communications. This is like a cornerstone of a relationship and the fact that he is (dare I say) pouting and withholding information from you is kind of a red flag. How will he be when the big stuff hits the fan? I'm thinking he needs to work on dealing with confrontation.

Calling it quits is up to you. But if this is a pattern and you can not resolve this you will have a pretty emotionally immature partner.

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